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  1. Jenkins55

    So how do you do a "go to club"?

    It’s not really my goal to pull girls. But it’s a really good indicator of me having overcome my anxiety. It’s on the pinnacle, or the end of the anxiety spectrum, so in that sense it is the goal. Now that I say that I wonder what else could be more anxiety inducing than trying to woo a...
  2. Jenkins55

    So how do you do a "go to club"?

    My ping is usually 5ms. And it does NOT feel good to constantly die to 100+ ping guy. Cardio mostly. 1 hour cardio. 2-3 miles run. Sometimes 5 miles. No big weights. Mostly at home too. I didn’t want to start something and quit halfway, so I just wanted to measure my commitment first at home...
  3. Jenkins55

    So how do you do a "go to club"?

    Ohh, I’ve been walking around about 7-8pm. It’s not just in bars. It’s just a general anxiety, fear of rejection, fear of doing wrong, fear of having low self worth because of how they see you. I don’t really know. Sometimes this just comes back to “this is not me”. Maybe I’m in my comfort...
  4. Jenkins55

    So how do you do a "go to club"?

    [A little update] Quite a few things changed. I changed job again and somehow stumbled on a raise again. This one might last long. I’ve pretty much quit gaming since last October. I’ve thought a lot about why I love gaming and it seemed I was more addicted to that hit of outplaying and...
  5. Jenkins55

    So how do you do a "go to club"?

    Just to clarify, Japanese otaku stuff is very different from western pc gaming. They’re mostly consoles. There’s maybe one or two pc gaming cafes in Koreatown, other than that the pc gaming in Japan is basically dead here. But I get what you’re saying. I .. will do that sir. Just had my hair...
  6. Jenkins55

    So how do you do a "go to club"?

    Yeah, that’s not gonna happen. I don’t enjoy any activities except gaming in my home. Probably why I’m still single. (I have 15k hours on Steam). The hookup, score thing isn’t really important, but I’m not saying “no” either. If I can masturbate without shame then surely I should have no shame...
  7. Jenkins55

    So how do you do a "go to club"?

    This really seems more in my avenue. How do you approach people in a bar? Scratch that, am I allowed to approach people? Scratch that, I’ll just brush up on some bar etiquettes and not-to-do’s and wing it. Actually, I could use a tip or two. You’ve all been very helpful btw.
  8. Jenkins55

    So how do you do a "go to club"?

    So I recently got fired from my last job and somehow stumbled on a 50% increase. Story of my life - opportunity lost is opportunity gained. With the sudden windfall I've been feeling a little more relaxed to maybe enjoy some single life. Been to couple oppai pubs, okay maybe more than couple...
  9. Jenkins55

    Filipino Places?

    I like pinoys, they’re friendly bunch. They’re one of the few groups of people who possess very little of the traits that I hate. Nationalism, xenophobia. Relatively speaking that is.