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    Tinder : The Dating App (short Review)

    A lot of women will hide or lie about their true intentions in regards to sex because they fear being negatively judged by you or other people (sometimes being way too paranoid). Some women (and men) are also way too sexually repressed due to how they are raised, where sexuality or sexual...
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    Tinder : The Dating App (short Review)

    There is a NAMPA/PUA section here to get you up to speed and help out.
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    The Secret To Men's Sex Appeal? Study Finds Surprising Answer

    He was arrested for trespassing. That's an extreme case of a creepy dude, who was where he didn't belong. Same would happen if some random guy off the street came into a workplace/office where he doesn't belong or work at. The story was sensationalized by making it about "nampa". However...
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    The Secret To Men's Sex Appeal? Study Finds Surprising Answer

    If you knew more about PUA, you would know that "storytelling" is essential to gauging, developing rapport, and even influencing women on dates. Often the best PUAs are good conversationalists. One night stand or not. Many PUAs don't call it "storytelling" per se, but often describe it as...
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    Dating When All You Want Is Hook Ups / Casual / No Commitment

    In a way, I agree, but only to a certain extent. There is no need to be an asshole or inconsiderate about the process (man or woman). And there is an art or more to finding a good sex-partner or sex-friend. She can think the lack of good sex is because of him, when a significant amount of...
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    Would You Stay Friends With An Ex?

    I've always been amazed how people who claimed to have loved each other, can then hate each other so much later. Something seems seriously wrong with that.
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    Dating When All You Want Is Hook Ups / Casual / No Commitment

    You can, try: OkCupid, POF, Facebook, Tinder, Happn, AdultFriendFinder, etc... [emoji13]
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    Dating When All You Want Is Hook Ups / Casual / No Commitment

    This is another aspect, done by many women, that is overlooked. If the relationship is going to be just about sex, some women are absolutely vicious and ruthless to men about it. Surprisingly more so than men will be, except for the most extreme assholes (often rich spoiled brats and/or...
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    Dating When All You Want Is Hook Ups / Casual / No Commitment

    This is true, but many people will be confused about what they actually want to do or are purposely disguising their intentions (man or woman). They will say what they think the other person wants to hear, what they think is socially acceptable, or can even be just toying with people. A lot...
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    Dating When All You Want Is Hook Ups / Casual / No Commitment

    I didn't say sex was the only goal of the guy, that's what you said. The guy might have many goals or want a long term relationship more than she does. It depends. My point is more of whether or not the goals and feelings of attraction between the man or woman are aligned. Use of the word...
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    Dating When All You Want Is Hook Ups / Casual / No Commitment

    "Should". We have to be careful about our assumptions and beliefs. She can think you should provide value, where she doesn't feel obligated to give equal in return or the guy feels she's not. Flipping it, she feels that she's given him more than she got in return. Relationships and...
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    Dating When All You Want Is Hook Ups / Casual / No Commitment

    I think it's not that many men and women don't want honest partners. It can be more a matter of can the other person handle honesty or the truth. Many people are simply childish, immature, or selfish. We also can't tell if the other person is truly honest or not. They can say they are...
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    Dating When All You Want Is Hook Ups / Casual / No Commitment

    Strangely and interestingly, I feel you are missing the point or are I'm unable to explain the other perspective on this well enough. Women can judge and reject men for being honest or truthful as well. It can be a catch-22. To be honest can be seen also as extreme desperation for sex, rude...
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    How Strict Is Your Wife?

    I think that only works if you are alone or live separately. When you are living with someone or married, the finances inevitably becomes commingled. And even if you try to keep it separate, the courts or law can interject and force the man or woman (usually man) to pay money. Example-...
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    How Strict Is Your Wife?

    In my opinion and from many conversations about this, a lot of men feel enslaved. It's as if the woman is their slave master. They are to slave at work, give her all of his money, and have no fun. This is arguably why suicide is higher among men. In such situations, they see life as...
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    Dating When All You Want Is Hook Ups / Casual / No Commitment

    Just as women fear being judged about their sexuality, so can men for different reasons. By being honest, women can judge him as desperate, creepy, perverted, too aggressive, a playboy, etc... It goes both ways.
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    Dating When All You Want Is Hook Ups / Casual / No Commitment

    I agree there is a middle ground. However, many women will try to get a full emotional commitment from guys, nearly from the beginning, even when she's not fully committed or still shopping around. This creates a situation where guys can feel compelled to lie for sex. And she herself may not...
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    Dating When All You Want Is Hook Ups / Casual / No Commitment

    Yes, but many women can feel cheated if they don't get what they want out of the relationship; if they have sex or see the relationship AFTERWARDS as giving up the vagina for free. Men can feel the same way afterwards, as if cheated out of money or time (many women overlook this side). It's a...
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    Dating When All You Want Is Hook Ups / Casual / No Commitment

    I'm in agreement that it would be nice if everyone was honest and direct, but people usually aren't. Even if one side is (man or woman), it doesn't mean who they are talking to will be.
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    Dating When All You Want Is Hook Ups / Casual / No Commitment

    Guys won't usually be honest or too open right away, because women are usually not direct or very open either. A guy often isn't sure about what a woman wants to do or thinks, and often, many women don't appear to be sure either. It almost never works for a guy to walk up to a woman and say...