Bashing People Etc.

[TAG Manager]

I'm terribly exhausted of the whining from people about this, that or the other....

I don't really care if you see this message or not, but I'm just going to start picking off people who are bashing others just for spite no matter how ridiculous their posts are or ideas may be.

On the other hand, some of you need to grow thicker skin if you're going to hang around a site like this.

This site is is meant to be a community of information sharing and discussion... along with that will come heated debates and discussions of view points that not everyone agrees with. This is also meant to be entertaining in some cases, thus we let people go on but it's really getting out of hand. (shown by the number of reports and hate mail I get...)

Regarding PUA items:

Those guys (yes you) running around just picking up girls for the sake of screwing them and moving on to the next one... I'm not talking about your typical bar or street pickups, but people using underhanded methods or targeting vulnerable women... I don't agree with it, period.

Regarding PUA haters or lovers:

Find a way to voice your complaints or love for PUA in a more graceful manner.









There won't be anymore warnings or 'please stop that' kind of stuff. Banning people may hurt us in some cases, but blowing off a leg to safe the rest of the body, is perfectly fine in my book.

Edited for English and stuff....

 

[dreams]

I'm terribly exhausted of the whining from people about this, that or the other....

I don't really care if you see this message or not, but I'm just going to start picking off people who are bashing others just for spite no matter how ridiculous their posts are or ideas may be.

On the other hand, some of you need to grow thicker skin if you're going to hang around a site like this.

This site is is meant to be a community of information sharing and discussion... along with that will come heated debates and discussions of view points that not everyone agrees with. This is also meant to be entertaining in some cases, thus we let people go on but it's really getting out of hand. (shown by the number of reports and hate mail I get...)

Regarding PUA items:

Those guys (yes you) running around just picking up girls for the sake of screwing them and moving on to the next one... I'm not talking about your typical bar or street pickups, but people using underhanded methods or targeting vulnerable women... I don't agree with it, period.

Regarding PUA haters or lovers:

Find a way to voice your complaints or love for PUA in a more graceful manner.






There won't be anymore warnings or 'please stop that' kind of stuff. Banning people may hurt us in some cases, but blowing off a leg to safe the rest of the body, is perfectly fine in my book.

Edited for English and stuff....

Like may others, I am entirely with you on this.
TAG is a wonderful forum because there is , comparatively to others, very little bashing, In a well known international forum, you have to scroll down several posts of insults before getting to any meaningful info. Reason being that it is just not moderated at all, and it@s become "free-fr-eall"
TAG is well managed and moderated, so let's hope we can keep it that way.
Thanks again for your efforts, and be assured of my (and many other's) support.

 

[Ches]

Let's look into the bright side.

As one very wise man put it

"In my experience, you can either have very very civil and proper web forums, but they also mean no emotions or feelings at all. So just very dry info exchange. If people get close and have positive feelings and affections, humor, personalities. Then there is always some negative stuff too. Just like in real life"

Guess who the wise man is...

Being realistic and not idealistic, I agree to this statement.

We can only see light when there is darkness

Plus

More fun = More traffic
Take @TokyoJoeblow for example, he never failed to motivate TAG people to check out their account multiple times a day.

 

[john.smith]

I almost never saw any incivility on this forum... I guess you stayed on Japan too much @TAG Manager your skin became too thin.
Or maybe I am in an environment where the norm is to throw each other rockets, and I became quite insensitive.

Make me think, not long time ago I was discussing with someone and said "I'm strongly opposed to your proposal because...". He asked me to be more civil... I responded in all sincerity that my goal was not to hurt him, but that he need to let me know how I can express strong disagreement in a suitable way. Got no response.

Please don't make the forum a safe space

 

[TAG Manager]

I almost never saw any incivility on this forum... I guess you stayed on Japan too much @TAG Manager your skin became too thin.
Or maybe I am in an environment where the norm is to throw each other rockets, and I became quite insensitive.

Maybe you should read my post again... The members here complain about each other and I have to hear about it. Report after report or email after email... It's not me with the thin skin. I just decided that it's time to start knocking off heads instead of trying to hold people's hands and make them play nice (to a reasonable extent) --- Yes, this is an adult board and if you're here, you should probably have a thicker skin than most.

