Addicted To Mongering?

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Let's say the average salary in Japan is 400,000 yen a month. If you are married with a kid and spend 80,000 yen on mongering I would suggest you have a serious addiction.

If you are single and spend 100,000 yen you are a borderline addict.

Feel free to disagree. I am not trained in this area of knowledge.
 
Addiction is any time a person is damaging their relationships or otherwise out of control in their life due to mongering (or anything else).

Married with a kid and spending 20% of your pre-tax income on mongering is certainly a serious addiction, IMO.
 
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Well, following this logic, just get a raise and you're not addicted anymore!

Joking aside, I think one can really get addicted to mongering, but then again, there's much worse.
 
I say just going twice a month is good enough for me. But from late to spring to the end of summer, i could go 3-4 times a month.
 
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I say just going twice a month is good enough for me. But from late to spring to the end of summer, i could go 3-4 times a month.

At least gaijins are restricted in their activities. Imagine being a Japanese guy. He might pass dozens of flesh pots on his way home every night. I am sure some guys go to some kind of adult establishment almost every night.
 
At least gaijins are restricted in their activities. Imagine being a Japanese guy. He might pass dozens of flesh pots on his way home every night. I am sure some guys go to some kind of adult establishment almost every night.
Every other night at 30,000 X 15 = 450,000 a month, or more than the average Japanese guy's entire paycheck. Wife might get a stick and beat him in his sleep for spending the rent money. Definitely would be wise to keep it within what he can afford. When you do the math, the prices and expense in Japan is amazing to me.

Personally, I think being labeled an addict (minus an official diagnosis) probably should be based on frequency and that becomes the only way a guy had sex. Then it's doesn't look optional or for fun. Probably can't or isn't forming normal relationships with women at that point. Which appears to be a significant issue among many Japanese men (soshokukei).
 
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I say just going twice a month is good enough for me. But from late to spring to the end of summer, i could go 3-4 times a month.
:eek: that's a lot of money
 
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At 3~4 times a month, that's more like bowling league regularity than an occasional roll in the hay.
 
Agree with your thoughts.

I keep it below 80,000 per month. On tight months 40,000 or below.

I'm always on the prowl for promos like for example 3,000 from 10-12 am when it's really 3,900 for 30 mins in a pinsaro. Or 5,000 for 30 mins from 1-3 PM when the regular cost is 8,000 in Madam Coco (Hon Atsugi)

I'm a cheap dude but I guess that's fine LOL
 
Agree with your thoughts.

I keep it below 80,000 per month. On tight months 40,000 or below.

I'm always on the prowl for promos like for example 3,000 from 10-12 am when it's really 3,900 for 30 mins in a pinsaro. Or 5,000 for 30 mins from 1-3 PM when the regular cost is 8,000 in Madam Coco (Hon Atsugi)

I'm a cheap dude but I guess that's fine LOL

More bang for your buck....
 
Anything that releases dopamine can lead to addiction- gambling/shopping/shoplifting, etc.

My old battalion commander was addicted to running. He loved it, even had us give extra leave to guys who ran well. Anyway, his doctor told him to quit with the fast runs as he was damaging his heart. His dr. Didn't want him to quit running altogether, just to take it easy. Unfortunately he passed away from a heart attack during an "airborne run," which is a shame.

I can't imagine p4p more than once per week if it's a regular thing, but I'm not judging. More virile men may be able to hack a lot more fun time.

I'd be hesitant to spend 100,000 yen s month though. Just me.
 
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I got a side job to pay for the blow jobs and I occasionally come out on top. If you have dependents and want to monger I think first priority would be to make sure one kind of out flow would not impact on the income in flow. That would also be wise for the second priority which is don't caught. 80k a month is huge. At ¥500 a chuu jockey that's 5 and bit beers a day!
 
Mongering = rope-a-dopamine...
 
i say find places that can get cheaper the more you use them. with a happy berry platinum membership, it is easy
 
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At least gaijins are restricted in their activities. Imagine being a Japanese guy. He might pass dozens of flesh pots on his way home every night. I am sure some guys go to some kind of adult establishment almost every night.

Yeah me only doing non-oppai bar mongering with one or two girls actually helps me save a good amount of money in the long end.
if the girl I want isn`t avalialbe for whatever reason(no foreigners etc) I don`t go to the shop that night and just go home.
I would literally probably go bankrupt if I could monger at the same level that Japanese folks do.
 
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Once or twice a month isn't too bad. At 20,000 to 30,000 range it's not bad.
 
Mongering - once a week
Masturbation - abstain from
Porn - abstain from
Video games - twice a week
Junk food - twice a week
Coffee - once a week
 
Social networking - don't
TAG forum - minimize
Stalking former acquaintances - avoid
Bestiality - don't even think about
Nostalgic thoughts - recommended
Exercise - sucks
 
Let's say the average salary in Japan is 400,000 yen a month. If you are married with a kid and spend 80,000 yen on mongering I would suggest you have a serious addiction.

If you are single and spend 100,000 yen you are a borderline addict.

Feel free to disagree. I am not trained in this area of knowledge.
The problem with the 400,000 a month salary is the huge Japanese tax percentage. 40% of that is easily eaten in taxes, not to mention the 10% sales tax.

We could be talking more just 200,000 a month. There is rent, food, etc... If a guy is paying 30,000 a pop, he can run out of money pretty quickly. Prices in Japan are higher than I've seen any other place in the world. It's a bit crazy.

There are a string of international news articles talking about how only 50% of Japanese actually have sex. A major crisis for Japan. Arguably, part of the problem is how expensive and how much guys are paying for sex.
 
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