Preface this by saying I speak basically 0 Japanese. Verified with my passport on Paddy and paid the $250 3 mo membership.
Found this girl, we agreed on 25k JPY CFS and 50k JPY if she was open to filming. Photos were 50% accurate but she was cute enough, stunning slim body but face was just okay. Met her, and she took the lead on getting us to a love hotel. Was about 8k JPY (the instructions were 100% in Japanese).
We sit down and she asks several questions, seemingly uncomfortable at the idea of filming but just wants more money. I even made it clear that the no filming option is fine with me multiple times. She was the one insisting for more cash. Ultimately she agreed but only if she could cover her face with her hands. Fine. Then this is when it starts to go downhill.
In the middle of it she says stop filming. I say okay, I can stop filming and we can continue for 30,000JPY (indicating that whatever was filmed should be fair game). After I finish she asks me to delete everything. I oblige but say that she should only get 25,000 JPY because I ended up with no videos at all, same as if we had done the 25,000JPY option to begin with. She disagreed and says she only agreed to 30,000JPY (bullshit obviously). We argue for 10 minutes. I say I just want to leave but I want my 5,000JPY back or go round 2 and she lets me film some material.
She says "the amount will change for another round." Not sure the norm here but it seems from other negotiations girls stay for 2-3 hours and you're allowed to pop multiple times. At this point I'm just infuriated, but she caves and gives me 5k back. We shower and leave. As we exited the hotel, she apologized for the miscommunication which I thought was a nice gesture.
If you speak Japanese you'll exponentially have a better time (duh). I'll probably stay away from these sugar dating arrangements from now on, not recommended for 100% Eigo. At the end of the day it's like $170 so whatever but just not a great experience at all. Might as well have been teased and blue balled at an Esthe, at least I could have gotten a massage.
Found this girl, we agreed on 25k JPY CFS and 50k JPY if she was open to filming. Photos were 50% accurate but she was cute enough, stunning slim body but face was just okay. Met her, and she took the lead on getting us to a love hotel. Was about 8k JPY (the instructions were 100% in Japanese).
We sit down and she asks several questions, seemingly uncomfortable at the idea of filming but just wants more money. I even made it clear that the no filming option is fine with me multiple times. She was the one insisting for more cash. Ultimately she agreed but only if she could cover her face with her hands. Fine. Then this is when it starts to go downhill.
In the middle of it she says stop filming. I say okay, I can stop filming and we can continue for 30,000JPY (indicating that whatever was filmed should be fair game). After I finish she asks me to delete everything. I oblige but say that she should only get 25,000 JPY because I ended up with no videos at all, same as if we had done the 25,000JPY option to begin with. She disagreed and says she only agreed to 30,000JPY (bullshit obviously). We argue for 10 minutes. I say I just want to leave but I want my 5,000JPY back or go round 2 and she lets me film some material.
She says "the amount will change for another round." Not sure the norm here but it seems from other negotiations girls stay for 2-3 hours and you're allowed to pop multiple times. At this point I'm just infuriated, but she caves and gives me 5k back. We shower and leave. As we exited the hotel, she apologized for the miscommunication which I thought was a nice gesture.
If you speak Japanese you'll exponentially have a better time (duh). I'll probably stay away from these sugar dating arrangements from now on, not recommended for 100% Eigo. At the end of the day it's like $170 so whatever but just not a great experience at all. Might as well have been teased and blue balled at an Esthe, at least I could have gotten a massage.