Edited for 2am posting fails.

 

[dreams]

I almost never saw any incivility on this forum... I guess you stayed on Japan too much @TAG Manager your skin became too thin.
Or maybe I am in an environment where the norm is to throw each other rockets, and I became quite insensitive.

Make me think, not long time ago I was discussing with someone and said "I'm strongly opposed to your proposal because...". He asked me to be more civil... I responded in all sincerity that my goal was not to hurt him, but that he need to let me know how I can express strong disagreement in a suitable way. Got no response.

Please don't make the forum a safe space

It's not that one should have thin or thick skin, frankly, how could someone be offended by someone else he does not know and wh hides himself behind a computer..
The real issue is that in some other well known fora, there are almost 9 posts where people insult each other, for one of value.
Here in TAg, most posts are worth reading.. That's something our Mods are right to try keeping.

 

[john.smith]

Here in TAg, most posts are worth reading.. That's something our Mods are right to try keeping.

That's the problem with moderation you only notice it exists when it turns bad.

 

[Sinapse]

Report after report or email after email..

To me it just sounds like people need to worry about themselves. Aren't most users of this site like 40+ and married? People should be mature and care about their own life and issues before worrying about others. After all a lot of the stuff people do here is illegal.. Dayum. Seems obvious.. People in glass houses and all that

With all that said I'm truly grateful for some excellent moderation on this board. Shows dedication, patience, and all temperance. Seriously, well done there things always seem to get directed back on track and flamers checked

As for everybody sending "reports" and hate mail, leave the others alone, grow thick skin, in the words of Mr Chavers "it's a goddamn mongering board" so:

 

[User#8628]

After all a lot of the stuff people do here is illegal

Like what? Did you read the rules of the board? The things we talk about here are legal or grey zoned in Japan.

Posting pictures of people without their permission and sending hate mail is also kinda illegal, but unless its very serious (revenge porn or serious death/rape/violence threats that sound like someone's actually planning on doing) that is usually also not taken very serious by authorities.

This board absolutely doesn't promote criminal activities.

 

[MossBoss]

After all a lot of the stuff people do here is illegal.. Dayum. Seems obvious.. People in glass houses and all that

I won't send a report about your post as the moderators are sick of receiving them. Can we have some self-policing? Please edit or delete your post.

 

[Sinapse]

I won't send a report about your post as the moderators are sick of receiving them. Can we have some self-policing? Please edit or delete your post.

Why does it bother you? It's timed out so I can neither edit nor delete it but We can talk about it.. Or you can send me a PM. To me, unless the post is a direct attack on a user / insulting / wildly inaccurate I'm not sure why someone would send a report unless they simply don't like what's being said for personal reasons.. But that seems like kind of a silly reason IMO.. Like idk, going on a religious board and flagging all the Jewish posts, for example. If a Jewish person said "death to all Muslims" or "death to Muslmlovr63" then yeah sure

Idk Im pretty sure I've never once used to report function even though people pretty much constantly talk trash to me either explicitly or subtly. I either respond or just ignore it

 

[Sinapse]

Did you read the rules of the board? The things we talk about here are legal or grey zoned in Japan.

Not a lawyer but I thought FS and extramarital affairs were both illegal, the latter you can be sued for in a civil court

Not that I personally object really... Again, wouldn't "report" somebody for it. I guess the way I was raised I never relied on authorities to solve problems, I either ignored it or dealt with it directly by talking to the person. This might be because I'm not white and the cops aren't always on my side.

 

[TAG Manager]

After all a lot of the stuff people do here is illegal..

Sir, I'll kindly take great issue with this statement.

Not a lawyer but I thought FS and extramarital affairs were both illegal, the latter you can be sued for in a civil court

Glad you're not a lawyer, because an extramarital affair, illegal? Really?
It's acceptable that someone can be CIVILY sued for having an affair, but that's where the line stops.

As far as FS goes - It cannot be advertised as service as a part of a regular course. Whatever happens between two (or more) adults in a private arrangement, at least in Japan, remains that way. I don't recall anyone blatantly advertising FS here, reviews don't count since those arrangements are made in private.

Anal services, however, completely fair play and can be advertised.

Thread closed. Please don't spew that kind of nonsense again.