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So I went to deliheru and soap a few times, and I'm kind of tired of finding what/who is gaijin-ok or not depending on the mood of the clerk, who will FS or not, or scrutinizing measurement to sort out the fatties and getting crooked-back girls instead. Yes, maybe I should go to more expensive places, I know I know.
But after reading that post from that other(s) guy(s) I decided to give a try to the Paddy app. After just creating an account with a nice picture of me in a suit I started getting dozens of likes (I'm at 130 now apparently, not that it matters much; maybe a guy having time for actual dating and chatting would have fun though). After some embarrassing chats I fixed my description using the magic keywords (大人の関係), made some more embarrassing chats, then discovered the "plan date" menu where girls are listed by the available time. I guess this is where most of the sugar arrangements happen, with many girls having status updates in the like of "hayaku issho ni asobitai". I made myself a pretty straightforward message template (hajimemashite, I'm looking for otona kankei, how about we have ocha and if the feelingu is aeba we continue to a hotel, thanks bro whoever wrote those magic words on the other thread) and sent a few messages to cute girls, with a good response rate (I think honestly 75%). On the other side, the keywords seem to be "I'm also looking for otona" and "what are your 手本 (pattern ie what you want to do) and 条件 (conditions how long/how much I guess).
Now being the horny dog I an and being all excited of doing the arrangement directly myself, I managed an appointo in the afternoon with a nice "rock style" girl with 3man for 2 hours (I guess too expensive, but I'm horny). So we meet at Ikebukuro, as usual I talk quite a lot, we go to the hotel, I like the girl style and body (yayapochi with wide hips and fat thighs), I gave her 3man, shower and do it but she's clearly not really into it, then we shower again... And then while I'm trying to play music on the stupid sound system she's getting dressed (it's been one hour). When I notice I say "mou ikkai asobou yo" and she goes that it was actually painful (I'm big so it might be true) and it would be weird if she had to force herself... So now we're suddenly in a weird situation where she keeps talking (she's finish dressing now) about hokkaido and the yachin and going to yakiniku and I'm there naked in the bed, completely drowsy due to post-coital relaxation as well as having being woken up at 5 am by a fucking crow, thinking that my options are either to go ahead and force myself on the girl somehow - something that doesn't really appeals to me even though that's what I was doing 15 minutes before - or to go ahead and ask for my money back to a girl that has been playing me like a fiddle, with the big question of what if she says no (will I find the will to fight the girl? or will I once again stfu like the loser I am?).
As I am pondering these questions about the nature of my own loosiness she manages to make her way out pretending a phone call, and 10 minutes later I am making my way through the damp streets of Ikebukuro. Looking at my phone in the metro, she already deleted her account.
Somehow I'm pissed about half of the 3man, but I also kind of enjoy the whole introspection and experience.
Anyway! Thought I'd share this because maybe people tend not to share the bad stories. I will cancel my other arrangement I had this week (same conditions) and go with stricter 条件 - maybe 1man/hour paid by the hour or something. Any tips / help is welcome!
But after reading that post from that other(s) guy(s) I decided to give a try to the Paddy app. After just creating an account with a nice picture of me in a suit I started getting dozens of likes (I'm at 130 now apparently, not that it matters much; maybe a guy having time for actual dating and chatting would have fun though). After some embarrassing chats I fixed my description using the magic keywords (大人の関係), made some more embarrassing chats, then discovered the "plan date" menu where girls are listed by the available time. I guess this is where most of the sugar arrangements happen, with many girls having status updates in the like of "hayaku issho ni asobitai". I made myself a pretty straightforward message template (hajimemashite, I'm looking for otona kankei, how about we have ocha and if the feelingu is aeba we continue to a hotel, thanks bro whoever wrote those magic words on the other thread) and sent a few messages to cute girls, with a good response rate (I think honestly 75%). On the other side, the keywords seem to be "I'm also looking for otona" and "what are your 手本 (pattern ie what you want to do) and 条件 (conditions how long/how much I guess).
Now being the horny dog I an and being all excited of doing the arrangement directly myself, I managed an appointo in the afternoon with a nice "rock style" girl with 3man for 2 hours (I guess too expensive, but I'm horny). So we meet at Ikebukuro, as usual I talk quite a lot, we go to the hotel, I like the girl style and body (yayapochi with wide hips and fat thighs), I gave her 3man, shower and do it but she's clearly not really into it, then we shower again... And then while I'm trying to play music on the stupid sound system she's getting dressed (it's been one hour). When I notice I say "mou ikkai asobou yo" and she goes that it was actually painful (I'm big so it might be true) and it would be weird if she had to force herself... So now we're suddenly in a weird situation where she keeps talking (she's finish dressing now) about hokkaido and the yachin and going to yakiniku and I'm there naked in the bed, completely drowsy due to post-coital relaxation as well as having being woken up at 5 am by a fucking crow, thinking that my options are either to go ahead and force myself on the girl somehow - something that doesn't really appeals to me even though that's what I was doing 15 minutes before - or to go ahead and ask for my money back to a girl that has been playing me like a fiddle, with the big question of what if she says no (will I find the will to fight the girl? or will I once again stfu like the loser I am?).
As I am pondering these questions about the nature of my own loosiness she manages to make her way out pretending a phone call, and 10 minutes later I am making my way through the damp streets of Ikebukuro. Looking at my phone in the metro, she already deleted her account.
Somehow I'm pissed about half of the 3man, but I also kind of enjoy the whole introspection and experience.
Anyway! Thought I'd share this because maybe people tend not to share the bad stories. I will cancel my other arrangement I had this week (same conditions) and go with stricter 条件 - maybe 1man/hour paid by the hour or something. Any tips / help is welcome!