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    What happend?

    I realize that I waited to long and escalated too quickly NOW. Couldn't agree more. She already HAS ghosted on me. Looks like I really tramatized her. In a way I'm glad it's over. It was an unbalanced relationship of her getting all she wanted me hoping for something that was never going to be...
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    What happend?

    Many thanks Ww! I was certain that you would have an extremely unique perspective and you did. I did LINE her a few days later apologizing for upsetting her. No reply. I'll propably just leave it at that as chasing her would probably make it worse. If she eventually responds I'll let you know...
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    What happend?

    All of your comments were extremely helpful in coming up with a theory of what happened. Thank you all! Alice had great insight from a woman's perspective and I would agree with her that the young girl just didn't see it coming and it blew her away. Thanks BB0253 for your positive outlook...
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    What happend?

    Thanks all for your comments! Very helpful!
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    What happend?

    Thanks for you quick replies guys. It was theraputic just to have a place here to spill my frustration. Thinking back, I'm sure she has daddy issues. She has no father, has never been told anything about her father and has her mother's maiden name. Perhaps I became her "daddy" and it freaked...
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    What happend?

    About a year ago a single attractive 27 y.o. Japanese girl that I work with asked me if I would teach her English. I'm a 47 y.o.white American (if that matters), and married - she knew I am married. Even though she's not the drop-dead-gorgeous type by most guys' standards I had always found her...
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    How Do I Win Back A Japanese Girl's Heart?

    Since we're all involved now, maybe you could tell us what you said or did to this poor girl.
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    How Do I Win Back A Japanese Girl's Heart?

    She's right, you've apologized enough. The best thing to do now is leave her alone. Continuing to apologize and pursue her makes you look desparate, which drives her further away. Give her some time (at least a month) to breathe.
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    [] The Danger Zone []

    You may be disappointed. Based on my observation as a long-term expat American, most women your age or under are not that crazy about America and less so about marriage. And even if they're interested in marriage at all, it's not to an unassimilated gaijin on a wife-hunting mission. If...
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    Wife Rejecting Husband's Sex Requests

    That Billy Crystal quote was from ‘When Harry Met Sally’. He said, ‘Women need a reason to have sex, men just need a place’