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  1. ThegoddessKaya

    So What IS Tantra all about really? Barney has an answer, and so do I...

    or if a stripper sat on your lap and said,"Would you like to pay my rent this month?" but later the guy did exactly that because she did not ask explicitly.
  2. ThegoddessKaya

    So What IS Tantra all about really? Barney has an answer, and so do I...

    Right, and I'm sure if a pretty girl came up to you in a bar and said something like,"Hey, why don't you buy me a drink?" it might not work so well. 50/50 i'm sure, but chances are the fact that she worded it that way ruined it for you.
  3. ThegoddessKaya

    So What IS Tantra all about really? Barney has an answer, and so do I...

    It has to be initiated from the female to "be organic" otherwise it is usually a no. I know sex workers who NEVER have sex or date for free. They call this "unpaid sex work."
  4. ThegoddessKaya

    So What IS Tantra all about really? Barney has an answer, and so do I...

    I don't think that I said that having sex for money, paying for sex or working at Starbucks was degrading nor was it work that people were not willing to do. Starbucks is the biggest coffee company worldwide, people both love and hate working there....sex work is the oldest profession...
  5. ThegoddessKaya

    So What IS Tantra all about really? Barney has an answer, and so do I...

    I actually don't think I'm above you. I'm beside you. We have different criteria, there are plenty of clients for everyone. We had different criteria when I was an escort. We have different criteria now. We can all be the worker we feel comfortable being. Even Barney. If his clients are...
  6. ThegoddessKaya

    So What IS Tantra all about really? Barney has an answer, and so do I...

    I think in soaplands, they have intercourse as a secret to evading the Japanese prostitution laws around P in V.
  7. ThegoddessKaya

    So What IS Tantra all about really? Barney has an answer, and so do I...

    No, I"m saying I get paid to do a Tantra session without sex and if I have feel like having sex with you, its not extra.
  8. ThegoddessKaya

    So What IS Tantra all about really? Barney has an answer, and so do I...

    it may be compared to a massage parlor or FBSM worker who sometimes has sex with you. You didn't come for the sex so if it happens it is a pleasant amazing surprise.
  9. ThegoddessKaya

    So What IS Tantra all about really? Barney has an answer, and so do I...

    I haven't had the pleasure of being a customer in a soapland, so I don't know how it would go...but something like this: Have you ever gone to dinner with a really cool escort after your session and she didn't charge you? Have you ever dated a worker who stopped the clock for you because she...
  10. ThegoddessKaya

    So What IS Tantra all about really? Barney has an answer, and so do I...

    There is an article that I posted on the topic that you could start to read to know more, I have a website link as well. Organic means that it grows naturally...like a flower in a garden. Transactional means I am paid to have sex. While I do not mean to offend any escorts by my words, I do...
  11. ThegoddessKaya

    So What IS Tantra all about really? Barney has an answer, and so do I...

    Here is a good litmus test: Would you have sex with your clients if money was not involved? Yes or no?
  12. ThegoddessKaya

    So What IS Tantra all about really? Barney has an answer, and so do I...

    of course. it varies from person to person, as I said. The escorts that I knew (and I knew lots of them as a community organizer for 7 yrs ) were not all survival sex workers, but the definitely said they weren't in the work for the sex. And if asked by clients or non workers or media "if...
  13. ThegoddessKaya

    So What IS Tantra all about really? Barney has an answer, and so do I...

    I was recently featured in a VICE mag piece about the ex Barney dinosaur who is not a Tantrika... https://www.vice.com/en_us/article/zmzgbw/the-guy-who-played-barney-the-dinosaur-now-runs-a-tantric-sex-business?utm_source=vicefbus I'd love to engage with some members if you are curious as to...
  14. ThegoddessKaya

    Tattoo Friendly Onsens

    and a sentou 銭塘 is the same as a bathhouse with a ゆcurtain kinda place right?　　＃nikkeijinproblems are you half Japanese by chance? (wink wink)
  15. ThegoddessKaya

    Tattoo Friendly Onsens

    @MikeH is there a place online in English where these regulations are listed? I speak Japanese and would be able to explain that to any opposition in the future if I knew the laws. ありがとう！
  16. ThegoddessKaya

    From Whore Revolutionary to Tokyo Tantra LOVE Goddess: my story

    Hey everyone, I was just interviewed by my friend who has a Tantra punk podcast and I think it went well. I posted it on some gaijin groups and it offended some people because some foreigners not just Japanese can't hear the word sex or sex work without making snarky comments but I'm pretty...
  17. ThegoddessKaya

    Is this considered to be cultural appropriation?

    Read up on the history of kimono and be respectful and get dressed by a Japanese in Japan and you are learning about culture not appropriating it. If you buy a "geisha costume" at the Halloween store and think you are being a geisha you are culturally appropriating. Understand the difference...
  18. ThegoddessKaya

    Tattoo Friendly Onsens

    Is this always true in your experience? I'm sure I've seen some bathhouses that are not onsen that have the tattoo ban signs. Plus, public pools are against tattoos and they are publicly owned and operated...
  19. ThegoddessKaya

    Learn Tantra & Therapy Kink with a trained goddess

    thank you! i've been able to do actually better in Tokyo than Los Angeles!
  20. ThegoddessKaya

    Mother Son clubs

    indeed. at least the links exist online.... http://www.lotscave.com/vignettes/news/2010/mother_son_incest_sex_clubs_in_japan.html