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    Things they THINK turn you on....

    I totally agree, if it’s RP and with full consent it’s completely fine. But my only problem and concerns with what I saw at BO is that you are often interacting with strangers and not everyone is necessarily asking if what they are doing is okay. So, at that point, is it an assumption that what...
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    Things they THINK turn you on....

    Okay, I understand this might be a cultural thing but I just don’t get it. I’ve witnessed on several occasions at BO where the girl pretends to say “no” and pushes the guy away in protest but yet she seemed to want him to proceed and continue to pursue her. Is she really having an internal...
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    Things they THINK turn you on....

    Like several others here, I also find it gross when someone sticks their tongue into my ears. I’ve also had several providers play and lick my toes and all I want to do is run away when this happens. It’s also a huge turn off when a provider has a fake and over exaggerated loud moans.
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    Emotional heartstrings

    I understand your point of view. But consider the context “hurdle” exists if your main focus is on the exchange of money for certain services versus viewing it as a meeting of mutual benefits. If you enter into the meeting with the context where both parties (client and escort) are there...
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    Emotional heartstrings

    Ime, just because there is an exchange in money, it doesn’t mean you cannot feel or have a genuine connection with the clients or escorts. Regardless of the agreement and understanding of the circumstances, it is only natural as human beings to potentially experience a deeper connection under...
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    Calling VS. Texting

    I prefer to call especially during the early stages of any relationships. I don’t mind proceeding future communications via text to convey short messages once the relationship has been established. Overall, whether it’s a platonic or romantic relationship, I feel more connected to the other...
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    Relationships becoming boring

    In any relationship, we all have the choice to either take responsibility or act like the victim, regardless of the circumstances. Ime, taking the first route will leave me feeling much more empowered. It also creates the space for me to take actions that are aligned to what I am committed to...
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    Dating Then VS. Dating Now

    I came from a very strict family so I didn’t date much in high school. I had to sneak around to go on dates with my boyfriend at the time. We did simple and pretty common things amongst most teenagers like, going to the movies, hanging out at parties, homecoming dances, football games, and went...
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    Relationships becoming boring

    I don’t want to sound rude but perhaps you should consider taking responsibility for your own actions and stop seeking out traditional relationships with girls you probably know you are not in alignment with. If you believe that you “get bored” because your past and current girlfriends are less...
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    How do you convince your japanese gf/wife to engage in trio?

    We don’t live in Japan. We visit Japan once or twice per year. Have fun on your trip!! :)
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    How do you convince your japanese gf/wife to engage in trio?

    Imo, needing to coerce, persuade or convince anyone, male or female to partake in any form of sexual acts they have no interest or desire to do is never a good idea. Most girls I know are either a little bi curious or are completely not into the idea of being with another female. Everyone has...
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    The science of dating/relationships

    I totally agree with @BB0523!! (y) When I interact with people regardless of who they are, being a stranger or an old friend; the one trait I find refreshing and extremely magnetic is someone who is transparent and authentic. If you try to start any new relationship not being your authentic...
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    Does the Passion always fizzle-out?

    I think it is absolutely possible to keep the passion going after being together for a long period of time. My husband and I have been married for 18 years and we are still going strong and imo our sex life is better now than ever. I feel like we are rare in a sense that we create the space...
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    Dating or Marrying An Escort or Sex Worker - A Second Look

    I would not be closed off to any opportunity because of a label. Whether or not I pursue anything further is another story, but I would at least strongly consider any intriguing option before dismissing it. If I look introspectively, the reasons for avoiding personal relationships with a SW...
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    Viagra

    I never thought of it that way but it makes sense but it could also be a little biased since I am bisexual with the assumption your SB is too. I can also see how straight girls would want to impress not just men but also other ladies even if it's just for show or to be admired. I personally...
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    Viagra

    It's interesting that you say that, because I feel the same way. I am obviously attracted to my husband but if I had to rate other men and my level of attraction to a particular type, I would probably rate their personality and heart before their looks. As far as my attractions to girls, beyond...
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    Looking for 4P

    In that case, I am sure you will get a lot of offers from other TAG members who are willing to join you guys!! Have fun!! Just wait, your inbox will be bombarded with volunteers soon!! :D
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    Looking for 4P

    Are you looking for two other people to join you? Are you looking to hire escorts for your 4p experience or just anyone who is open to join in the fun? Can you please be more specific. For example, looking for another couple, other males, other females, other males or females, etc..
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    Wingmen & Approaches

    1. I would rather have a man approach me on his own even if he is there with a wingman or a group. I like a man who is not afraid to take action. The universe doesn't care what you want, what you feel, what you think, what you hope or what you desire, the universe only moves when you take...
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    what do you think about a woman

    Fairness is an illusion and the context of it is very ego driven. The problem is no one person will have the exact same term/agreement on what they consider to be fair. For me the idea of having a nonnegotiable contract for the duration of any evolving relationship is silly. Just because I made...