Starter Guide?

[snbnightlife]

Hi all,

Been living in Japan for almost 4 years and due to a combination of things, tons of overtime work, learning new job skills on the weekend, moving in Japan for better job opportunities - accidentally became a real workaholic during that time - the isolation that Covid brought with it certainly didn’t help.

Anyway, Finally in a good place with my work life and I’m financially stable in the land of the rising sun, but it came at the cost of my social and love life.

Now working on improving my social life and my physical health, but I want to avoid jumping into a relationship with a local just to scratch an itch - if you know what I mean?

Saw that there are some independent escorts and a “robot” service that come highly recommended for foreigners here in Tokyo.

Not really looking to go to a store, would rather meet someone at a love Hotel or have them just come to my apartment - although I don’t know if that last one is a safe thing to do.

Kinda looking for something more than just a bj/hj service - services that offer the complete package would be preferable.

Any safe and simple recommendations for a guy living in Tokyo with around N3 Japanese?

I’m open to trying new things, but also wouldn’t mind having something reliable and consistent so I could just book whenever the need arises.

Thanks all!

 

[TAG Manager]

Read reviews and pick something that matches your needs or as close as possible. We don’t do recommendations.

If you want to meet someone at a hotel - use delivery health or independent escort. Do not recommend inviting people to your home for such a service.

 

[Danbo]

Hi all,

Been living in Japan for almost 4 years and due to a combination of things, tons of overtime work, learning new job skills on the weekend, moving in Japan for better job opportunities - accidentally became a real workaholic during that time - the isolation that Covid brought with it certainly didn’t help.

Anyway, Finally in a good place with my work life and I’m financially stable in the land of the rising sun, but it came at the cost of my social and love life.

Now working on improving my social life and my physical health, but I want to avoid jumping into a relationship with a local just to scratch an itch - if you know what I mean?

Saw that there are some independent escorts and a “robot” service that come highly recommended for foreigners here in Tokyo.

Not really looking to go to a store, would rather meet someone at a love Hotel or have them just come to my apartment - although I don’t know if that last one is a safe thing to do.

Kinda looking for something more than just a bj/hj service - services that offer the complete package would be preferable.

Any safe and simple recommendations for a guy living in Tokyo with around N3 Japanese?

I’m open to trying new things, but also wouldn’t mind having something reliable and consistent so I could just book whenever the need arises.

Thanks all!

Working on your social skills and then thinking about contacting Robotdeli where you can order girls to command around like toys that don't speak a word
.......sounds like a winning combination for me 🤣

Seriously. Contact normal escorts or a normal shop for the start if you want to get back to a more intimate and social private life. With N3 level of talking there are enough health shops available that will send over normal girls for a normal experience.

 

[requiemmorrow]

Working on your social skills and then thinking about contacting Robotdeli where you can order girls to command around like toys that don't speak a word
.......sounds like a winning combination for me 🤣

Seriously. Contact normal escorts or a normal shop for the start if you want to get back to a more intimate and social private life. With N3 level of talking there are enough health shops available that will send over normal girls for a normal experience.

In defense of the OP, he did say that he sacrificed his social life. Maybe he is feeling a little socially awkward and is a natural Sド who wants to give instructions? Rather, shops like the Robot deli and Iramachion might cater better to his needs, and he never mentioned doing anything abusive to the girls.

Also, I am a little bugged by the use of "normal" here. In what way are the girls at Robot Deli and Iramachion less "normal" than the escorts and "normal" shops? If you mean "standard" service than I can agree, but "normal" would lead any of us to believe that everything else is a deviancy that is weird with negative implicationsーwhich considering that it is technically not "normal" for a website filled with foreigners who want to fuck Japanese girls to exist it is equally ridiculous for us to judge any shop, any girl, or any dude as "normal."

Now working on improving my social life and my physical health, but I want to avoid jumping into a relationship with a local just to scratch an itch - if you know what I mean?

Completely understandable, but fuzoku doesn't change anything regarding relationships. All it does is make it easier for you to feel ease at conversing with Japanese women while you look for a partner. It is a blessing in that the post-nut clarity gives you a clear perspective, but also a curse because dating and relationships actually kind of get boring when you can fulfill amazing fantasies with beautiful women.

1. Not really looking to go to a store, would rather meet someone at a love Hotel or have them just come to my apartment - although I don’t know if that last one is a safe thing to do.
2. Kinda looking for something more than just a bj/hj service - services that offer the complete package would be preferable.
3. Any safe and simple recommendations for a guy living in Tokyo with around N3 Japanese?
4. I'm open to trying new things, but also wouldn't mind having something reliable and consistent so I could just book whenever the need arises.

