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    How to have a successful Tinder date

    Thanks so much, that sounds like very applicable advice. I guess I should pick the bars beforehand? Is it important to only keep to light touching and not go for more? I am kind of worried about having more than 1 or 2 drinks, I don't want to be drunk. Usually, girls don't want to drink more...
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    How to have a successful Tinder date

    After two more dates last weekend, I am now too broke to go on any more dates until the end of the month. Overall, except for maybe 2 or 3, I felt most of the dates were fun, even when at times there wasn't much chemistry between us, we always laughed a lot and the girls were comfortable opening...
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    How to have a successful Tinder date

    It happened at the end of the dates. I don't know what PDA means (not a native speaker), but I guess you're right. Probably. I just went for it yesterday night and got turned down. But she seemed to expect that question. Probably more about timing and how I said it, plus we didn't really click...
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    How to have a successful Tinder date

    Hey you're not alone, I am also laughing about myself. At the same time, I am crying inside because I really need to get laid but I am too fucking dumb I have only tried the first date/second date thing three times so far; but yeah, before I never tried to push to a more private place. I cant...
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    How to have a successful Tinder date

    No! On the first date? Earlier in this thread, you guys suggested to have a "platonic" first date, so I didn't ask. Was that dumb?
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    How to have a successful Tinder date

    Yeah, 100% definitely I am missing something. I just don't understand what it is. I mean, that's why I started this thread. 2 times I went for the hug, 3rd time I didn't. what else do you do to say good bye? just wave your hand?
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    How to have a successful Tinder date

    I've been on 3 Tinder dates since starting this thread, all of them went great: we laughed a lot, there was touching from both sides and definitely attraction. Yet, none of the girls wanted to go on a second date with me. They just stopped responding to my texts. I clearly must be missing...
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    How to have a successful Tinder date

    In Japan, girls are not looking for hook ups on Tinder? I thought they would only write the "no ONS/hook up" stuff to safe face . Maybe I am just going into my dates with completely from expectations. How can you not want to have sex 24/7. Oh boy, the world is complicated huh I will just focus...
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    How to have a successful Tinder date

    Thank you for the advice guys! Feels like the dad I never had lol So I tried the two-date strategy and just came back from the first date. I don't think it worked. It's the same as always: we shared some stories, laughed a lot. Then she refused to let me bring her to the station and we had a...
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    How to have a successful Tinder date

    So what to do then? I have been on maybe 10 first dates and I feel like hitting my head against a wall. What are places to get intimate in Japan? Karaoke bar I suggested some times, but the girls said no/ they were too shy. Love Hotel is kind of skipping a lot of steps? I cant ask her to go to a...
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    How to have a successful Tinder date

    I guess that's it, but I don't have an idea of what "a little more intimate" would be? That's why I would be super thankful if anyone could give some examples! I know, to more confident people these things may come naturally; but I am probably too insecure, so they don't come naturally to me (yet).
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    How to have a successful Tinder date

    Oh yeah I read that thread! That's why I made an account and opened this one. I am really specifically looking for an example of a successful Tinder date. I mean, the reason why I don't get laid is because I am inexperienced. I would really appreciate to hear some examples. My dates always go...
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    How to have a successful Tinder date

    Title says it all. I have no problems getting Tinder dates, but never do they lead to anything. Usually we meet, then we go drinking or dinner or both, maybe a walk through the park. Maybe a combination of these things. I feel we have a good conversation, I start getting a little more touchy...