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    Would You Men Sacrifice Your Wives To Save Yourselves?

    Not married, I’m good!
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    Flexibility, Sex, & Vaginal Orgasms

    No doubt, there is a connection. A lot of discomfort women feel during sex is due to lack of stimulation (therefore lack of lubrication) and penetration from uncomfortable angles. Increased flexibility allows for many more options between partners, from the female being able to spread...
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    International Dating Success With Language Barrier?

    Two of the Japanese girls I have dated did not speak any English. While I studied Japanese for years before living here, I learned most of my "real" spoken Japanese from them. They were my real teachers I guess you could say. At this point in my life I don't think I'd have any serious...
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    Is It The Man's Responsibility To Pay For Dates

    If she is my girlfriend then yes, maybe I'll pay a bit more and she'll get me back later or the next time. Otherwise if she is not my girlfriend and I don't know her very well, then I'm sure as hell not covering her. For some reason we seem to be stuck in this idea that it's romantic and...
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    How To Have Better Dates With J Girls

    Great post. I feel like a lot of us already know these things, but it's great to have it all spelt out. Time to hit the magazine rack.
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    Looking For Tips About Dating A Japanese Girl

    As @Solong would say, get her to go out with you somewhere like a close knit bar, one where you can preferably sit next to each other and be a bit more intimate... Then somewhere you can be alone like Karaoke, the park, even a smaller bar. After that you will want to escalate, if you haven't...
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    Speed Dating

    Yep. What I mean by that is that they mainly advertise the event to women, which is where they get all their money from. For men it is free and there is usually a shortage of men for the most part. The time I went one of the women told me that she goes almost every week, hoping to find her...
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    Speed Dating

    While I usually agree with Solong and his points apply to most dating scenarios, this event primarily caters to the satisfaction and desperation of the women. There is no real catch outside of the potential mental instability of the women attending. Again, it is completely free as well. I...
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    Speed Dating

    Showing proof of being single is not necessary and would be absolutely ridiculous anyway. The japanese website says that it costs 5000 yen for women to attend. If they are younger (25-35 years old) and can't manage to establish a relationship with someone and need to pay that much money in...
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    [] The Danger Zone []

    While I agree with the amazing article that Iron Giant just posted, I was under the impression that the OP just wanted to get married to a Japanese girl for the visa.
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    Speed Dating

    I actually just mentioned this in the Danger Zone thread, but I think it deserves its own thread. About a year ago I found this company, Exeo international, that has weekly speed dating parties to hook up Japanese women with foreign men. Attendance is actually completely free for men and there...
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    [] The Danger Zone []

    I think I disagree with the above comments. I am around the same age as the OP and I have met more than a handful of women in their late 20s and early 30s that are hoping to get married, a few girls I have dated in the past even propositioned me or hinted at it after less than a year of dating...