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    The "nihongo ojouzu desune" with providers: "fela umaine"

    Welcome to Japan.
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    Gifting Etiquette

    The provider will just regift to a friend or another client if she can't use it. No worries. One lady I see on a regular basis always reciprocates and gives me a box of chocolates or other small gift, probably regifting from a client.
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    Gifting Etiquette

    Almost always edible and never more than 1500-2000, usually more like 1000. It is the thought that counts.
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    Iwate / Aomori Area

    Yes, nothing for foreigners except minimal DH and that requires high Japanese skills.
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    How to deal with performance issues?

    When it happens for me I usually know the cause which can be too much alcohol the night before, too tired, not that horny. I'm pretty sure it is not the attractiveness because I've been able to finish with some homely, overweight and mostly unattractive ladies but their technique was just...
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    What is the cheapest way for sex in Japan (and where)

    Please come back again when you can't stay so long.
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    What does "blame" mean?

    LOL, gets a little lost in translation. Think aggressive acting for blame.
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    Private Meeting Question

    It is widely known however it is not ubiquitous, especially for foreigners. They know western wives and girlfriends are almost always intolerant of any fuzoku and they hate it and feel threatened by it. Not every Japanese female feels the opposite, either. One co-worker's Japanese wife hates...
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    Private Meeting Question

    Are you questioning the "don't ask don't tell" part of it? If so, you're not familiar with how it works here.
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    Private Meeting Question

    I have one that I consider a friend but I never see her outside of her work. We actually share personal social networking (her idea, not mine) which while a little risky of being outed, she is also risking being outed in her social circle. I told her most Japanese girlfriends and wives have a...
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    Foreign friendly mature services in Osaka?

    Last time I checked Tsumaten is now requiring basic Japanese skills, at least Umeda is.
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    Tips and several questions on Club Amour, to hopefully make my visit more enjoyable.

    The reception you are receiving is because you have asked questions, failed to do research and contributed little or nothing to these forums. If you are inexperienced it is best to lurk and keep lurking until you have something constructive to add. These forums are not a helpline which is what...
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    Tipping?

    I occasionally extend time if she is not busy and the leftover is spent chatting about whatever. I don't do this with ones that "like me" and I have a long history with. I bring them snacks and regional things from antenna shops, (sometimes pulling the salaryman trick to convince his wife he...
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    Advice on Soapland Etiquette and What to Expect for a Newbie?

    Regarding gifts....Bring a thoughtful, small, inexpensive gift. Don't go overboard and make her feel obligated. A nice small box of something from depachika is most appropriate. Avoid expensive gifts like jewelry and stuff that is heavy to carry (remember, they have to commute to work from...
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    Green flags to you that helps you choose a girl?

    I have 4 that I see regularly. All 4 of them were discovered by trying and taking chances. I don't know any other way, the main thing is every guy is different and chemistry for one guy might not work for another. I know what I like. They are at both SL and healths. Dead giveaway is they...
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    Looking for massage plus bbbj

    Inverse proportionality with respect to BBBJd and massage. I don't know of any shop where both were good.
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    Newbie trying Strawberry Jam pls help

    It is a legitimate licensed fashion health so no worries of getting scammed. Don't go stinking like a skunk, dress decently, act like a gentleman and make it clear you're not looking for full service.
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    Out of my chest: Not a good day for dmembrane

    Confession time, for all of us (with the exception of a few) we can't finish for whatever reason. Mine is usually too much drinking the night before or just fatigue and if you live and work here you are often fatigued much more than you realize. One of my best sessions with a regular lady I...
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    "Healing" as a descriptive euphamism for SW

    I wouldn't call it BS. One older provider (pushing 60) I've been seeing for more than 10 years is very well preserved as she has beautiful skin tone, very average looking face, is slim and fit, knows how to get nasty and perverted when necessary and overall a very pleasant and customer service...
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    How do I (gently) let a soap girl down?

    I have contact with 3 MILF type professionals (no further details to be disclosed). Fortunately, they never push for an appointment. I speak deeply and seriously with them as my pop is really not that significant in our long customer relationships. Lines are never crossed, no contact outside...