Hello TAG -- I need some help with something that's been tormenting me for the past several weeks. As I am not fluent in reading Japanese social code, I'm turning to the forum to help with interpretation.
I was in Hiroshima last month making a series of business presentations before an international group and was assigned a translator who would be working with me for two days. She was about my age (early 50s) and very attractive. We got along quite well and I could tell that something was moving forward. We are both married and she noted that her husband worked long hours as a doctor. She also went to great length to tell me about the culture of love hotels -- how she and her daughter had stayed at one and pointed them out as we were taking cabs to various meetings. When we went out to dinner - just the two of us - she sat on my side.
I didn't know if I should be making the next inevitable move, but did not want things to go wrong and have my host learn about it -- I didn't want a scene and put my company and position in jeopardy by making the wrong move - but it seemed to me that she was sending signals that she was "down to fuck."
On our last day together, I dropped her off at the train station (with a raging hard-on) -- as we were parting she asked if she could do something that was very un-Japanese - she hugged me, then was off into the station.
Shit - can someone on this forum let me know if this was for real or what - we have each other's email and she has sent me the selfies she took of us -- deleted these before my wife could see them - I don't know if I'll ever be back in Hiroshima but I've got to get to the bottom of this --
How do Japanese women let you know that they are DTF -- is there a lot of middle-age fooling around there.
Thank you, sincerely , for any feedback you can provide. TH
I was in Hiroshima last month making a series of business presentations before an international group and was assigned a translator who would be working with me for two days. She was about my age (early 50s) and very attractive. We got along quite well and I could tell that something was moving forward. We are both married and she noted that her husband worked long hours as a doctor. She also went to great length to tell me about the culture of love hotels -- how she and her daughter had stayed at one and pointed them out as we were taking cabs to various meetings. When we went out to dinner - just the two of us - she sat on my side.
I didn't know if I should be making the next inevitable move, but did not want things to go wrong and have my host learn about it -- I didn't want a scene and put my company and position in jeopardy by making the wrong move - but it seemed to me that she was sending signals that she was "down to fuck."
On our last day together, I dropped her off at the train station (with a raging hard-on) -- as we were parting she asked if she could do something that was very un-Japanese - she hugged me, then was off into the station.
Shit - can someone on this forum let me know if this was for real or what - we have each other's email and she has sent me the selfies she took of us -- deleted these before my wife could see them - I don't know if I'll ever be back in Hiroshima but I've got to get to the bottom of this --
How do Japanese women let you know that they are DTF -- is there a lot of middle-age fooling around there.
Thank you, sincerely , for any feedback you can provide. TH
