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    Is this relationship doomed or ??

    While I do see Alice's point of view and recommend you to consider it, I can't help but feel suspicious given all of the changes you've mentioned. Honestly, that dinner scene you described is enough for a very harsh remark on my side, because it feels a bit disrespectful. Seems like you have a...
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    Do you ever go out alone?

    When I was younger, I hated going anywhere alone. I felt awkward, out of place, you know, the type of 'persecution complex' some people in the thread described. I won't lie - sometimes I get this feeling now too, but that's mostly if other parts of my daily life are imbalanced. For example, if...
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    Match dating app and advice

    Some people say that Pairs is not bad for more serious relationships/dates. I'm planning on trying it next month after I sort out a few projects I'm juggling around that are making me pretty busy. What do you mean by what happens after you meet them? This is not limited to Japan in any way...
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    Women? - Japanese vs South Korean vs Taiwanese vs Hong Kong vs China vs Singapore vs Thailand

    I'm thoroughly confused by the thread, but... I did go out with a Korean woman for a few weeks and in this specific case it was great. More direct and straight-forward than most of the Japanese girls I've met. Could also crack a few jokes, even though, of course, there was a certain limit - I...
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    What type of Japanese girls, you want to ask her out?

    @User#8628 Probably just my luck, then! Of course, I was speaking from my limited experience. A few of my closest locals here either drink rarely or don't drink at all and it really is refreshing. Not that I don't appreciate the smoothness of a relaxing glass of whiskey, but the...
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    What type of Japanese girls, you want to ask her out?

    @Frenchy I have the same feeling, also judging by my talks with older generations of ladies and their opinion of the contemporary girls. Could the economic situation also have an effect? Perhaps. I find that a lot of the old gen men and women here are somehow disappointed with the...
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    Who's Your Favorite Jav Star/stars Right Now?

    Retired?! Oh come on...hope she does a come back at some point. Just overall amazing. Your first (and only) sex friend, hmm...if she was anywhere near Shinoda, that's an invitation for me to feel envy! :p
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    Who's Your Favorite Jav Star/stars Right Now?

    Wait, we had a thread like this? Some cool names I didn't know! I love Ayumi Shinoda. Don't know what exactly it is about her, but she's flawless. Nails the milf role best out of all the actresses. Kurea Hasumi is also great, mainly for her very active, dominating presence. There's something...
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    Your Horniest Mistake

    Definitely :D Some people aren't lucky to experience something like this throughout their whole lifetime! As you can guess, this causes a rift between my preferences and the passive sex quite a few women here have adopted...
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    Your Horniest Mistake

    My horniest mistake was not a one night thing as most of the comments here. Rather, we're speaking about ~year on and off with an ex of mine that caused me quite a bit of emotional damage. We had been dating for around 2 years before that. It wasn't about only being horny either, however. For...
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    More straight-forward Japanese girls

    Oops, forgot to update on the situation. The girl got ill (ahem) 2-3 days before the meeting so we postponed it. Needless to say, haven't contacted each other since. However, I met up with a buddy and we drank awesome craft beer so the evening was saved. I do however feel I've betrayed...
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    Meeting local Japanese girls for hookups/relationships as a non Japanese Asian

    It's as hard to get as you can make it, really. I happened upon this Indian guy who slayed it - he was quite popular and adored. What I notice in many Southeast Asian guys who I see here is not that much issues with their looks. The issues lies in two things: style and communication. On style...
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    More straight-forward Japanese girls

    Wow, @Des Esseintes , that WAS quite the straight-forward girl. Honestly, I'd not feel embarrassed, but I get where you come from. In my own experience, a lot of girls are slightly more unstable than back home in Europe. Probably has to do with all the societal pressure and bottled up feelings...
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    More straight-forward Japanese girls

    Damn, I totally forgot about what season it is! When the hell did half of February pass... From personal experience, I've seen that women above 30 behave way more aggressively, but that can be expected given some social factors. Regarding the free English practice, the girl doesn't have any...
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    What type of Japanese girls, you want to ask her out?

    You might be right here...still disappointing. Not that I'm that clever of a man, but at least I have a few interests that keep the me being 'me', so to say. I can't imagine living without them, it'll be pretty empty.
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    More straight-forward Japanese girls

    OK, there's a high chance in terms of regular dating we've met Japanese girls who tend to be somewhat shy, slow, etc. What about the opposite? Have you had straight-forward girls? Unexpectedly aggressive/ready to approach ones? These days I got chatted online by a young woman and she's been...
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    What type of Japanese girls, you want to ask her out?

    Needs to have a strong sense of humor, be outspoken and have an active interest in something. Honestly, I prefer the artsy types more (painting, music, handcrafts, literature), as I'm not that interested in sports that much. I guess what really matter to me is the DRIVE. If she has a drive for...
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    Learning Japanese

    Alright, my approach to Japanese - I hover around N3, but I'm probably worse than that (especially in regards to kanji). Grammar I adore, though: 1) Genki I + II - very well-adjusted to self-learners (unlike Minna no nihongo). Try to set a pace - for example, one lesson per every 2 weeks (if...
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    Asking Her Out, Yes Or No?

    OP, sorry, but I might be a bit harsh on you. Apologies to the other participants too. You're just immature. Sorry to put it this way, but judging from all your comments, you really are. You read or try to read signs in everything, you overthink them, and you swing from one conclusion to...
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    Critique My First Pua

    4vibes, excuse me for chiming in, but out of all the discussion led so far I have the feeling that you attach yourself too much to theories, guides and approaches, instead of actually realizing that us, human beings, are a multifaceted bunch - as Wwanderer kindly noted. I would look towards...