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2f:1m 3some Setup
We have to assume that the poster knows his girlfriend better than we or any of us does. As in there might be something about her that he is picking up on, where he can't make a direct request. With that stated, from my experiences and in swinger circles, Ww is mostly correct. You don't have... -
Hit, Or Miss: Tokyo’s Best Places To Pick Up Women
I've been caught up in such controversy here, and it's a very conflicted argument being used against Sinapse to create a no-win or catch-22. 1) If he doesn't show proof of his pick-up skills then it's claimed he's a liar and fraud. 2) If he shows proof (pictures and verifiable stories), then... -
Hit, Or Miss: Tokyo’s Best Places To Pick Up Women
This isn't usually pick up radar, as it's paranoia or arrogance. Many such women often over-react, when there is no threat or no actual attempt. They try to make it seem that she's so high level, that every guy wants her, and that can be very far from reality. And many of the guys doing... -
Hit, Or Miss: Tokyo’s Best Places To Pick Up Women
If a guy knows what he's doing, and isn't insecure or fears rejection, almost everywhere can be a good place to talk with women. The most high volume areas will be streets and in or around train stations. -
Pua Hate
My theory is that the lifestyle choices of other people, make some feel uncomfortable or threatened, so they lash out and attack others. People choosing differently, creates a mental issue for some, where they are forced to confront their doubts about their belief system or choices. Their... -
Men Interjecting Opinions Into A Women's Thread..
I don't think PUA are magical creatures. It's probably better to clarify that having a conversation with another human being is fine as long as both parties are agreeable to it, considerate, and polite to each other. -
Men Interjecting Opinions Into A Women's Thread..
Sinapse's point is more than just valid, but appears to be a bullseye that breaks down the anti-PUA argument. You can't group all men that approach as PUAs, when many are most certainly not or simply attracted to you. This negativity towards males can be about something else too. There's no... -
Exchanged Contacts. What Next?
I think your points on touching and KINO are very valid. This is an area where a lot of guys don't know how to pull of smoothly, naturally, or intuitively. This is why I laugh, when people pretend anybody can instantly become a pro/expert without practice. As if Michael Jordan or Tom Brady... -
Men Interjecting Opinions Into A Women's Thread..
If the women in question are sex-workers that SELL sex to men or women who don't actually know anything about PUA, the responses will clearly be bias or skewed. It's like asking men about how do you feel about tampons, makeup, or breast implants? Or, asking men that never have or have a... -
What's People's Issues With Pua?
Oh my goodness. Are you telling us you were 100% successful with any woman you approached. Come on bro, there is the fantasy and then there is reality of how things actually happen. 99.9% success rate is acceptable ;-) -
What's People's Issues With Pua?
If a friendly and attractive woman approaches you and says hello, you are going to spaz or freak out on her like she's a solicitor or spammer? What a sad life that must be, where a person fears any human interaction with new people. I kind of think that not everyone wants to live in their... -
What's People's Issues With Pua?
The term bother or harass is often being used inappropriately to negatively miscategorize others. To approach or talk to somebody new in a public space does NOT mean you are harassing them nor is it illegal or automatically bad. There is a difference. -
What's People's Issues With Pua?
Nearly all guys who approach women are systematic. It's a matter of being conscious, using intelligence, or being aware of what you are doing or not. When a guy isn't aware or fully conscious about what he's doing, success is often way more random or accidental. Many people want to improve... -
What's People's Issues With Pua?
I worked in a host bar for a short time years ago in Okinawa, and had friends that did so way longer than me. Most definitely there was a transfer of knowledge about how to deal with women customers and women in general. We didn't call it PUA, but it was similar in many ways. It was teaching... -
What's People's Issues With Pua?
You are injecting your beliefs or as if every PUA must have the same objective. What you believe is or isn't shallow, is not what everybody else believes. It's up to the individual to choose what their goals are. And what those goals are, don't have to agree with your personal beliefs... -
What's People's Issues With Pua?
You are projecting your own bias on to others, then reacting to it as if universally true. To say all PUAs have inflated egos is ridiculous and untrue. Furthermore, what you might label as egotistical, someone else might say it's just confidence. And a guy who is egotistical and talking to... -
What's People's Issues With Pua?
You didn't prove anything to rest the case on. -
What's People's Issues With Pua?
There are people that don't like sex-workers, johns, tricks, or pimps. But must we get into a hate fest about it? Just let those other people be. It's like when people go out their way to beat up or kill transgender people. Why is the sexual orientation or preference of another adult so... -
What's People's Issues With Pua?
That's a blanket statement. It's like if a person said all sex-workers are like X. Each person and situation is different. I tend to believe the issue is competing interests. However, it's not being understood, that you can't shame, force, overtly manipulate, or punk others into doing what... -
What's People's Issues With Pua?
Men and women get married when they are ready. If a person is enjoying being a bachelor or bachelorette, I don't see the issue. And not every person wants to get married or wants kids (plenty of humans on planet earth already). Saying a PUA must prove himself by being in a long-term...