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  1. Solong

    What Is The Difference Between Being In A Open Relationship And Having A Sex Friend?

    I know that situation. At the most unexpected moment, various sex-friends have asked me about my other relationships. When younger, I tried to be direct and honest about it, and a lot of women appeared to get jealous or give me problems. It was the selfish game of "she wants the privilege to...
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    What Is The Difference Between Being In A Open Relationship And Having A Sex Friend?

    From how it sounds, you have the advantage here, where she is admitting her desire for sex with you. Among my swinger pals, such relationships are an opportunity to have a fun, where you can do some experimenting and sexual fantasy play. You might want to see what are the possibilities with...
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    What Is The Difference Between Being In A Open Relationship And Having A Sex Friend?

    I can only juggle seeing 2 or 3. And 3 steady girlfriends can be really pushing it to the max (for a working guy, as it's different for women), in terms of attention, time, or money. Tends to cut into work or time for other interests. If the woman is bi-sexual and shares or into swinging...
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    What Is The Difference Between Being In A Open Relationship And Having A Sex Friend?

    @danthrope, I kind of agree with your thinking, as frequency of meeting tends to separate the two, particularly in Japan. However, as sex-friends, I would make the argument of 1X a week. If 1X per 2 weeks, don't be surprised when those sex-friends stop contacting after awhile, unless she has a...
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    In Praise Of Black Hair

    I often dislike dyed hair on Asian women, as in many cases it's done poorly, doesn't look natural, or the woman looks weird. Though sometimes it's done well by Asian women, where they still are attractive. However, if I want to date a White woman, it's easier to go in that direction. And...
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    Judo Style Girls

    That can be tough. I don't know about "Judo girls", but I do like fit women (dance, sports, yoga...). What I've found that works best is to talk to them whenever you see such women. If you happen to be in a convenience store, train, airport, etc... Another way that seems to work is...
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    Fingers and Masturbation versus Sex W/ Partner I know of reverse situations, as I happen to have met a couple of women (at different times) who had boyfriends with a very interesting problem. These guys (both young) couldn't cum in a vagina normally, but needed to jerk off. They could jerk...
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    I agree about this. You can't win them all or be 100%. The best that can be done is become skilled and more knowledgeable, and improve your percentage. Women are also very complicated. I've had orgasmic women, who simply couldn't cum every time. It's not anything bad, it was just how some...
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    I agree that a lot of men are of such pride that they would prefer to give even a professional sex-worker an orgasm, if they could, but can be not just about her. A significant part of it is how he thinks that he compares to other customers/men and his own personal sense of accomplishment...
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    If it's paid sex, it's arguable that the guy need not be concerned if the escort is having a real orgasm or faking. Just whether or not she gave a good performance or a good actress for his fantasy or illusion. He's the paying customer, so it's more a matter of if he's a satisfied customer...
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    The Game And The Law

    However, the application of what "fall in love" means seems to be unevenly applied. If it's applicable in that situation, then any massage parlor or other businesses should be able to claim the same.
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    The Oposite Sex

    I'm comparing the average woman to the average guy. Of course there are extremes, of very fat or ugly people, but that applies to both men and women. Did you forget fat or ugly guys, just like such women, would have trouble getting dates too? Yes, a 250 pound obese, old, or very ugly woman...
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    E-smile does have a point and more: 1) Financial Problems The P4P relationship may create a financial strain or negatively affect family finances, so the wife is angry on those grounds. She can also be resentful of the amount of money spent on the sex-worker and not her. 2) STD Risk The...
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    I do partially agree with an element of your argument. I think people can get whacky and go too far to the other end, where their fear and paranoia is unjustified. Life is risky. And there are lot of ways to die, and sooner or later... Hiding from life, doesn't necessarily make you safer...
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    I disagree, with what one sex-worker does, put's all other escorts at risk. The relationships are separate. The sex-worker and customer has to agree to go raw. If others are protecting themselves, then those that go raw should be of no concern to their business. If X is driving with no...
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    I disagree on that point. The sex-worker could be using birth control pills or decide to get an abortion. Also, pregnancy isn't so easy. It can take a guy months, years, or never to get a certain woman pregnant. That's more like playing a slot machine. Never know which way it could go...
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    I think this might be because some guys don't have a girlfriend, so they try to make the sex-worker into one. Thus the craving for bareback. I think it's better to not pretend the sex-worker is a girlfriend, because it appears to create more problems than are necessary.
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    Girl With Braces

    Dated a few women wearing braces. No problem. In fact, 2 of them in that category, were excellent at blow jobs and could almost deep throat. So, I would say don't be worried about the braces. Now her skill at BJs, that's something else.
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    Finding Sex Friends

    I agree too. My FWBs have been where we both don't want to progress or have any plans regarding being serious or marriage, or are dating/married to other people. However, we have a strong sexual attraction and interest in being with each other. The women I have/had FWB relationships with tend...
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    How Do They Keep Long Performing In Av?

    Actually, maybe that's not so or not the complete picture. I've had girlfriends who couldn't stand direct stimulation of their clitoris, as it was too sensitive or to annoying/weird to them. With some women, their G-spot is very pronounced and very easy to feel, so they orgasmed and squirted...