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Nanpa And Being A Creep...
Yeah, I guess another topic is in order. Thanks for everything guys! Oh and conclusion is, yes you can nanpa, that's not creepy. But Tokyo is full enough of beautiful ladies, so avoid situations that could make her feel awkward unless you know it's the woman of your life (and have something to... -
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Nanpa And Being A Creep...
Yup thanks! Probably I dehumanized it myself, but I just didn't feel like it. None of these Line were girls I absolutely have to see again. Ironically the only that I can distinctly remember from the day is that last one :D Tonight I went for the first time alone in Shinjuku in the only goal of... -
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Yeah. That's kinda the problem with those big sarge afternoons, it deshumanizes the whole thing. Tbh I didn't even know who to call back, it's terrible. For some reason Line only highlighted two contacts that evening, and I didn't know who it was out of the whole day (well one of them I did, but... -
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Nanpa And Being A Creep...
I had a session today and besides trying various other approaches, I think I'm also progressing on my way to making my "French way" work here :D This is no rocket science, and I don't know what I'm doing better than at first. I believe I'm slowly adjusting my projected level of confidence... -
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Nanpa And Being A Creep...
Oh and I'm curious, what is the yuubin bango joke? Asking her postal number instead of phone? Other than that walking shibuya for a long time and having been "stolen" a girl I was running to get to by another PUA 3x, helped me realise how legitimately they could appear pissed and (to answer... -
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Nanpa And Being A Creep...
Thanks for your nice post @Jennifer Maddingly it's a pleasure to read a feminine, reasoned and down to earth opinion. It is indeed true that those "targets" never work very well. Yes, I took @Shades Of Jae 's offer and actually met him already. He seems very good indeed, unfortunately he left... -
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Nanpa And Being A Creep...
Just a question for guys used to it. Here are the 3 patterns I get lately with Street Pick Up: 1) She doesn't seem interested at all from the beginning. There I just say something, she looks at me with a neutral/uninterested face, doesn't really answer (or basic stuff) despite me smiling... -
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Your Favorite Pick-up Lines
I was going to post that's a bit mean the weight thing (especially since so many j-girls are rather on the rachitic end of the scale IMHO and much pressure is put on them to be thinner than healthy) but I guess that's what you call a neg. Nonetheless I could use the idea of talking about how... -
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Day Game In Japan
The thing with Direct Game is that it's difficult to learn from it, you basically get failures and that's it. Of course at first, getting in the mindset will help you progress naturally, but eventually meeting other PUA (or Japanese-equivalent nampaする人) may help teach you more. Although for the... -
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Your Favorite Pick-up Lines
I had a short but good interaction in the Yamanote, the typical kind that should have been ended by taking her LINE. But I didn't do it, on purpose. The woman was of an absolute beauty; you know Japanese girls often seem beautiful from far away, from the back or even when close-but-not-enough... -
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Nanpa And Being A Creep...
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Nanpa And Being A Creep...
Okay. But hey, where is the limit then? If you "should" approach girls, that you're either very attracted to or not so much, whether they showed you interest or not, etc. that means you would virtually approach everybody all the time :D I didn't do anything today (had a date that turned well... -
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Nanpa And Being A Creep...
Ok I read the rest of the anti-PUA topic and impregnated of it, and it seems like what I'm doing wrong is to approach women who don't display any sign of interest. And yeah that can be bothersome. When someone bothers you, even if you can clearly tell them no, it doesn't mean that all is fine... -
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Nanpa And Being A Creep...
@static Thanks for the tips. I'll try more standing back. How about shaving? Is it better as a foreigner to be completely shaved? Also, taking a uniqlo model wouldn't make me look a bit Japanese-ish? Is that a good thing? (I've genuinely been wondering about that; I do like these looks though)... -
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Nanpa And Being A Creep...
Went to the Shibuya HUB, met some cool j-guy dating a British girl but very keen on nanpa and his friend. We finished near Hachiko, which is a tremendous place to hit on girls Saturday at 11:30pm. Out of tens of attempts the worst I got was comparable to the worst I'd get in Europe, and... -
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How To Do 1 Minute Nanpa/pua?
I'm interested by what you mean by that (what's behind this concept, like how do you get "mastery over your will"? I didn't even think that was possible. :cool: -
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Nanpa And Being A Creep...
I've been trying to play around and meet girls since I've arrived here recently. Having self confidence issues and being rusty, that wasn't easy but I forced myself. I once was pretty good, mostly in France though but I had some success in Japan. Yet I haven't had a single good interaction in... -
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Your Favorite Pick-up Lines
Oh, pretty nice. Pokemon Go worked for me as an opener in San José back then (there are very few attractive girls on the streets, Pokemon Go, for a short while helped bringing the masses out of their apartment). I was impressed at my Japanese yesterday, I think the one hour interaction with that... -
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I managed to make the miryokuteki thing work once yesterday lol. I said it in an hesitant manner (I had forgotten about the word lol) and about something she was wearing, but she liked it. :snaphappy: -
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Thanks for the info @Sinapse ;) I've yet to find and befriend such "cool" JP guys though, I've just arrived. @TitsMcGee > You couldn't have said it better, and that's my priority. I had a very rough time in the US, lots of shit happened on many personal levels, and that shook my self-confidence...