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    Have a date in Jinbocho and can't seem to find a nearby hotel using Maps or websites, any tip?

    Thanks for the tip. We finally ended up going to Yushima, wandering from already full hotel to already full hotel, until we decided to meet again at a more strategic moment than Saturday 10PM : )
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    Have a date in Jinbocho and can't seem to find a nearby hotel using Maps or websites, any tip?

    Thanks, it's a 15 minutes cab ride, might be a bit far…
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    Have a date in Jinbocho and can't seem to find a nearby hotel using Maps or websites, any tip?

    Lol. Somewhere between a dump and an luxury one would be fine :D Something decent enough to not make a bad impression, but without taking my money as if it was made of thin air ^^ To be frank I'm just super broke rn
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    Have a date in Jinbocho and can't seem to find a nearby hotel using Maps or websites, any tip?

    Lol yeah, karaoke is always an option, but I'm not so much into being under cameras :) Go figure! 🤷‍♂️ She proposed the izakaya (not a pricey one like oh take me to a gourmet stuff), and it's there. But also a matter of transportation as we don't live in the same area
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    Have a date in Jinbocho and can't seem to find a nearby hotel using Maps or websites, any tip?

    Ok, thank you, yes there are few options in Yushima indeed, and Pasha Gran is a pretty short taxi ride. At first Pasha Gran's seemed a bit pricey, but looking further it's actually pretty normal for the area, right? I'm quite on a budget.
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    Have a date in Jinbocho and can't seem to find a nearby hotel using Maps or websites, any tip?

    So I have a date in Jinbocho, not far from the station. It's a first date after talking a lot on Line (originally a tinder match and I wasn't in Japan for a while), it seems we're getting along well, and now we'll see about real life. I don't know whether sex on 1st date will be on the program...
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    Language question about how to call (name) the girl you're approaching

    Ok I see, thanks for clarifying :) And thanks for all your thoughtful answers, I very much appreciate!
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    Language question about how to call (name) the girl you're approaching

    Hey, sorry I was on the rush these days. Yes, that's why I said I got it that you like omae, I figured you liked agressive style. By the way may I ask if you're Japanese or a foreigner? Your English sounds more like native English, and even if you're Japanese I get that you're not typical and...
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    Language question about how to call (name) the girl you're approaching

    Oh, ok. Like, your name-chan once they know it, or, something-chan right away? I feel like basically it's ok to chan if the girl is already interested in you or is already enjoying chatting with you, but using it right away can be too familiar at first. You think I'm wrong?
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    Language question about how to call (name) the girl you're approaching

    Haha yes, I think I get why you like that, but I won't use it as a rule:) And also it's not just my type to do that, unless maybe I had a couple of drinks and can do it with some humor and she may laugh. Yet sometimes if we're not walking I just look at her and say a plain and frank konnichiha...
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    Language question about how to call (name) the girl you're approaching

    Yeah, in other words, "normal things" :) It's not always the case to have something to naturally react to to start a convo, but of course that's the best scenario, or at least to find one on the spot, like oh nice shoes or whatever can give you an starting point. That's also what I try to do...
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    Language question about how to call (name) the girl you're approaching

    If it's not too much asking to you and to her, I would be glad to know what kind of approach your GF considered fine, I mean before she was involved in a relationship with you. If not with any -san or -chan, I don't mean a line or trick to apply of course, and you adapt to the context and to...
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    Language question about how to call (name) the girl you're approaching

    I get that, and that's also what I would have thought, and one reason for which I wasn't using it. Actually the main circumstances and almost the only ones in which I heard it, was more 50's guys calling the waitress or the 50's-60's shop owner (izakaya and such). It didn't sound bad in...
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    Language question about how to call (name) the girl you're approaching

    Yes ok, I know what you mean. And I'm also under the impression that sometimes using -chan is putting you more in a friend zone than in a potential partner zone, which is also not what you want. Depends on the girls and contexts, air-reading again. And of course on how you use it, voice tone...
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    Language question about how to call (name) the girl you're approaching

    First thank you very much for your developed answer, and thanks to your GF for her kind contribution. Regarding chan generally, yes, indeed I have friendly relationships with some women older than me that are -chan, just as something casual or kind. And on the other hand, some girls prefer...
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