Getting better at sex

Frenchy said:
My answer is simple: find good partners who are already better at it and learn from them :)
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finding the good partners is the hardest part.... and rather than learning from them... hopefully it is learning together... If you have some chemistry and communication, then learning from that experience and taking the knowledge to the next one just builds your skillz and different abilities to excite...
 
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User#8628 said:
Seriously?

Personally the more i play the more horny i get. Once i orgasm i do want to get multiple orgasms a day and sometimes the first round is only a warming up ;)
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Agree 100 %... if with multi-orgasmic woman then it becomes like a contest of sorts... I'm not the competitive type by any means... but being able to help a woman orgasm again and again is fantastic.... after 10 then we are usually both really tired... :D one time it was 86 over 4 days... (different woman) once she got started it was like you couldn't turn it off.... a perpetual orgasm machine if you will... we still talk bout that one and her friends thinks she is not telling the truth when she tells them... then she laughs again... :D

So AIW... what's your record ? :p
 
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BB0523 said:
Agree 100 %... if with multi-orgasmic woman then it becomes like a contest of sorts... I'm not the competitive type by any means... but being able to help a woman orgasm again and again is fantastic.... after 10 then we are usually both really tired... :D one time it was 86 over 4 days... (different woman) once she got started it was like you couldn't turn it off.... a perpetual orgasm machine if you will... we still talk bout that one and her friends thinks she is not telling the truth when she tells them... then she laughs again... :D

So AIW... what's your record ? :p
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Interesting experience...
but would you say that getting a maximum of orgasms is the only end goal? I dont judge one way or the other, but this seems a bit limitating to me. I prefer less orgasms but with higher intensity/affection/chemistry etc...
of course quantity is not necessarily the enemy of quality though :D
 
Frenchy said:
Interesting experience...
but would you say that getting a maximum of orgasms is the only end goal? I dont judge one way or the other, but this seems a bit limitating to me. I prefer less orgasms but with higher intensity/affection/chemistry etc...
of course quantity is not necessarily the enemy of quality though :D
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It was not the end goal by any means... it just happened... these are two different women and with the 86'er she was the one counting... long story, but she was coming off a 3 year dry spell (women are like sex camels) so she told me at the end of our time the total number.

The current one... its just sort of a game I play... she is not aware of it... her eyes roll up when she starts to orgasm (after 1st one) it's a little freakish at first then... once the eyes roll it's like game on for me... and I see how many I can give her as fast as I can... I don't tell her this... it's just a game in my head... maybe weird... I've never verbalized this before...

Anyway, it's never the end game... the end game is for me to pop :p which doesn't always happen..... But she takes it as a challenge... such a good girl :D
 
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For me having empathy and paying attention to a partner is more important than penis size or the number of orgasms I have. Vaginas are mysterious: Every woman (and man) is wired slightly differently and vagina keeps changing throughout your life and sometimes throughout the monthly cycle. Heraclitus, a Greek philosopher said, “No man ever steps in the same river twice”, I’m pretty sure he didn’t have vagina in mind at the time but this quote also applies to our “lady parts”. When I’m having a good time, then I’m having a good time. I do not disassociate sex from other aspects of being a human or the overall experience of companionship.
 
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