Mongering in Columbia
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Do you mean British Columbia or the South American country, Colombia?
If the latter, have a read.
I'm assuming that you mean Colombia.
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I have been there for work. There was no mongering in that time. I did not try, but it seemed like something I would NOT want to do. It felt about as safe as driving through Sweet Auburn in Atlanta with a confederate flag painted on my car. Of course, that was twelve years ago, and things might have changed.
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I have friends whose families FLED Columbia, and have never been back again, if that helps. If I were you and had a hankering for overseas Latin ass, I'd rather take my chances in Rio or Sao Paulo...and I've heard even there you can easily get yourself kidnapped or shot.
Or you could just play it safe and try hooking up with drunk Puerto Rican girls right here in the USofA. They're not unlike Filipino girls, except when they have meltdowns they prefer fists or throwable objects, rather than the nearest blade or anything sharp and shiny.
Or you could just play it safe and try hooking up with drunk Puerto Rican girls right here in the USofA. They're not unlike Filipino girls, except when they have meltdowns they prefer fists or throwable objects, rather than the nearest blade or anything sharp and shiny.
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Safety has improved a lot in the last few years. Still some precautions, depending on the cities. Medellin and Cali can be the most conflictive for a foreigner. Bogota is quite similar to Rio, if you only move in the North of the city. Cartagena is the safest. Even so, move only by taxi, but never stop a taxi on the street. Use the apps or ask one to the hotel receptionist. The Colombian girls I meet were hot, sweet, and fun. If you want to prick your pin on the world map, tip the hotel concierge to guide you or arrange the party for you. Other option is to use a dating website recommended in forums (Google Chrome translation is quite good). Call the girl to your hotel (keep safe your valuables). Never go to sex shops alone or you may end up visiting ATMs with a henchman doing the millionaire's walk. All this without forgetting that maybe it is not the best time to socialize there due to COVID.
Thanks for the responses guys. So seems like a mixed bag where it’s not to safe or safe. Reason I asked is cause there is a Colombian girl I frequently see online on AFF live chat. She’s 20 years old, but she mentioned she’s been with older guys before. We’ve had deep private conversations, not just cybersex lol and we have kinda developed a relationship if you will. I know it sounds naive and it very well may be but she wants to meet in person. I told her to come to Hawaii, but she can’t because of work so she wants me to come to Columbia. Hence the reason why I asked the question if Columbia is safe or not. Don’t want to go and get myself killed cause it was a scam or something. So far I’ve mostly been spot on throughout my life about judging a persons character and she seems genuine, but I always think with my head between my ears and not the one between my legs. She’s in Cali which I’ve read and some confirmation here that it is dangerous for tourist. Should I meet her in Cartegena or not at all? It’s not something I plan to do like tomorrow but try to develop the relationship more in the future so I feel 100% confident in meeting her.
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It's not safe and, more importantly, not worthwhile. If the girl is playing you then it's a potentially very dangerous scam. If not, she's got serious daddy issues and that's even worse. You're better off tempting disaster with domestic girls on domestic soil, where you at least have rights, legitimate police, courts and access to an attorney if you need one.
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She can't come because of work.
That's because her job is to entice guys she thinks have too much money and too little sense to come to Colombia where the rest of her crew will kidnap them from their hotel for a couple of days.
Then you get taken on a grand tour of the city's ATMs, where you'll be withdrawing as much as possible from each and every one, until your accounts are drained and your cards are maxed.
They'll also force you to log into your phone and any other devices to look for online banking software to check balances, and if you don't have the cards for those accounts, they'll force you to make some transfers to the ones that you do have the cards for.
The good news is that as long as you cooperate, they probably won't kill you once they get what they want.
Seriously - Cali is the most dangerous city in Colombia. Their LOW murder rate is on par with St. Louis (the highest murder rate of any city in the US), and straight up violent crime is more than any US city.
And keep in mind that that "low" murder rate is calculated based on the bodies they can find... a lot of victims are simply "missing" because they can't find a body - the local caimans are very efficient disposal systems.
Why would you even consider this?
Sound advice guys. Always good to get many perspectives. Thanks for the comment, it's appreciated. I just figured if they are on the AFF site then there is some legitimacy on whose working for them. Like I mentioned I will vet it much more before anything is done, if anything is done. I always err on the side of caution.
psd - yes done many video chats with her. Whenever I enter her "room" she always smiles cause she sees my name and immediately sends me a chat message. She doesn't do that with other users. Also never pushes me or anyone to tip, private, etc. She's just happy to be there and work. She will have private conversations with me online and always ask me how she can make me happy. So for example, I will say I want to see her in a pretty dress and sexy lingerie underneath, to go get some chocolate, strawberries and whip cream so we can have a good time and she does it. She doesn't do that for other guys cause I see the guys request and she doesn't comply or just doesn't respond to them. She doesn't like some of the guys online and she'll tell me she doesn't like so and so cause they are disrespectful and will block them. Psd - Why does it matter if I video chat or text her, does your answer depend on it? Other Columbian web cam girls I've asked if Columbia is safe for tourist like myself and they all say its safe.
