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    Need a bit of feedback and advice on recent dates

    I actually went on another lunch date yesterday with a new girl, and I tried a different approach (not suggesting sex lol)... We met up at Hikarie in Shibuya for lunch. Did the shake hands, "Hi!", etc greeting as I've learned that Japanese people don't like to be too touchy. We went into the...
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    Need a bit of feedback and advice on recent dates

    Good advice! I think that sometimes I sort of go down the rabbit hole of trying to figure out exactly what to do, but in reality it should be more natural and overall a good experience. Instead of trying to go for the lay on the first date, I'll try to use it as more of a prelude to the 2nd...
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    Need a bit of feedback and advice on recent dates

    Good idea! Sounds pretty painful, but putting yourself in new situations is how to quickly learn. I'll try to speak mostly Japanese on my future dates.
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    Need a bit of feedback and advice on recent dates

    Personally I felt like she just wasn't in the mindset. Normally you would be able to at least feel the atmosphere, but here it just seemed like super friendly and bubbly. It almost felt *wrong* to try to even bring up the topic of sex. I fully agree, I was definitely unprepared. Both in the...
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    Need a bit of feedback and advice on recent dates

    Hi all, I recently came to Japan for vacation and wanted to gain some experience dating. I've managed to set up 3 dates for this week via Tinder, but I am a bit confused on the results and feel like I'm doing something horribly wrong. Yesterday's went something like this... --- start --- We...
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