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  1. fireman

    sugardaddy.jp some initial experiences

    I always wrap up before FS with escorts, and they usually insist on it before I get my battering ram anywhere near their castle gates. But IME, many SBs are willing to go BB from the get-go, usually just politely requesting that I don't cum inside them after I have already slipped it in. One of...
  2. fireman

    J-Mail/MintJ Experience

    J-Mail is a cesspool of scams and sakura and is best avoided unless you want to waste a lot of money paying for messages that don’t lead to anything.
  3. fireman

    Paddy Initial Experience - 100% Eigo = No Go

    A few of us would tell you that you really have to date papakatsu girls a bit before committing to pay them more for sex. Scammers, crazies, starfish, etc. will not go along with this so it's an easy way to filter them out. If you don't want to bother with this and just want to get in the sack...
  4. fireman

    Paters Review

    Don't cum where you eat... Probably, but they are not looking for baby daddies on Paters. You'd have better luck at some kind of "international exchange" meetup.
  5. fireman

    Paters Review

    You are misreading. Basically the article provides the following market ranges for major cities: Dates: 10,000-20,000 without sex, 20,000-50,000 with sex Monthly: 50,000-300,000 without sex, 100,000-500,000 with sex So 500,000 (50 man) a month is about the max a girl can get from one guy in...
  6. fireman

    Paters review

    They may not admit it, but it's a lot of the same SBs on both Paters and SD. I know because I see familiar faces from one on the other. Isn't PCMAX a "general purpose" dating site that just happens to have a lot of working girls?
  7. fireman

    Paters review

    What "lower end" apps are you talking about? I don't get the impression that Paters is more "upmarket" than, say, SugarDaddy. It seems like it's the same pool of women on all of these sites, since it's free for them to join and the barrier to entry for men is about the same.
  8. fireman

    sugardaddy.jp some initial experiences

    I agree with the advice to avoid self-proclaimed models, as that is code for "I won't do anything unless you show me a fat wad of cash, and even then I won't do much." "複数の方ではなく定期的に会える方が1人見つかればいいなと思ってます," or some variation, appears in like 50% of the women's profiles. I think there are bloggers...
  9. fireman

    Paters review

    Good review. IMO, you need the lunch or dinner to lubricate the woman, and also as a filter to weed out pros. To work as a pro filter, it needs to be cheap enough that the pros wouldn't want to do it. 5-10k is about right. Also I think you could bring down your sex budget to 40 or even 30k and...
  10. fireman

    Paters Review

    This site says that 50 man is the very highest end of the market in Tokyo: https://bossgoo.sakura.ne.jp/sugardaddy-souba/ IMO, nobody is paying 50 man a month for one woman who is not their wife, unless they are a company president or celebrity type making enough money to essentially have their...
  11. fireman

    Paters Review

    This is not meant as personal criticism, but you are clearly thinking about this from a sex worker's POV: if you don't get paid for every hour it's a waste of time; why make 5 man a night when you could make 10 or 15? But I think for many "amateurs" this kind of logic is actually distasteful...
  12. fireman

    Paters Review

    I'm not sure who this comment is directed to, because nobody called the women childish. They can be opportunistic, and that certainly goes both ways. Anyway, as Morpheus said, "What is real? How do you define 'real'? If you're talking about what you can feel, what you can smell, what you can...
  13. fireman

    Paters Review

    My personal experience: Girls who want to meet up and go directly to the love hotel are usually boring, clinical, and clearly just trying to make quick money. I have tried this a few times and never had a good experience. If I just want to fuck, an escort is a better option since I can read...
  14. fireman

    Paters Review

    You might want to try sugardaddy.jp instead. It has a lot of women interested in SD/SB relationships as opposed to glorified escorting.
  15. fireman

    Paters Experience

  16. fireman

    sugardaddy.jp some initial experiences

    They announced that they are increasing the price for "Diamond" status to 15,000-30,000 yen per month (depending on the term of your contract). And the guy still has to verify his income. Pretty fucking crazy, wonder how many dudes will actually bite.
  17. fireman

    Need some advice leading me in the right direction

    Language ability doesn't matter that much if you're in an environment where gaijin chasers congregate, like a HUB. They will all speak English anyway. But language ability does let you cast a wider net, and some people find nampa to be easier in a non-native language because they are less...
  18. fireman

    Need some advice leading me in the right direction

    Most of those marriages to Chinese and Koreans are Japanese guys importing mail-order brides…
  19. fireman

    Need some advice leading me in the right direction

    Some of the comments on this thread are way too negative. There are still a LOT of Japanese women who gravitate toward Western men, and it isn't about money most of the time. Many want to escape from the suffocating environment of Japanese society, and many are fed up with Japanese men. Once...
  20. fireman

    sugardaddy.jp some initial experiences

    I'm back in Tokyo after a few months away, and poking around sugardaddy again. It may be because the pandemic is winding down, but free meetups and sex for 2-3 seems to be no longer practical. I found one girl who was DTF for 3 flat with no date beforehand, but she turned out to be a starfish...