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Hi all,
tl;dr: Wondering whether to change my bucket list 4P to a 高級3P or an escort+happening bar (if that’s even a thing)
I’m a longtime reader of this site, but only registered and started posting recently. I’ve got a handful of reviews awaiting approval, but basically I’m wrapping up work on a bucket list of sexual experiences I’ve always wanted to have.
The list had 10 items and I’ve gotten through 8 of them. The last two are likely to cost as much as the other eight combined, so I’m here to ask for advice.
The remaining high-roller item is a 4P. Not a soapland 4P, which would be clean but predictable; I’m thinking of something more chaotic in a hotel. I’m wondering whether to replace that with a different experience. I know some here have engaged in them, so I’d be thankful for any insight.
Here’s my mindset: I’m working through this list for the memories, less so for the wild throes of pleasure that will accompany any trip to Yoshiwara. The 4P is on the list at the moment because I want to have remembered the 90-120 minutes, not because I think my orgasm(s) will be substantially different.
That said, there are some pros and cons to a 4P, and also some unknowns.
Pros
• e c s t a c y
Cons
• if I go cheap, I’m worried about infection
• if I go Japanese deriheru (Email Advance or Harlem), I’m worried it won’t have been worth it without the FS
• if I go to 3 reputable independent escorts, I go way over budget
Unknowns
• I think it should be a great time, but I don’t actually know. Maybe it’ll be the same as a 3P, but I’ll feel less satisfied because I keep concentrating on changing partners.
• I don’t actually know the risks—as a resident in this country who doesn’t want trouble—associated with bringing 3 women to a room for this kind of play, especially if I go to a service like Hipness or Thai Mild.
• I don’t actually have a strategy for this kind of play. No WikiHow for leading a foursome (...right?).
So with all this in mind, I’m starting to wonder if I should use that budget on something safer, which would still be novel and fun. I’ve done a 3P (review’s in the queue), but it was at a soapland, so I was being guided the whole time. A 3P with two TAG indies would be a totally new experience, and incredibly worthwhile if these forums are any indication.
Or, maybe it’s possible to hire an escort to be my date at a happening bar? I’m not sure that’s even possible, but going alone to a place like that is strongly discouraged—and there are plenty of cheaper bars I could go to if I want to be politely ignored by happy couples(^∇^;;
And...that’s where I am atm.
Sorry for the novella, but I appreciate the seriousness with which everyone takes any sexual topic here on TAG, so I figured I’d put myself out there with my silly question. Thanks to anyone who’s read this far★
tl;dr: Wondering whether to change my bucket list 4P to a 高級3P or an escort+happening bar (if that’s even a thing)
I’m a longtime reader of this site, but only registered and started posting recently. I’ve got a handful of reviews awaiting approval, but basically I’m wrapping up work on a bucket list of sexual experiences I’ve always wanted to have.
The list had 10 items and I’ve gotten through 8 of them. The last two are likely to cost as much as the other eight combined, so I’m here to ask for advice.
The remaining high-roller item is a 4P. Not a soapland 4P, which would be clean but predictable; I’m thinking of something more chaotic in a hotel. I’m wondering whether to replace that with a different experience. I know some here have engaged in them, so I’d be thankful for any insight.
Here’s my mindset: I’m working through this list for the memories, less so for the wild throes of pleasure that will accompany any trip to Yoshiwara. The 4P is on the list at the moment because I want to have remembered the 90-120 minutes, not because I think my orgasm(s) will be substantially different.
That said, there are some pros and cons to a 4P, and also some unknowns.
Pros
• e c s t a c y
Cons
• if I go cheap, I’m worried about infection
• if I go Japanese deriheru (Email Advance or Harlem), I’m worried it won’t have been worth it without the FS
• if I go to 3 reputable independent escorts, I go way over budget
Unknowns
• I think it should be a great time, but I don’t actually know. Maybe it’ll be the same as a 3P, but I’ll feel less satisfied because I keep concentrating on changing partners.
• I don’t actually know the risks—as a resident in this country who doesn’t want trouble—associated with bringing 3 women to a room for this kind of play, especially if I go to a service like Hipness or Thai Mild.
• I don’t actually have a strategy for this kind of play. No WikiHow for leading a foursome (...right?).
So with all this in mind, I’m starting to wonder if I should use that budget on something safer, which would still be novel and fun. I’ve done a 3P (review’s in the queue), but it was at a soapland, so I was being guided the whole time. A 3P with two TAG indies would be a totally new experience, and incredibly worthwhile if these forums are any indication.
Or, maybe it’s possible to hire an escort to be my date at a happening bar? I’m not sure that’s even possible, but going alone to a place like that is strongly discouraged—and there are plenty of cheaper bars I could go to if I want to be politely ignored by happy couples(^∇^;;
And...that’s where I am atm.
Sorry for the novella, but I appreciate the seriousness with which everyone takes any sexual topic here on TAG, so I figured I’d put myself out there with my silly question. Thanks to anyone who’s read this far★
