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What is sex for you?

I was having a deep conversation with a young working lady in the soap land the other day. We talked about various things, like my experience with 3P/4P MMF/MMFF/MMMF. One of the things that she noticed is that I used the word “play (遊ぶ) “ for sex. Puzzled, I asked her back, so what’s sex for you? She said she used to think it was something that you can only do with your lover. I (possibly mistakenly) asked her back, what about what we did just now? Is that just work? She didn’t reply to me anything. She didn’t look like she was taken aback by my comment about sex being just a thing she does for work either.

I have seen some working girls posting on Twitter that sex at the soap land is just work for them. This sounds harsh (to the client, like us) but it is true. Not just for the girls who are working for the shop but true for independent girls too. Escorting is just work for them, and we are buying their service.

Which made me sad, to some extent. It also gets me thinking.
What about sex between SD/SB, is that also work too? Is there a hidden obligatory rule that the meeting between SD and SB would always need to involve sex otherwise it wouldn’t count as a date and hence she wouldn’t get paid. Is that even fair to both SD and SB?

So, what sex is for me?

To me, sex (the act itself) is a fun play, nothing more.

It is different from “making love” which may look like sex but it has its own special feeling. I could be having sex with the same girl one day and feel like we are making love in the other. I have been in a 3P MMF situation where I feel that the guy was making love with the lady while I was just having sex with her. I was also in a reverse situation when I feel I was making love to the lady while another guy was banging her from behind.

It is a strange thing to say but I come to realise, although a bit late in my life, that having sex and making love are two different things.


So, what’s sex for you?
 
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Well well. Leave it to brother @Ken4fb to raise such deep and serious considerations in the midst of all the pre-pubescent Mad Magazine locker room banter that goes on here.

I certainly agree sex and love are quite different. But even when in a transactional sexual relationship with a provider - even if just one time, there still can be different levels of connection. I mean if the purpose of sex is just to jizz - I can do that myself. For me, it’s the chance of establishing an intimate connection with someone else - well a hot someone else. Not love no. More primal. While i think the level of connection that can be achieved with an SB is on average greater, very satisfying levels of just “connecting” with a more transactional provider happen also. Or may not happen. Just because she is doing as a business does not mean she will not feel a connection with some of her clients - during the act or otherwise. It’s human I think. But not love or romance no.
 
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Hmmmm....at this stage of my life I need a mental connection somewhat or can't get it up. The eye candy I see on the street I like I can't afford and what I can afford doesn't interest me. I rather go without (I've still got 2 good hands ) than throw away good money on taking a chance. If the girl can play the "game" a lot better than average than I may take the chance and throw away a good chunk of change (which I have in the past). I had a SB that I was paying for around 5 months and then she stopped wanting an allowance. don't get me wrong, I still paid for everything, just not cash at the end of the date. I was seeing 4-5 times a week for over 2 years. We fell for each other and that's the only kind of relationship I want with another female. Just wham/bam (nowadays) isn't in my vocab anymore. Have I grown up and become mature? Nahhhhhh. I just know what I like.
 
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Well, it can be lot of things, some contrary to each other. It is a necessity like eating, but also fun and a sport as you can get better by training, sometimes even with a team. :cool:


I do not much like the separation of sex, love making etc. as the lines are blurry at best. You can have sex with your loved one and make love with an escort when everything clicks the right way.

That you pay for it doesn't change the situation much for me, it just makes things clearer.
 
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Sex is the physical act. Nothing more nothing less. Making love is sex as an extension of a loving relationship. Where you might shit yourself midway through and just laugh about it because: love.
 
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Sex is more than just intercourse. It runs a range of activities from one to multiple people (yes, I also classify my daily masturbation as sex). It can be passionate or routine, quick or long, involve exploring everything with my fingers, hands, tongue, mouth, legs, dick or even more. Intercourse may or may not happen (massage and fashion health as obvious situations), but we all know a great time can be had. The orgasm is just a part of it and not always the end goal (especially for her).
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Personally, my goal is to try to make her come with as much intensity as she can handle. It's arrogant, but in my mind every lady even if her job is having sex has an idea of what was the most amazing sex they've ever had, and I aim to be that guy when they're with me. In return, even if I don't make it to the number 1 spot, I get to experience some amazing sex. Hell, if she's thinking she should be paying me then that's a win in my book.
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What elevates it to love making, I'm not sure. That's probably more about the person you want to be with, who makes your life better in some way and you theirs. The sex is just a part of it, but not the only thing and maybe not necessary.
 
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Sex for me is which girl can make me blow the most intense load. I want to suck on her face to feel frenzied, then stab my engorged cock into whatever orifices she permits with domineering power. Then giving her instructions on how to perfectly bring me to the point of orgasm, and then I want to be screaming as my prostate disappears in the space between my rectum and kidneys from the intensity of the blast, seeing stars when I gaze upon whatever face/pussy I railgunned upon/within with my love glaze.

On the other hand, making love is while Netflix-and-Chilling putting my arm around her gently…then massaging her shoulders down to her feet…teasing her about her imperfections in her skin while praising her for the unique qualities she has. Then a soft, supple kiss, gently slipping her out of her cute dress. Sometimes there is foreplay, sometimes it is straight to sex, and sometimes it is neither, but just lying together and enjoying the sensation of skin to skin, and the aroma of a beautiful woman in her most vulnerable state to me as I expose all of myself as well, vulnerable before her. Contrary to popular belief, “making love” in my eyes has little to do with the act of sex, and more to do with being as vulnerable as possible with another human being, leaving no stone unturned.

As of this time in my life I prefer “sex,” because I have actually made much, much more “love” in my life thus far. That’s why I am a proud, vulgar, caramel, face-jizzing fuck. Cheers.
 
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Frenchy said:
LA petitE Mort. Death is female. Like Tax. You know, the only two certain things
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Then it's fair as nothing else in females is certain.
 
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