Hi to anyone reading this post!
I only know basic greetings in japanese but fluent in English, Chinese and Cantonese. I have heard about some drama about Chinese touts scamming specifically Chinese so I am posting in this forum asking for precautions. Basically have planned my trip with three of my friends, following a Tokyo-Kyoto-Osaka route, probably starting mid-step. Non of us have been to Japan and they are just too busy irl that they pushed me to do all the planning. I am fine with it since I am the "otaku" in the group and I have all the time as I am mentally disabled (my alias suggested obviously) .
And I have ALWAYS wanted to lose my virginity since everyone around me have somewhat laughed about it to the extent that it becomes a meme whenever there is a adult topic coming up. Here comes the chance and I think its time for me to say byebye and F to the meme so I am asking for advice for first time sex choices. After doing my little research soapland would be probably the best I guess? Btw I have a few girlfriends before but always stops whenever we get to the naked hugging in bed stage. Yes it sounds weird but whenever I looked them in the eyes naked in bed, I feel more like i am their parent looking into their childs eye which kills my libido (Same feeling with anyone I intimate with). I have consulted to my psychiatrist (I trusted her as she help me overcome lots of issues) and what she suggested was asking the professionals to do their job - in this case basically suggesting going to a place with legal prostitution.
Above should have explained my concerns? (I hope so And a big thank you in advance for everyone commented below
I only know basic greetings in japanese but fluent in English, Chinese and Cantonese. I have heard about some drama about Chinese touts scamming specifically Chinese so I am posting in this forum asking for precautions. Basically have planned my trip with three of my friends, following a Tokyo-Kyoto-Osaka route, probably starting mid-step. Non of us have been to Japan and they are just too busy irl that they pushed me to do all the planning. I am fine with it since I am the "otaku" in the group and I have all the time as I am mentally disabled (my alias suggested obviously) .
And I have ALWAYS wanted to lose my virginity since everyone around me have somewhat laughed about it to the extent that it becomes a meme whenever there is a adult topic coming up. Here comes the chance and I think its time for me to say byebye and F to the meme so I am asking for advice for first time sex choices. After doing my little research soapland would be probably the best I guess? Btw I have a few girlfriends before but always stops whenever we get to the naked hugging in bed stage. Yes it sounds weird but whenever I looked them in the eyes naked in bed, I feel more like i am their parent looking into their childs eye which kills my libido (Same feeling with anyone I intimate with). I have consulted to my psychiatrist (I trusted her as she help me overcome lots of issues) and what she suggested was asking the professionals to do their job - in this case basically suggesting going to a place with legal prostitution.
Above should have explained my concerns? (I hope so And a big thank you in advance for everyone commented below