Still I'll have to vet things for a longer period before I feel 100% sure it's ok or even entertain the idea of a meet and greet in person. I did this with a married woman for over a year here in Hawaii with her husbands knowledge before we had a meet and greet and 3 days of passionate sex. It was a one time thing to satisfy each others desires since we had been communicating and sexting for over a year.
Still I'll have to vet things for a longer period before I feel 100% sure it's ok or even entertain the idea of a meet and greet in person. I did this with a married woman for over a year here in Hawaii with her husbands knowledge before we had a meet and greet and 3 days of passionate sex. It was a one time thing to satisfy each others desires since we had been communicating and sexting for over a year.
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You know when people say don’t follow a tout. Yeah, this idea sounds even worse.
At this point, I don't even think safety is your issue here. It seems you've cooked up this fantasy of this cam girl being your girlfriend or something. Isn't there anyone in Hawaii you can date in real life?
So that means, she is on video and you are on text? Have you ever done a one on one video chat with her? Does she like what she sees? As you mentioned that you are special to her compared to others, have you got any of her social media contacts? Fb, line etc?
I did go down this path with a working lady once, so I understand what you are feeling. But in my case, she skipped her schedule and came stayed with me, and didnt ask for money. So if your relationship moves in such a direction, it's good, but otherwise, I would advice you not to.
Intmaintokyo - yes she's been on video and I am texting. One on one in video private chats and she requested a picture so gave me her instagram account so I could send her a pic. One other columbian woman has also given me her Instagram cause I can never see her live, some kind of glitch, but not close enough with that one to send a picture yet. We had a morning private, which was her suggestion and she said she would have romantic breakfast prepared. My request was that she wear a nice dress as I usually only see her in lingerie, buy some chocolate syrup and she said she would bring whipped cream. Well I was pleasantly surprised. Lights dimmed, candlelight, red and white balloons and she dressed in a yellow sun dress. She had fun with the whipped cream shooting some in her mouth and on her nipples and chocolate syrup and cammed herself washing off in the shower working a vibrator inside herself. I asked her to shoot some in her panties which she did all over herself. And Newbie, when you live on an island you never play in your backyard because everyone will know your business including your significant other.
Thanks for the reply guys
Thanks for the reply guys
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Judging some solely from the OP’s username, I assume he might be based in Hawaii. If so, then the Philippines would a lot closer than Columbia. The country would be worth considering once the COVID-related restrictions there are over.
Manila is a mess and dangerous compared to Tokyo or even Bangkok, but if you use some big city sense, you should be OK. Other parts of the country are nicer, IMHO. For P4P, then Angeles City (a little north of Metro Manila) is probably the best destination. Yet, I don’t know what shape things will be in after the pandemic is the done.
English is widely spoken in the Philippines.
The local culture has some Latin flavor to it given the long history of Spanish colonialism. Prices for just about anything would be cheaper there than in either Hawaii or Japan.
Manila is a mess and dangerous compared to Tokyo or even Bangkok, but if you use some big city sense, you should be OK. Other parts of the country are nicer, IMHO. For P4P, then Angeles City (a little north of Metro Manila) is probably the best destination. Yet, I don’t know what shape things will be in after the pandemic is the done.
English is widely spoken in the Philippines.
The local culture has some Latin flavor to it given the long history of Spanish colonialism. Prices for just about anything would be cheaper there than in either Hawaii or Japan.
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Again thanks for all the replies. Yes Sugoiboy I live in Hawaii. We have a sizable Filipino community here but really not interested in mongering in the Philippines cause I don’t find Filipinas very attractive, at least the ones I’ve seen in Hawaii who probably come from the country villages. If mixed race maybe a different story.
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If you like mixed girls, then there are some in the PI. My very first Manila freelancer was a mestiza girl who appeared more White than Asian. Up in Angeles City one time I met a Blasian go-go dancer who said she had an American dad.
The mestiza look is quite popular. Many of the Filipino celebs are actually mixed. The actress Marian Rivera is a good example of that trend.
The mestiza look is quite popular. Many of the Filipino celebs are actually mixed. The actress Marian Rivera is a good example of that trend.