There are a couple of good resources up in other forums for it.
But in general, bdsm itself is quite a big spread of kinks (bondage discipline sadism and masochism).
What could help is to find out a list of kinks in there that might tickle your fancy and read abit.
There are some educational sessions held for people to explore those kinks. From there you can dip your toes and find out what you like.
Personally I was able to start being serious about dom slave rls, bondage, and cnc (giver) and I met a friend that is also into it (receiver).
We then work on communication, stop words/signals and setup roleplays and go from there.