Topics for an Indie's blog?

Simonka said:
Off topic but so sayeth the wench used to have a Youtube channel named “ask an escort”. I loved her perspective and depictions, and her story telling was on point. Sadly she has deleted all of her videos.
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I remember seeing some of those! She seemed very professional.
 
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C4ssandra said:
@Frenchy @Simonka

Thank you both for the inspiration! I decided to write my first post about Daddy Issues

https://www.cassandra.tokyo/blog/paternal-perils

I'll keep checking this thread for other topic suggestions as well :)
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Yay!
I’ve found the next topic: Skincare, fitness, body image & insecurities, general health (not just sexual health, sexual health could be included as a subtopic) as a sex worker. Do you like the idea? You could ask other girls about their routines etc, in the form of an interview.. and feature them on your blog.
 
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C4ssandra said:
@Frenchy @Simonka

Thank you both for the inspiration! I decided to write my first post about Daddy Issues

https://www.cassandra.tokyo/blog/paternal-perils

I'll keep checking this thread for other topic suggestions as well :)
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well written and informative , thanks .
I like your honesty about the motivations for being an escort , and about this whole Daddy-issues business (or non-issues in your case) and yes I can confirm: sex is (usually) more fun than finance!
a very minor complain: the fonts you chose are fine except for the « t » which looks weird. Maybe its just me but I found that a bit annoying
 
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Simonka said:
Yay!
I’ve found the next topic: Skincare, fitness, body image & insecurities, general health (not just sexual health, sexual health could be included as a subtopic) as a sex worker. Do you like the idea? You could ask other girls about their routines etc, in the form of an interview.. and feature them on your blog.
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Oh that's a good idea! I can interview you if you'd like :)
 
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C4ssandra said:
I'll keep checking this thread for other topic suggestions as well :)
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I have read it and liked it. The style is clear, formal, honest and quiet, although it denotes a defensive approach that puts distance from the reader at the beginning. Being your first post, the structure is quite good and above all the story line is very coherent and surprising. It grabs the reader's attention in the second part, connects emotionally, and makes the reader want more. I guess like if it were a date with you. You have a lot of potential!
Frenchy said:
a very minor complain: the fonts you chose are fine except for the « t » which looks weird
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Agree, IMHO this font is not appropriate for backlight displays. It makes eyes dizzy when scrolling the text.
Gambatte kudasai!
 
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Joe2017 said:
I have read it and liked it. The style is clear, formal, honest and quiet, although it denotes a defensive approach that puts distance from the reader at the beginning. Being your first post, the structure is quite good and above all the story line is very coherent and surprising. It grabs the reader's attention in the second part, connects emotionally, and makes the reader want more. I guess like if it were a date with you. You have a lot of potential!

Agree, IMHO this font is not appropriate for backlight displays. It makes eyes dizzy when scrolling the text.
Gambatte kudasai!
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yes I agree on the «defensive approach ». Especially the part about so many men who wanted to lead her out of this terrible path :D
Not that it sounds fake (how should we know?) but a bit over the top, imho. Thats the only part I found a bit offputting, as a man. Maybe the point is to mention that beyond sex and money (which could be had in « normal » life too, I suppose) there is a deep desire for freedom. That’s a more affirmative, positive way to express it. But again, just my 2cts and other guys may find this part actually sexy and intriguing or even reinsuring

by the way the whole White knight / « savior » thing is in itself an interesting topic. And probably one of the reasons why some guys in sugar relatIonships say they want exclusivity (something I always thought ridiculous)
 
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Frenchy said:
yes I agree on the «defensive approach ». Especially the part about so many men who wanted to lead her out of this terrible path :D
Not that it sounds fake (how should we know?) but a bit over the top, imho. Thats the only part I found a bit offputting, as a man. Maybe the point is to mention that beyond sex and money (which could be had in « normal » life too, I suppose) there is a deep desire for freedom. That’s a more affirmative, positive way to express it. But again, just my 2cts and other guys may find this part actually sexy and intriguing or even reinsuring

by the way the whole White knight / « savior » thing is in itself an interesting topic. And probably one of the reasons why some guys in sugar relatIonships say they want exclusivity (something I always thought ridiculous)
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Re the font: thanks for the input; I'll try to adjust it for easier viewing

In terms of it being over the top...well bring that up with the men who proposed lol. I'm pretty much just relaying my experiences here. In fact what I wrote is a pretty watered down version. And if it sounds like I'm being defensive...well what you're probably picking up is just straight up aggressiveness.

I'm a blunt writer and naturally aggressive person so it shows in my work ;)
 
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Re the font: thanks for the input; I'll try to adjust it for easier viewing

In terms of it being over the top...well bring that up with the men who proposed lol. I'm pretty much just relaying my experiences here. In fact what I wrote is a pretty watered down version. And if it sounds like I'm being defensive...well what you're probably picking up is just straight up aggressiveness.

I'm a blunt writer and naturally aggressive person so it shows in my work ;)
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Good! You know yourself, are not ashamed of it and personally I like that . Just be aware that some people , when reading this, may tend to think... « yeah... right.. » :) (Again I don’t question it , just wonder about the net impact)

I have received countless marriage proposals from wealthy men thrice my age. I have been offered an “out” from escorting every other month or so.
 
