Recent content by Chuwa

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    Exchanged Contacts. What Next?

    @4vibes Have you tried this method before?
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    Exchanged Contacts. What Next?

    That maybe a hard method to pull off.
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    Exchanged Contacts. What Next?

    Thanks owlet. I am working on number 2. At the moment, the medical condition I have is restricting me from what I love doing which is sports. This is why I uneasy lately.
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    Exchanged Contacts. What Next?

    I have a medical condition which alcohol is not allowed.
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    Exchanged Contacts. What Next?

    I don't drink alcohol. And even if I could, I can't drink at the moment.
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    Exchanged Contacts. What Next?

    You guys are lucky because you live in Tokyo. Everything within easy access without having to worry about time. When you live out in the country where there is nothing, there ain't much to do.
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    Exchanged Contacts. What Next?

    I have been trying years to bring out my inner me. I've tried many times but I just can't stop the silence during conversations. I've been told by many people that I'm too nice for my own good.
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    Exchanged Contacts. What Next?

    I am not good at approaching. I just can't look people in the eyes.
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    Exchanged Contacts. What Next?

    All I want is just to be able approach anyone and carry one a simple conversation and keep eye contact with the opposite sex without pretending to be something I am not.
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    Exchanged Contacts. What Next?

    That's the catch 22. PUA say you don't need money or image to get women.
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    Exchanged Contacts. What Next?

    No, it doesn't matter. Image, money and confidence is everything. I have not none.
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    Exchanged Contacts. What Next?

    Yes, I am confident in things. But that confidence cannot be channeled to social interaction with the opposite sex.
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    Exchanged Contacts. What Next?

    Nothing works because I don't talk period. Everyone says confidence is a must. But where does that confidence come from when one is naturally quiet and doesn't talk at all.
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    Exchanged Contacts. What Next?

    Nothing works. I just don't know how to carry a conversation at all.
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    Exchanged Contacts. What Next?

    I still don't understand anything anymore. People can make it look so easy but it can be very hard for someone on the other hand. Some say you need confidence while some say just be yourself. When I meet someone for the first time and exchange contact, I would ask basic questions to find out...