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    How to handle falling for your SB?

    We are still sugar dating.. now 3+ years and I never thought it would go on this long. I do wonder when/how it will end as it must someday. I have a feeling the whole covid situation prolonged the relationship. I can't really travel to Japan. The regular job market (for her) is only...
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    How to handle falling for your SB?

    Hey Everyone. Just thought I check in here. I have not been to Japan recently (damn Covid). So no mongering adventures to report. I really miss Tokyo. Whats taking so long for everyone to get the vaccine there? I am still sugar dating the same SB that I posted about two years ago. We...
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    Sugaring vs Escorting : what do you prefer?

    Oh and my reply to this thread. Both escorting and sugar dating are fun. Escorting is easier, but more expensive. But I think I prefer sugar dating. With the right person it can develop into a real relationship in some ways.
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    How to handle falling for your SB?

    Since Frenchy was wondering, here is an update about my relationship with my SB. 12/13 will make it a year since we started dating. And I didnt think it would last this long. It’s been a emotional rollercoaster ride, but i dont regret it. I prefer feeling something good or bad than being...
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    Sugaring vs Escorting : what do you prefer?

    Thanks for thinking of me. Im still around and seeing the same SB. Ill post an update in the thread you referred to above.
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    Help! Libido getting lower

    I know for me when I had performance issues it was a combo of lower libido because of my age and not being in the best shape. In the last year, ive started lifting weights, more excercise (tennis), lost weight, and stopped watching porn. I also take a daily magnesium/calcium/zinc/vitamin D...
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    How to handle falling for your SB?

    I understand what you are saying. But we have been seeing each other for 8 months straight, 1-2 times per week consistently. So its evolved to something past pure P4P. Its a confusing grey area between P4P and a FWB/GF. I know some guys are gonna say stop being delusional, its only about...
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    How to handle falling for your SB?

    That's a good a mature way of handling it. I'll have to say something similar to mine, although I've told her before that I hope we will always be friends if our SR ever comes to and end (she got emotional and teared up). And regarding the texts, she always responds eventually, just takes...
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    How to handle falling for your SB?

    I’m curious, how did you ask her to end it? I know I posted that my SR would end soon. I even renewed my premium SA membership and been looking for another POT. But its really hard to find a good SB in my City. So for now I will still see my current. She just disappoints me sometimes...
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    Communication etiquette between SB/SD

    Haha, I have done this before, delay replying when they do it to me. One time my SB gave delayed responses all week. Then as we got close to our usual weekend date, she asked when we were gonna meet next. Like Frenchy I usually reply quickly (its a reflex probably related to my business...
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    How to handle falling for your SB?

    Hi All Unfortunately my situation with my SB has not resolved the way I wanted. Things calmed down for a few weeks. But then she brought up the idea of being stripper again. She became friends with a girl who is already dancing and that continually encourages her to also become a dancer, ie...
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    How to handle falling for your SB?

    No problem Frenchy. Glad to have your input. What ive done lately with my SB is say less about my “feelings”. But i do politely tell her what i expect/want as far as her actions. And she has been trying her best to comply. So its all good for now anyway.
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    How to handle falling for your SB?

    Yes, I'm trying very hard to keep it lowkey and try to not fall any deeper. When I am with her, I forgot all these bothersome thoughts and we really do have fun. Its' when I am not with her that's the problem. If I can just stop thinking about it, and keep my mouth shut, lol.
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    How to handle falling for your SB?

    Im thinking about just taking break from seeing her a couple weeks. Then see how I feel. And I logically understand and agree with what truehentai posted. I’ve reminded myself many times, “she is only seeing you for the money”. Sometimes im ok with it. Then other times the feelings mess...
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    How to handle falling for your SB?

    Wow that's very bittersweet. Reminds me of the saying "Don't be sad for the loss, Be glad for the experience" Can't remember whose quote that is. I know I will have some really sweet memories of times spent with my current SB.
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