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  1. joeking

    How to find independent escort in countryside?

    One thing to note. The pattern with these sites is they become popular, they get overrun with sakura, everyone leaves, and the cycle repeats. So I’d say check back at a site to see where it is on the cycle
  2. joeking

    Staying in a Shinjuku Love Hotel for multiple nights...

    Didn’t this get rolled out cause of worries that there weren’t enough hotels to handle the Olympics. Course covid put paid to that but cause the groudwork was set out they are stuck?
  3. joeking

    Femdom Escorts?

    Not precisely sure what scenario you want, but I have a review of youko https://tokyoadultguide.com/threads/youko-independent-bdsm-provider-in-tokyo.16059/ and this is the updated link https://www.mistressyouko.com/ not been able to get back but she is still active Yes you can ask, but it’s...
  4. joeking

    Did I handle this situation badly?

    at the risk of ‘JLPT’ing this, as your Japanese gets better, you get a lot less slack in everything. It makes it tempting to just not bother. The better your japanese is, the more likely you are going to be told that it sucks…
  5. joeking

    Did I handle this situation badly?

    Not sure if someone mentioned this, but the initial ですが、might also be a problem. In spoken F2F language, it’s easy to extract the sympathy, but in written form, it comes out as @Sudsy points out. I notice I and other foreigners use these sorts of things to keep the floor and not sound abrupt...
  6. joeking

    ISO: Shops With The Best Sex Toys Selections

    Though I find that the Japanese sex toys look appealing, they aren’t really built very well and are more for looks than for use.
  7. joeking

    Newhalf Service Recommend Please....

    I’ve only done libe, but my impression is that NH places don’t have a storefront but usually have an apartment. I’m guessing that it is because only vaginal sex is ‘illegal’ so anything you do with a new half is technically legal, though I’d be interested if our legal eagles have a more detailed...
  8. joeking

    Newhalf Service Recommend Please....

    It’s also a bit different in that (most?) services have an apartment if you want to avail yourself of that. I assume your Japanese is good enough to get directions over the phone, you go to the address listed and the apartment is nearby.
  9. joeking

    Getting a saturday night love hotel

    Though happyhotel had a data breach a while ago https://upfsecurity.co.jp/pmark/8792/ https://securityaffairs.co/wordpress/96057/hacking/happyhotel-data-breach.html so I'd only use it as a guest. I think that these sites have a regional base, and I've noticed here in Kyushu, happyhotel has...
  10. joeking

    Where to have fun in Nagoya?

    The Libe branch in Nagoya takes (or took) foreigners
  11. joeking

    Foreigner-Friendly ヘルス or anything else in Nagoya?

    If you are wanting to try something new, the Libe branch in Nagoya doesn't have any problems with foreigners. I went with Rin, (review in Dec 2018) who was very sweet, though looking at her twitter, she's gotten really skinny. https://nagoya-libe.com/ As Lou Reed said, take a walk on the wild...
  12. joeking

    Erotic Manga Recommendations

    If you get manga and concentrate on the stuff you like, it’s going to be more pictures than conversation. I’d recommend a manga Nana to Kaoru, about a budding BDSM relationship between two hs seniors. It was also made into a live action movie, though I haven’t seen that yet
  13. joeking

    etiquette suggestions after FS

    You did drop her a thank you? Mata aimashou? I think banal is best. A genki desu ka, delivered after a few weeks, tell her the weather is nice, shit like that. Drop by again in a month and say hisashiburi, apologize for bothering her, (gotta do that) and see what happens.
  14. joeking

    Accessing cityheaven.net in the states

    not sure why the OP is accessing city heaven but there is also https://www.purelovers.com/ they seem to have better coverage for kyushu but a lot weaker for Kanto and Kansai. It looks like a Coke/Pepsi think, if you are on one site, you aren't on the other. also a question about cityheaven and...
  15. joeking

    How can someone quit having weird fetish? It’s ruining my life now.

    I wonder if it’s more popular than one would imagine. You’ve got boys love comics and while JFF speaks more to the customer’s reception (so to speak) the fact that you have a good number of women who aren’t completely grossed out by it.
  16. joeking

    Any advice or tips on hookups in Tokyo?

    Get (or be) a wingman. For japanese, there is safety in numbers and someone talking to you and you talking to them reduces anxiety. Japanese women are often in pairs, the only tricky part is if you start competing for the same one.
  17. joeking

    Disabilities

    Delivery would probably be your best bet, especially if there was a relatively English fluent operator. Japanese providers might have a Kawaii so attitude that would translate to better service? Check out the reviews for places with operators who speak English. If you lay out the situation you...
  18. joeking

    Pre-mid-life crisis?

    When I first read the op, I assumed you were dipping your toes in the water But that’s clearly not the case. Apologies for the hentaisplaining!!
  19. joeking

    Pre-mid-life crisis?

    I’m now wondering what would happen if you left with one box and came back with two...
  20. joeking

    Pre-mid-life crisis?

    My fave is the story about the Japanese guy whose wife packs condoms in his suitcase. He buys his own and when his wife unpacks the suitcase, there is the unopened box. And everyone is happy.