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  1. Solong

    White Guy In Kabukicho - Homeless?

    Even if you are a permanent resident, you must report in to immigration every 7 years. PR status can be revoked. If a person is PR and been in Japan for that long, it's debatable if they should have switched over to being a citizen. At least as a Japanese citizen, they could have applied for...
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    White Guy In Kabukicho - Homeless?

    White represents an ethnic group or racial classification too. It can be seen as another way to say Caucasian. It's not simply being used for color. Furthermore, Asians who want to be White or identify as White, aren't going to be accepted as such by most/many Whites. It's like a White...
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    Visa / Job Status

    Arguably, they want to tax and have foreigners pay into their system, and avoid having foreigners take money out of the system, despite how long they have lived or worked here. The older Japanese generation needs the tax money for support.
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    Man Arrested In Aichi - Tresspassing At A University

    The man was arrested for trespassing, NOT for nampa or PUA. Can we please not try to conflate and confuse things for an agenda.
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    White Guy In Kabukicho - Homeless?

    Asians are not White. I'm international minded and endorse interracial and international couples, but there is a distinction between the groups.
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    White Guy In Kabukicho - Homeless?

    I'm not disagreeing with that, but there are several ways an old White man can end up homeless too. Also men are more likely to end up homeless, because it's less likely people will accept taking care of them and they are less likely to be in the position to inherit money from a deceased...
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    Unusual Bar Experience - Short Story

    Sounds like Shibuya HUB to me. The one near Hachiko exit. I've been there, and it's often full of a mix crowd of foreigners and Japanese due to it's location. Years ago HUB was a great pick up place and had a reputation for it. Various Japanese women would come alone from outside that area...
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    Sex Tips For Straight Guys From A Bi Girl

    It was sort of OK advice, but seems a little bit "tainted" or negative towards guys. I do agree with the comment that each woman is different and so can be how she achieves orgasm, so a guy should be mindful of this.
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    Kirari Cafe Story #2

    Paying more for the woman doesn't usually guarantee anything safety, STD, or performance wise, just that he paid more for sex. Women who a guy pays 30,000 yen for are not better at sex or less likely to have an STD than women that cost 15,000 yen. The difference is often just superficial...
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    Kirari Cafe Story #2

    You can never be sure with any of the women, as they can possibly be going through a high volume of men and she or her previous customers can be very reckless. Don't treat sex-workers like they are your girlfriend. Use a condom and be careful. No condom oral has been debated a lot in other...
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    Kirari Cafe Story #2

    It's actually 5 minutes, and can be extended another 5 minutes, for the supposed max of 10 minutes. However, if you are close to making a deal, the woman can continue to stay in the booth. Staff might walk by, but she can give a positive sign or comment that it's OK. And, as mentioned, it...
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    Ladies (or Gents..) Do You Know Any Good Places To Get Lacy Lingerie?

    Not sure, but yeah, looks very much like her. If not, like a twin separated at birth.
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    Ladies (or Gents..) Do You Know Any Good Places To Get Lacy Lingerie?

    When I and some other guys say grandma underwear, we mean sexually unappealing. You have a fantastic body, and that can make a man's heart skip a beat. But was referring to the style of lingerie. How exciting is it, by itself? More sexually exciting, is lingerie that's designed towards...
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    Ladies (or Gents..) Do You Know Any Good Places To Get Lacy Lingerie?

    This has come up many times for me, as I like women who wear sexy underwear/lingerie/nightgowns. In fact, this is part of a possible dating conversational technique that I use at times, in which helps filter more sexual and sexually secure women versus those women who are less sexually secure...
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    Ladies (or Gents..) Do You Know Any Good Places To Get Lacy Lingerie?

    I was totally with you, and learning from your informative posts, until you typed the word "feminist". I don't think any guys have a chauvinistic crusade to make women wear uncomfortable or incorrectly fitting bras. Arguably, a lot of that is competition between women for men, or personal...
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    Ladies (or Gents..) Do You Know Any Good Places To Get Lacy Lingerie?

    The problem is that a lot of stores in Japan have just "cute" underwear and not anything sexy. Peach John kind of stuff, which often isn't sexually fun, and grandma approved. Don Quiote can have some fun sexy stuff. There are shops in Shinjuku, Shibuya, Akihabara... that have more sexy...
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    Independent Escorts In Japan

    I wonder if Fukushima is a major factor. Loads of foreigners left Japan for other parts of Asia (Singapore, Korea, Thailand, Taiwan, Hong Kong, China). Also, while news of Fukushima seems depressed in Japan, it's not in the U.S. and other places, in terms of people thinking to come here. I...
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    Taxes In Japan & Living Comfortably

    You haven't even read the posts here. I didn't say you don't need to pay resident tax, but rather the amount owed can vary. I argued here in this thread that a foreigner has to pay pension, against what others were saying. Check the posts. And that's so as a company employee, but JETRO...
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    Taxes In Japan & Living Comfortably

    And social insurance often is higher than the 12.9% that you put. 5% + 9% (around that). Half of each often paid by the company. More like around 14% Also, how an independent contractor does their taxes isn't the same as a company employee. Consequently, the type of health insurance...
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    Taxes In Japan & Living Comfortably

    If you are an independent contractor, paying the tax yourself vs taken out by a company, or depending on where you live then you may not have to pay both the prefectural or municipal tax. It isn't as cut and dry as some are making it out to be. Though for most purposes and guessing you can...