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Hello! If Iam into some soft of BDSM, like feet, legs, femdom, oral, verbal, etc.. without real masochism like ropes, huge pain and so on. Is it good idea to try La Siora or something else (maybe ind. escort or some SL) is better. I saw they dont provide oral.
 
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Oral isn’t provided in typical “SM” services in Japan unless you’re playing with a sub. Your best bet is look for a 「痴女」who might be open to your kinkier requests.
 
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Katie Kinako said:
Oral isn’t provided in typical “SM” services in Japan unless you’re playing with a sub. Your best bet is look for a 「痴女」who might be open to your kinkier requests.
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Really. He's looking for femdom and wants a blowjob? Very confused.
 
Katie Kinako said:
Oral isn’t provided in typical “SM” services in Japan unless you’re playing with a sub. Your best bet is look for a 「痴女」who might be open to your kinkier requests.
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Oral like DATY, in La Siora's gallery I found the thing I would like to experience, https://www.smugmug.com/gallery/n-XBMsmf. But the most their gallery about some hardcore stuff which is too much for me. So I think maybe they will deny my request or M will be bored but I really like the emotional response and the overall experience will be ruined.
 
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Most 「女王様」do not offer DATY either- when they do it’s referred to as 「局部奉仕」and rather than it being an experience for them to feel pleasure, it’s treated as an act of service and/or humiliation on the sub’s end.

What you found in the gallery isn’t DATY, it’s face sitting (common in SM clubs, but usually happens with clothing/lingerie included).

Based on what you’ve been mentioning, I don’t think you’re a good match for a SM club… You most likely won’t get the experience you’re looking for.
 
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Katie Kinako said:
Most 「女王様」do not offer DATY either- when they do it’s referred to as 「局部奉仕」and rather than it being an experience for them to feel pleasure, it’s treated as an act of service and/or humiliation on the sub’s end.

What you found in the gallery isn’t DATY, it’s face sitting (common in SM clubs, but usually happens with clothing/lingerie included).

Based on what you’ve been mentioning, I don’t think you’re a good match for a SM club… You most likely won’t get the experience you’re looking for.
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I see that she has cloth and its pretty fine for me. So femdom stuff isnt popular and its hard to find such service?
 
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However, there are too many people who think they are into BDSM; when in reality they’re not into BDSM at all.
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bdole said:
You might be better off looking at some of the delivery health places that offer the addons you want.
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I looked for the like almost all threads and forum and did found nothing :( (2022+ year, only a single thread https://tokyoadultguide.com/threads/unexpected-s.26958/ but how to find such girls unclear for me)
Can you suggest me how can I find a girl who practice it or detect that I can ask a girl to act like femdom?
 
Go to the review section, find a store that is recommended for foreigners, and then go to their website and look at the addon options. They will list things like "feet worship" or "verbal abuse" or "stomping" or "whipping" or whatever you want. Find a girl in that store who is ok with those options (they will list what each girl is ok doing on their profiles). Then book her. No offense, but if you looked on this forum for 2+ years and haven't found ANYTHING, you're not searching properly. Don't just look at reviews that say "BDSM", look at the shops people recommend, and look at their options. Not everyone reports every option they take.
 
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I once asked a domme in a bdsm club wether her male slaves can get off at all. "If he's a very good boy, then he can masturbate onto a dish, and lick it up."
 
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labass said:
I looked for the like almost all threads and forum and did found nothing :( (2022+ year, only a single thread https://tokyoadultguide.com/threads/unexpected-s.26958/ but how to find such girls unclear for me)
Can you suggest me how can I find a girl who practice it or detect that I can ask a girl to act like femdom?
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The girl you posted here is still active and has a schedule....why not book her?

Like others have said you are not really looking for BDSM, sounds like you are looking for a dominant girl that still pleases you to a degree...I think that shouldn't be too hard to find. Lots of health shops offer things that go into this direction.
 
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Danbo said:
The girl you posted here is still active and has a schedule....why not book her?

Like others have said you are not really looking for BDSM, sounds like you are looking for a dominant girl that still pleases you to a degree...I think that shouldn't be too hard to find. Lots of health shops offer things that go into this direction.
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To my understanding they have japanese only or speak in japanese policy. My japanese is strictly limited.
 
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