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Hey guys ~ Hope everyone is well.
Just edited & uploaded a little infield clip taken from the streets of Shibuya, Japan where I met a cute girl out and about and bombarded her with ridiculousness.
I think a lot of guys can get caught up in taking the whole idea of pickup and game a bit too seriously, and it's important to realize that while analytical thought definitely helps to highlight areas of improvement, you should always try to make it FUN above all else for you and the girl. Ideally, no matter the outcome she should leave with a smile on her face & look back on the experience fondly.
These days I'm honestly so bored by normal conversations that I HAVE to be ridiculous and off-the-wall just to keep things interesting. This tends to work out pretty well with girls. Most guys start out too nervous to even really think in front of a beautiful woman. So the process goes
Nervous beyond belief (what do I do to make her like me & end the pain of being alone) --->
Talking to girls is normal (How many do I have to talk to before one likes me? Rejections still hurt) ---->
Normal interactions are boring so let's just enjoy myself and the girl's energy (What is this girl all about? What's her vibe like? How much amusement can we have together?)
At the end of the day though, game is something which is NATURAL. Men like women. Talking to women is normal & healthy. Trying to restrict that is weird and totalitarian.
Go forth & spread fun and good experiences to everyone
Just edited & uploaded a little infield clip taken from the streets of Shibuya, Japan where I met a cute girl out and about and bombarded her with ridiculousness.
I think a lot of guys can get caught up in taking the whole idea of pickup and game a bit too seriously, and it's important to realize that while analytical thought definitely helps to highlight areas of improvement, you should always try to make it FUN above all else for you and the girl. Ideally, no matter the outcome she should leave with a smile on her face & look back on the experience fondly.
These days I'm honestly so bored by normal conversations that I HAVE to be ridiculous and off-the-wall just to keep things interesting. This tends to work out pretty well with girls. Most guys start out too nervous to even really think in front of a beautiful woman. So the process goes
Nervous beyond belief (what do I do to make her like me & end the pain of being alone) --->
Talking to girls is normal (How many do I have to talk to before one likes me? Rejections still hurt) ---->
Normal interactions are boring so let's just enjoy myself and the girl's energy (What is this girl all about? What's her vibe like? How much amusement can we have together?)
At the end of the day though, game is something which is NATURAL. Men like women. Talking to women is normal & healthy. Trying to restrict that is weird and totalitarian.
Go forth & spread fun and good experiences to everyone