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    Insights given to me by a SB I met on SA while in Tokyo years ago...

    I definitely think most SBs who aren’t fully comfortable in English are going to prefer an SD who speaks their language and understands their culture. I guess that’s not really a particularly shocking revelation 🤣
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    Insights given to me by a SB I met on SA while in Tokyo years ago...

    Didn’t follow this one. Do you mean Japanese women who get into an arrangement with a non-Japanese person are likely pro SWs? If so, my experience is that this is overstated, both in that 1) there are plenty of non-SW SBs willing to have an arrangement with a non-Japanese person (also, I don’t...
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    Paters

    Interesting. They let you change the registered DOB on the app once I think - maybe try that? I’ve been using Love& the last few months. To be honest, I still think paters is the most useful (compared to SD and Love&), but there’s plenty of overlap.
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    Paters

    No issues in my end. Did it twice this year, including maybe 3 weeks ago. Are you crossing out more than they allow maybe?
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    sugardaddy.jp some initial experiences

    The other thing you can try is suggest meeting the first time somewhere that isn’t Shinjuku/Shibuya/Ikebukuro etc (or suggest a station that isn’t what she proposes if you absolutely must use one of these places). In addition to needing to get you into an LH asap, agencies have their locales...
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    sugardaddy.jp some initial experiences

    A few unorganized thoughts. Keep in mind this is the product of a LOT of hit or miss (and more miss than hit). It’s nice to have an actual ongoing relationship with someone (not saying that’s possible with all or even most, but it is possible with time and effort). Even some of the people I...
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    sugardaddy.jp some initial experiences

    1. Yes 2. Yes There isn’t a great solution that works in all cases. Being straightforward and saying you’re only interested in 大人の関係 will put off a lot of people, including some that you might have had a shot with if you took a more circuitous route. And some (not all and maybe not even most...
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    sugardaddy.jp some initial experiences

    You’re not going to catch me dead with a my photo publicly available on a papakatsu site. I prefer not to share at all before meeting but, if someone is insistent, you can share via direct message and delete after sending.
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    sugardaddy.jp some initial experiences

    I haven’t done it in a while, but you can do “age verification” (really, verification that you’re not a minor - which allows you to message people) for sure using a credit card (the idea being that people under 18 cannot get a CC). But to do the ID verification (the benefit being that you get...
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    Sugar what

    Don’t look a gift horse in the mouth, but definitely be careful with your information, your wallet and what you imbibe. Go with the flow but if something sounds too good to be true, it probably is.
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    Sugardating safety tips

    Honestly, this is why I would never go to a hotel on the first meet with someone I met on a sugar site. You can screen most of the thieves out by having a platonic date first. (Most but not all is why I wouldn’t bring my wallet or personally identifiable information to the hotel on the second...
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    First experience on Paddy, got fooled like the rookie I am

    Also, you wouldn’t be able to search for men if you are signed up as a man. Even if the site isn’t “hacked”, someone with a female profile could easily screenshot or save your photo. (There is a website that trawls girls’ profiles on sugar daddy doing just that - that’s a shit thing to do but I...
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    First experience on Paddy, got fooled like the rookie I am

    I don’t think any require you to post a full face pic (although many will tell you it will increase your odds - I never have and never will, so I can’t tell you if that’s true or not). Some, such as Paters, require you to send an unredacted photo of your photo ID for age verification purposes...
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    sugardaddy.jp some initial experiences

    Or to make your freeter/NEET SB suddenly VERY busy.
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    sugardaddy.jp some initial experiences

    I dunno man, I’ve been using this site off and on since 2017… and this has never happened to me I will keep the ear trick in mind though!
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    sugardaddy.jp some initial experiences

    I’ve never used the BB function, but if there are things that SD doesn’t allow you to message or put in your profile, it stands to reason that they don’t want you posting that on the BB, so I would be careful about just how “kinky” you get.
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    sugardaddy.jp some initial experiences

    I don’t have any experience with UC but agree that Paters has a much better search function. I last used Paters about a year and a half ago - it looks like they now require an un-redacted ID for age verification. Was that the case for you? I found there to be a lot more people looking for...
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    sugardaddy.jp some initial experiences

    Well I haven’t gone through the age verification on that account so can’t chat with anyone (it does receive messages relatively regularly though). But it’s enough to see my actual account and the number of times it’s been 通報ed. Although I have seen and even received messages from a few gaijins...
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    SB and Vacation trips?

    I’m not in a position where I can regularly take vacations with an SB, but have taken overnight trips. Of course I pay for everything and might drop some reasonable additional spending money if there is time where we’re doing different things. But since I would personally be really unhappy if I...
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    sugardaddy.jp some initial experiences

    I certainly do not. I might send it over the chat function to someone I am talking to, since you can delete it in the chat after the fact (of course that doesn’t stop them from screenshotting it, though). I’ve never tried putting one up so can’t comment on whether it negatively affects results...