Wedding Rings & P4p Sessions

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Sometimes I notice a few clients sporting wedding rings while we're together. Obviously, I don't ask them about the bling or their marriages, but it does make me wonder.. did they intend to leave it on? Or have they been married for so long that they forget all about their rings? :p

Anyone can reply to the thread, but if you're a married hobbyist.. I am more than interested in hearing your answer.

Do you wear your wedding ring to a P4P session? And if you do leave it on, please explain why.
 
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MissInsomnia said:
Sometimes I notice a few clients sporting wedding rings while we're together. Obviously, I don't ask them about the bling or their marriages, but it does make me wonder.. did they intend to leave it on? Or have they been married for so long that they forget all about their rings? :p

Anyone can reply to the thread, but if you're a married hobbyist.. I am more than interested in hearing your answer.

Do you wear your wedding ring to a P4P session? And if you do leave it on, please explain why.
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Decades back when I was a relatively newbie monger, I used to take off my wedding ring before p4p encounters, mostly for fear of being robbed and having to explain what happened to it. However, after a while, I started leaving it on. I guess there were multiple reasons. One was that there is normally a clear mark on your finger from a ring you wear all the time, paler skin and a bit indented...so taking it off doesn't really hide anything. Second, all escorts know that many/most of their customers are married, so why would they care about which ones are and aren't. Third, it just seemed more honest; lying may be justified sometimes, but lying to someone needlessly is disrespectful imo. Fourth, leaving it on is less trouble, and there is no danger that you forget to put it back on afterwards.

-Ww
 
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I think after wearing them a long time they can be difficult to take off.
And indeed, you could lose it or forget to put it back on.

Personally (it's maybe selfish) it puts me at ease if i see a client wear a ring because i feel like they have more to lose if they'd do something bad to me and there is less chance they'll get obsessed with me and do stalky things.
 
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User#8628 said:
Personally (it's maybe selfish) it puts me at ease if i see a client wear a ring because i feel like they have more to lose if they'd do something bad to me and there is less chance they'll get obsessed with me and do stalky things.
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You're not being selfish.. what you're saying makes sense >__< haha

I never thought about that. Will start to keep that in mind.
 
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I don't see any reason to take it off and it's riskier to do so because of the risk if losing it or forgetting to put it back on.

though I had a 'friend' who demand that I take if the ring whenever I was with her because she did not want people to think she was cheating with a married man (since she was not wearing a ring)

but even this i thought was silly because my wife also does not wear a ring (though I do) and I am sure nobody has ever checked or suspected us of being in an inappropriate relationship

only people who are lying about being married would take of the ring

or maybe some people think it is somehow more sinful to cheat while wearing your ring than taking it off
 
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Didn't wedding rings only become popular in Japan in the last decade or two? I'm just wondering if there's some providers out there that don't know what a ring on the left ring finger symbolizes...
 
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I would have never done it before I met my current wife. Before, during my previous marriage, I was keeping my ring in any situation. When my current wife was my mistress, she made a point that she didn't want to see my ring when I was with her as a mark of respect.

Since, I naturally do it, even in p4p situations. I got conditioned...
 
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hkAlone said:
I would have never done it before I met my current wife. Before, during my previous marriage, I was keeping my ring in any situation. When my current wife was my mistress, she made a point that she didn't want to see my ring when I was with her as a mark of respect.

Since, I naturally do it, even in p4p situations. I got conditioned...
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An interesting story and worth a new thread!
 
MissInsomnia said:
Sometimes I notice a few clients sporting wedding rings while we're together. Obviously, I don't ask them about the bling or their marriages, but it does make me wonder.. did they intend to leave it on? Or have they been married for so long that they forget all about their rings? :p

Anyone can reply to the thread, but if you're a married hobbyist.. I am more than interested in hearing your answer.

Do you wear your wedding ring to a P4P session? And if you do leave it on, please explain why.
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I never wear mine but I guess they may be affraid of losing it or forgetting it in the room
 
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Interesting topic.

I always leave it on. Removing it doesn't make any sense to me. And I always assume that the sight of it won't change (for better or worse) the attitude of the provider.

With regards to guilt, I guess I would never be able to engage in p4p if I weren't able to cope with it.
 
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I imagine guys take them off with girls they are seeing but leave it on for P4P since they have no attachment nor should they care about what the girl thinks.
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This was the first thought that I had after reading the initial post.

Most of my married clients leave their ring on, which is absolutely fine with me. It's one less thing to get lost, so the wearer can relax.
To me, keeping the ring on says: "My marriage is my most important relationship, and my relationship with you is just business."
 
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