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  1. Solong

    Why Japanese Gun Control Works And Why It Probably Won't For America

    I agree. I don't have a problem with the right to carry guns, but do have a problem with the American system. Gun safety training and background checks (crazy, drugs, or criminal) before getting a gun license looks to be a lot smarter. Gun stores that sell guns illegally should be closed down...
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    Sexless Student

    Over the years of living in Japan, I've encountered similar type of situations many times. You won't be able to determine if she actually has any interest in you, unless you press forward and see. Debating it too much in your own head can be wasting time. Better to go find out more directly...
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    Sexless Student

    I've also met Western women with this problem. It can be related to them either being taller than 174 cm (5'8) or being too heavy/fat. The height problem being more that Asian guys appear to get more intimated by it, where the heavy/fat condition is considered unattractive. Outside of the...
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    Racial Preference In Dating & Sexual Partners

    The issue that I have with racial preferences are those people that try to impose and force their racist ideology and beliefs on others. For example, where a person is White, but doesn't think other Whites "should be allowed" to date, sex, or marry with other races. In addition, attempting to...
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    Why Are You Not Having Sex With Men?

    People can do horrible stuff in general, that's not specific to a gender. The concept of a heterosexual guy asking or wanting sex is "horrible", arguably comes from sexually repressed (often religious or traditional issues with sex in general) or man-hating feminist types. That a man they...
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    Why Are You Not Having Sex With Men?

    Seems odd, because any character in a book or comic, can't make any actual sexual demands on women. They are fictional characters. Women choose to buy or read them. I don't see why women would be threatened by male heterosexual characters, because romance novels for examples, are vastly more...
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    Why Are You Not Having Sex With Men?

    As a man who has been in a number of 3ps with 2 women, it's not an issue for heterosexual men, as no threat to his masculinity. I think most men, rightly or wrongly, via lesbian sex as lacking or just oral satisfaction. Meaning, men can think there is plenty of room to add penis. I think most...
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    Why Are You Not Having Sex With Men?

    Clearly a lot of women have a curiosity about male gay sex. It's called fujoshi or kifujin in Japan, where such women read books and comics about gay love or go to gay clubs. It appears the attraction is partially rooted in seeing if they can seduce gay men to try women. It seems a bit...
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    Why Are You Not Having Sex With Men?

    But if the 2 guys enjoy banging each other, then what do they need women for?
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    Why Are You Not Having Sex With Men?

    I've seen this argument, put up by some homosexuals and it's commonly repeated somewhat in popular media, that same sex is "better" because they are more familiar with the "equipment". Sex doesn't work that way. A woman doesn't necessarily know how to please another woman better than a man or...
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    Why Are You Not Having Sex With Men?

    I was responding to User#8628's statement, not the video. And I saw the video. If you ask 100 heterosexual guys which they would prefer, masturbation or being jerked off by another guy, I'm confident you will get the answer of masturbation from the vast majority. That's their sexual...
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    Why Are You Not Having Sex With Men?

    Obviously, you don't understand what a trope is, as what I typed isn't standardized and definitely nothing from the 1950s. But, you go ahead and keep trolling versus debating.
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    Why Are You Not Having Sex With Men?

    In swinger circles this topic comes up sometimes and I have talked about it numerous times over the years. Bisexuality among women isn't the same as bisexuality among men. 1) If a woman has sex with another woman, she doesn't usually question her womanhood. With men, this is different. A...
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    Sex In The Morn

    It's kind of interesting that you say that, because over the years I had some flexible women, and found more wet and lax vaginas quite enjoyable. Often, such a vagina and woman is more ready for action. I think the preoccupation with "tightness" is blown out of proportion and excessive. It...
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    Buying Her / Him A Drink

    1) It's up to the person, though usually it's the guy buying the drinks. 2) It's usually assumed that the guy is interested in the woman, if he buys her a drink. 3) Oh, most definitely. Though I try to minimize this. It's a game some childish or bad Japanese women play. Where they think it's...
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    What Do You Envy About The Opposite Sex?

    I can see many of your points. However, I have to disagree a bit about the "slut shaming" issue, particularly over the last 25 years. Women are often the ones slut shaming other women. And those women who actually sleep around or have a lot of sex (versus look slutty or it's a rumor), tend to...
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    An Orgy Of Likes...

    Ww, it can also mean that a person is saying whatever people want to hear, sticking only to the more common and popular opinions, and avoiding comments which are controversial or could be perceived as negative. What is the reward for being the "most liked"?
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    Choking & Slapping During Sex

    I totally agree with you about communication and having evidence in the form of messages, about engaging in rough sex play. My issue though is about putting every act in the same category. Particularly actions that can leave marks, which might last for days, and can be interpreted by 3rd...
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    Choking & Slapping During Sex

    I would say that 90% or so of the time (from experience), the woman a guy is dealing with is genuinely interested in the type of sex you talk about together, she is suggesting or hinting at. You can often gauge this by her enthusiasm, willingness, and mannerism. Submissives release control and...
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    Choking & Slapping During Sex

    You bring up a good point, in which guys need to be wary of. The guy should understand the nature and personality of the woman, before engaging into any physical or borderline S&M play. The woman can be trapping the guy into trouble or she's mentally unstable. She encourages the guy, then...