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  1. TheDutchElm

    Emergency Seeking Member Help ! Shinjuku Buttakuri(overcharge )

    Sorry that happened to you. This is partially why I really only see independents.
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    The Yen Rate & Freelancers

    Me too. I'm paid in USD. :-)
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    The Yen Rate & Freelancers

    It is if you don't plan to stay in Japan for the long term or want to spend your money outside Japan (real estate, luxury goods, etc). I've been living in Japan for years and I still don't keep a yen denominated bank account here for very similar reasons. Working girls who are living off their...
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    The Yen Rate & Freelancers

    If the bank of Japan does another round of QE in the next month (as it's widely expected to do), some expect the yen might hit 140/USD, so also expect indy rates to increase even more.
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    Viagra Question

    FYI you can get legit Viagra from any Shanghai Pharmacy in Taiwan without a prescription. They only have 25 and 50mg doses, which should be enough for anyone.
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    The Yen Rate & Freelancers

    Makes sense @Desktop since locals are probably in Japan for the long haul. I also suspect most don't take a huge amount home for long-term savings after the agency takes their cut.
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    Threesome Questions

    I agree with @Solong. The "last time" statement sounds like it could be used against you in the future for a variety of offenses that might not even rise to the level of physical intimacy with another woman. E.g., "I let you fuck that before we got married, so why did I catch you watching...
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    Threesome Questions

    My only question is related to your comfort. You sound pretty happily monogamous. Are you doing it for her or because she suspects you want to? If the former, keep that in your back pocket. Possibly an unexplored kink of hers. If the latter, possibly concerning? Also bump. I'm very interested...
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    The Yen Rate & Freelancers

    weak yen is definitely driving up independent rates. It will probably get a lot worse when the next QE goes through.
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    Sexually Transmitted Disease (std) Talk

    One more good point about the XXL Big Boy condoms: I especially like them because they don't have stinky lube or a bad taste (according to the cock-suckers I know :D), yet are much easier to unroll than polyurethane alternatives.
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    Sexually Transmitted Disease (std) Talk

    Just want to echo Kitty here in recommending the Shinjuku clinic. It's a bit pricey, but they are super fast. Last time I did my test there I got the results back in three days and it's all online reporting. The staff are also super friendly. 予防会新宿クリニック 新宿３−２２−１１　RSビル９F ０３−５３６０−６０２４
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    Squealing - Do You Give In To The Perfoamance?

    If that's "striving for Academy recognition", I'd hate to see what "not trying" looks like. Oh wait, I know what that looks like:
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    Squealing - Do You Give In To The Perfoamance?

    You are definitely not the only one who feels this way okayspot. When I can't tell visually or aurally if a girl is just "being Japanese in bed" or getting raped, it's time to put my pants back on. Add zero-effort kissing and blowjobs to that mix (hint: opening your mouth is not participation)...
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    Pregnant girl

    I find it really fascinating that *this* particular incremental risk (and it's tiny) causes such recoil when other risks discussed on the site elsewhere are routinely dismissed as "well, it comes with the territory". ;) Personally I was wondering what the odds of this particular situation were...
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    Pregnant girl

    Whereas if her husband fucks her and causes complications, it's different? Even so, I've seen no evidence that this is a common occurrence. If you're manhandling a woman bad enough to give her a miscarriage when she's pregnant, you're probably doing it wrong in the first place. Also, how is...
  16. TheDutchElm

    Bucks / Stag / Bachelor Party Ideas In Tokyo

    I wish Kinky Salon would open a branch in Tokyo. :(
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    Sexually Transmitted Disease (std) Talk

    I said nothing about putting anyone in jail. But they sure are taking a damn big risk for themselves (which I have no objections to) and other people (which I do have an objection to). Your argument is basically a fallacy of the excluded middle. Once again, nobody is saying people don't have a...
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    Sexually Transmitted Disease (std) Talk

    Boy this thread is a dredge-up. I think the objection to this attitude is that YOU are not the only one affected when you choose to engage in riskier practices. When you and your partner choose to engage in high-risk sex, you put each other in peril as well as everyone you fuck after the fact...
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    Sexually Transmitted Disease (std) Talk

    To be clear, there is no regulated or required testing in Japan, as brothels are not regulated and FS is technically illegal. Ideological side note: the government position is like saying "flying is dangerous, so let's remove all the parachutes on the plane so nobody flies"... in a world where...
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    Sexually Transmitted Disease (std) Talk

    By the way, I had my first routine STD blood test in Japan last week (usually just get it done when I go back to my home country) and it cost over Y10,000. My good friend (who knows about these things) informed me that Japanese national health insurance won't cover STD testing. I was floored.