Recent content by Gulp

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    I voted for introvert. But I can out-extrovert most people on this planet. Whenever I do, I have a plan and/or a target. I suppose that means most of the times;)
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    Still Married

    ~e-------------------- Bom, --thump, --thump Ok, this has got to stop. I wish that I had never started this thread, because I hate it that I let this define me. I want to restart my life, but it is very difficult to do so becaus I let this be on the surface of everything. I have accepted the...
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    Still Married

    I have made some kind of decision to do good and not be a total creep. I have signed up for some private lessons in Japanese and I intend to crack this language before I crack myself (it might also do me good in family court). I might check out Curacao's tip. It does make some sense.
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    Still Married

    I am actually surprised, I have been living with this for such a long time that it is beginning to seem completely normal to me. Wwanderer: Thanks, I actually think I read this long before the situation exploded in my face. I had sort of forgotten about their existence. It might be a good idea...
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    Still Married

    Thanks for the support, I really appreciate this. really. Just going mad about if it's a crime to show up outside your own property. I have been under a lot of abuse through this visa threat. Since then I have understood that it's not really an issue for me at all. I don't want to enter the...
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    Still Married

    And I don't really care about the property, I know that it's lost. I just want to see the kids, and I want them to see me. I'm still here
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    Still Married

    It's her mortgage, but I guess I own part of this property and the cars.
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    Still Married

    Last year, when I was about to renew my spousal visa. My narcissistic wife suddenly decided that she would not sign the necessary papers for my visa extension and told me to move home to my home country. I panicked, refused, and begged her to change her mind. At the time she was pregnant with...