Frenchy said:
Good! You know yourself, are not ashamed of it and personally I like that . Just be aware that some people , when reading this, may tend to think... « yeah... right.. » :) (Again I don’t question it , just wonder about the net impact)

I have received countless marriage proposals from wealthy men thrice my age. I have been offered an “out” from escorting every other month or so.
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It's really no skin off my back if people believe me or not. I didn't become an escort because I like telling people the truth about myself ;P
 
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It's really no skin off my back if people believe me or not. I didn't become an escort because I like telling people the truth about myself ;P
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Yes , I see that. But take yourself and whatever is true or not out of the equation, it’s pure marketing here (assuming you use your blog as a marketing tool , which was my understanding)

Would it attract clients or not is the question .
I can only reply for myself but all the text gave me a desire to .... know more. That part In italic only , I found it either 1) not believable or 2) if true , then offputting . Funny thing is I don’t even know clearly why. So I guess it’s for me to go to the shrink.

Maybe to be more clearly understood, let’s turn the table , which sentence do you prefer if I was to promote myself?

1- no bragging, but I am so good and attractive that some women paid me just to touch them

2- I like to please ladies, when I’m the provider my ego disappears and it’s all about them
 
Frenchy said:
Yes , I see that. But take yourself and whatever is true or not out of the equation, it’s pure marketing here (assuming you use your blog as a marketing tool , which was my understanding)

Would it attract clients or not is the question .
I can only reply for myself but all the text gave me a desire to .... know more. That part In italic only , I found it either 1) not believable or 2) if true , then offputting . Funny thing is I don’t even know clearly why. So I guess it’s for me to go to the shrink.

Maybe to be more clearly understood, let’s turn the table , which sentence do you prefer if I was to promote myself?

1- no bragging, but I am so good and attractive that some women paid me just to touch them

2- I like to please ladies, when I’m the provider my ego disappears and it’s all about them
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Frenchy if you want to advertise your services using sentence #1 then you totally should! ;) I know you're a low volume provider, but theres no shame in marketing.

I should clarify that the purpose of the blog posts is two fold. Aside from generating more website traffic, it's to improve my clientele. If you are the type to be off put or offended by my writing then you're probably not a good fit for me.

I'll be writing more posts of a similar tone, criticizing various mindsets and behaviors I find unpleasant. Of course privacy is key but I'll be including some of my least favorable client experiences, in the hopes of teaching potential clients what not to do AND driving away any that would display similar behavior.
 
I am not the one to offer in-depth criticisms of someone's writing. It is hard enough for me to put together words in a post on an adult website let alone expressing my deepest thoughts on serious matters. I do agree as others have mentioned that the first blog entry came off as defensive, but considering what you were writing about I cannot blame you for it. It is amazing that guys were thinking to deliver you from the evils of sex work.

I don't think my daughters have any daddy issues. As a single father I do have to discuss issues with them that would be better left to their mother . . .
With all the things we have talked about I can get a little weirded out by it, but I do not judge them for it. They realize that, and are appreciative of my support of their choices in life.

Speaking of use of the word 'daddy' by partners . . . I f'n hate it. It is not a turn on at all considering that is the word my progeny use to address me (in addition to old man, asshole, shit head, etc.).
 
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C4ssandra said:
Frenchy if you want to advertise your services using sentence #1 then you totally should! ;) I know you're a low volume provider, but theres no shame in marketing.

I should clarify that the purpose of the blog posts is two fold. Aside from generating more website traffic, it's to improve my clientele. If you are the type to be off put or offended by my writing then you're probably not a good fit for me.

I'll be writing more posts of a similar tone, criticizing various mindsets and behaviors I find unpleasant. Of course privacy is key but I'll be including some of my least favorable client experiences, in the hopes of teaching potential clients what not to do AND driving away any that would display similar behavior.
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ah ah... well never mind that I mentioned all the rest gave me the willingness to know more, my bad for focusing on this part :)

i think you’re right about writing on unpleasant clients , and I hope you don’t encounter too many
 
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IchigoDave said:
I am not the one to offer in-depth criticisms of someone's writing. It is hard enough for me to put together words in a post on an adult website let alone expressing my deepest thoughts on serious matters. I do agree as others have mentioned that the first blog entry came off as defensive, but considering what you were writing about I cannot blame you for it. It is amazing that guys were thinking to deliver you from the evils of sex work.

I don't think my daughters have any daddy issues. As a single father I do have to discuss issues with them that would be better left to their mother . . .
With all the things we have talked about I can get a little weirded out by it, but I do not judge them for it. They realize that, and are appreciative of my support of their choices in life.

Speaking of use of the word 'daddy' by partners . . . I f'n hate it. It is not a turn on at all considering that is the word my progeny use to address me (in addition to old man, asshole, shit head, etc.).
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You should send them to me, they need schooling
 
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I told you about the education I gave them.
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Yes, but if they call you asshole and shithead , this education needs improvement
I mean, I could teach them how to say it in French, it’s classier :)
 
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Frenchy said:
Yes, but if they call you asshole and shithead , this education needs improvement
I mean, I could teach them how to say it in French, it’s classier :)
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Mais bien sur. It's not like I don't call them [things a normal father would not say], but instead of French I use Yiddish.
 
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1. you played a computer game for the first time and really enjoyed it, wondering about getting a console
2. watched an anime and really enjoyed it, you can't remember the name but included giant robot with long arms
3. you were thinking that reading manga would be good for learning Japanese but it's kind of intimidating as there are so many in the book shop
4. you are thinking you need to replace the hard drive in your laptop
5. need advice on phone contracts, changing carriers etc
 
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psd said:
1. you played a computer game for the first time and really enjoyed it, wondering about getting a console
2. watched an anime and really enjoyed it, you can't remember the name but included giant robot with long arms
3. you were thinking that reading manga would be good for learning Japanese but it's kind of intimidating as there are so many in the book shop
4. you are thinking you need to replace the hard drive in your laptop
5. need advice on phone contracts, changing carriers etc
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You really have kinky topics in mind, you perv you! :D
 
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