A few things:

1. Sorry, but you are better off going to a brick-and-mortar shop. The kind of shop you have requested is called a Delivery Health, and they do not offer what you want described in point two. Robot Deli does not offer FS. There are too many issues with requesting FS from a DH that affect not only you but the rest of the foreign cocks here, so just don't do it. Also, as was mentioned above do not take providers to your apartment.
2. If you want more than a bj/hj service otherwise I am to assume you mean FS, you need to visit a soapland. There you can get a complete package, but you need to be patient and use your preciously gained Japanese ability.
3. As I am assuming it would be your first soapland experience read reviews in the Soapland forum. Don't consider this a recommendation, but there is also always Kaoru at Y-Shirt who seems to get consistent praise and booking around here.
4. There is tons of that, including the Robot Deli despite not having FS. Once you get your feet dick wet you'll have a better idea of what is reliable and we will be able to assist you further.

Also, when you do the deed be a brother to us all and write a review!

 

[Danbo]

Also, I am a little bugged by the use of "normal" here. In what way are the girls at Robot Deli and Iramachion less "normal" than the escorts and "normal" shops? If you mean "standard" service than I can agree, but "normal" would lead any of us to believe that everything else is a deviancy that is weird with negative implicationsーwhich considering that it is technically not "normal" for a website filled with foreigners who want to fuck Japanese girls to exist it is equally ridiculous for us to judge any shop, any girl, or any dude as "normal."

It's just referring to this situation/question. If someone wants to sort out his social and love life a "normal" service with "normal" social interaction is the way to go. You interact with somebody else on the same level and the whole dynamic feels a lot more natural.

I have nothing against shops with an SM edge, used them myself, but they are about living out power phantasies and involve power play. They deliver to a certain kink and are there to break away from normality. If you want to get more social again it just makes more sense to use services first with a more equal way of interaction/communication.

If someone wants to loose weight it is also reasonable to recommend them to to pick up running instead of learning juggling while riding a unicycle.

 

[requiemmorrow]

It's just referring to this situation/question. If someone wants to sort out his social and love life a "normal" service with "normal" social interaction is the way to go. You interact with somebody else on the same level and the whole dynamic feels a lot more natural.

I have nothing against shops with an SM edge, used them myself, but they are about living out power phantasies and involve power play. They deliver to a certain kink and are there to break away from normality. If you want to get more social again it just makes more sense to use services first with a more equal way of interaction/communication.

If someone wants to loose weight it is also reasonable to recommend them to to pick up running instead of learning juggling while riding a unicycle.

My point is the choice of words. The word "normal" has a connotation here that can be perceived negatively. Not everyone has the same normal, and it is not my place or yours to define it for the OP. Inasmuch, the robot deli is just a kink and the OP mentioned he is into "trying new things." Inasmuch, however "equal" one makes the communication you are paying for a provider to communicate with you. To the same extent you are still in a domineering role that does not reflect the "normal" social interaction you are thinking about, you just aren't forcing the girl to gag on your cock.

The last analogy might make sense and be logical, but it is ridiculous to assume running is the preferable way for one to lose weight compared to enjoying the failure of juggling while riding a unicycle. Sometimes it's the journey, not the result.

 

[Sudsy]

Not really looking to go to a store, would rather meet someone at a love Hotel or have them just come to my apartment - although I don’t know if that last one is a safe thing to do.

Kinda looking for something more than just a bj/hj service - services that offer the complete package would be preferable.

Any safe and simple recommendations for a guy living in Tokyo with around N3 Japanese?

First off, don't bring providers to your home. Japan is a lot safer than many other countries, but it's still not a good idea.

Secondly, don't engage with a delivery service (delivery health etc.) if you're looking for "the full package" - it's not the offered service, and trying to negotiate with the provider directly can go south quickly, particularly if you're inexperienced. You can find yourself barred from a shop (or group), get all foreigners barred, or at worst, find yourself dealing with the police (remember that these services are legal, and have access to police protection).

For what you're looking for, either contact one of the independent escorts that list here, or bite the bullet and go to a soapland. If you've got N3 Japanese, a lot of soaps are accessible to you, and the ladies that list here are all perfectly foreign friendly.

 

[MikeH]

My point is the choice of words. The word "normal" has a connotation here that can be perceived negatively.

That is true. Normal means boring and the good stuff would be called perverted.

 

[Cinnabums]

That is true. Normal means boring and the good stuff would be called perverted.

Hence me getting bored recently, been doing too much normal. 2023 calls for newhalves, reverse anal and a bunch of other more challenging stuff.


Lovely

 

[YokoMonger]

One bit of advice is don't say you don't know what to do then start putting all sorts of demands. Be willing to start from the beginning so you enjoy the end stages better. First step is just go to a massage parlor that offers HE and maybe L2 services. Become comfortable with talking to the provider and enjoying the whole process and don't focus on popping. Second step is Fashion Health since they have the rooms there (we get it, you don't want to go to a shop. Go to a shop) or Hotel Health. Get comfortable with all the steps (make out, bath, bbbj, sumata, etc). Now just do SL as that's what'll give legal full service. If you opt for delivery health then FS is not part of the package outside of AF. In all these steps there are plenty of reviews of plenty of shops and providers around Tokyo so you shouldn't have to worry.