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  1. joeking

    Where are the bisexual men?

    ahh, a size queen…
  2. joeking

    What toys do you like?

    Yep, that's the one. Recommended by at least three of the lesbians working at Red Container and they said the same thing. I was really excited to get the womanizer duo https://www.womanizer.com/us/womanizer-products but was told that the tech that has it turn itself on and off when it is close...
  3. joeking

    What toys do you like?

    It's interesting, Japan is a lot more relaxed about sex, but the toys are crap, but when I was in Korea, uptight as it was, there were some really good adult toy store chains (Red Container was my favorite) with really high quality toys and the staff was quite happy to tell you which ones were...
  4. joeking

    When was the last time you had sex?

    You should say, 'about 5 years ago, it was with a ... Oh, I thought you said 'real good sex'....' Make the questioner think they have a really high bar to get over...
  5. joeking

    Anyone ever have Spousal Visa revoked?

    they actually do it a lot more than one would think. The problem is they will only do it if 1) they have some stake in getting you sorted (and this can be positive or negative, they might feel sympathy or you might be so obnoxious that they just want to get rid of you) 2) they can do it as a...
  6. joeking

    使い方がわからない！(profiles of the dumbs)

    If someone writes ‘hi, I’m not sure how this works’, the reply, unless you are a total idiot, is not a dick pic or a ‘hey babe, I know you want it’. Saying they have any interest in/knowledge of the dirty deed is going to get them flooded with shit like that. I realize a place like this isn’t...
  7. joeking

    使い方がわからない！(profiles of the dumbs)

    Because if they admit they have any kind of knowledge, they will be flooded with dick pics.
  8. joeking

    A friend of mine is dating a woman I was into. Was it a shitty thing to do?

    This is the thing, and so it's not that the guy has no balls, he just doesn't want to get close enough to that line that he could cross it. The stereotype of a guy with big balls doesn't care whether he crosses the line. If you look at what I suggest, you don't say as much as KC writes. The...
  9. joeking

    A friend of mine is dating a woman I was into. Was it a shitty thing to do?

    Well, yeah, but I don’t think it’s growing balls, it’s just paying attention. You make a point of bumping into the girl in a few days, you remember her name, compliment her. ‘Oh those are the same earrings you had on the last time, they’re nice.’ Or something different. Notice and compliment a...
  10. joeking

    A friend of mine is dating a woman I was into. Was it a shitty thing to do?

    6 months! You’ve already been filed in the ‘not interested in me’ file drawer.
  11. joeking

    looking for a kinky partner

    I thought that for the longest time as well, but honestly, everyone has emotional baggage and in my more recent experiences, I've found that people who do fetish are a lot more open about things.
  12. joeking

    Japanese desperate housewife. Is this real?

    Interesting thread. While it’s not a solid rule, I’ve found that many Japanese behave differently with foreigners and (if this is successful), this is an example. If this works out, I’d bet she approached you in the way she did _because_ you were a foreigner and she wouldn’t have done this with...
  13. joeking

    Done screwed up

    Have her speak in English to you and you to her in Japanese, though this is going to be a problem cause it sounds like your levels are not close. However, if you want to show her your seriousness, she will hopefully see you trying to communicate with you and appreciate it. Language is power and...
  14. joeking

    japanese girls and ghosting

    Terry Pratchett has this dialogue. Slave is an Ephebian word. In Om we have no word for slave,' said Vorbis. 'So I understand,' said the Tyrant. 'I imagine that fish have no word for water.
  15. joeking

    Prostate Massages...

    I've not given, but I've recently started receiving them, so I hope these observations aren't threadjacking too much. First contact, as it were, was with an enemagura. I think someone here said that there is a difference between an enemagura with a condom on it and one without, so they have...
  16. joeking

    Submissive training program

    Fetlife also has events listing, though I forgot it was Halloween, there were two events last night. There will probably be something in Nov.
  17. joeking

    Submissive training program

    Have her join fetlife and take a look at the photos and see what she likes and doesn’t.
  18. joeking

    Using deai sites: some observations

    Well, here is where I put all my hard earned knowledge on display, but it may be me telling you things not to do. First, I'm using the deai sites to find 浮気 partners. If you are single and aren't worried about people seeing you on a dating site, you've got a lot more scope, photos, backstory...
  19. joeking

    Introducing YYC

    Thanks aspidistra (is your handle the house plant or the George Orwell novel?) Did you have any luck meeting anyone? I've gotten hooked by two CBs but honestly, it was pretty fun to get the exchange going, and when it reached a point where it was obvious, I got a lot of good language practice...
  20. joeking

    Introducing YYC

    I said that I wasn't going to introduce any more deai sites, but this one caught my eye cause it brings up some interesting points about dating sites. The difference between a tolerably decent dating site and a ripoff site is that the ripoff site wants to get your money in a big lump before you...