1 shot vs 120 minutes : 2 questions

[somebilly]

So I’ve been thinking about this for a while now. Generally I’m a 1 and done but have been able to go round 2 after a bit of waiting and relaxing. About 30 - 45 mins is required at a minimum.

question 1: for you one and dones, how do you fill your time without blowing your load in the first 30 mins and twiddling your thumbs for 90 minutes?

Question 2: what tips do you others have for shortening the refractory period to go for round two?

 

[kirayamato]

if you blow first load in 30 minutes, soaking in bathtub, preparing mat and doing mat play should be enough for you to recover for second round.

having conversation while flirting, LFK and DFK combination also good to build the mood.

 

[tkthedk]

1. Have a nice conversation with them. I find that bonding makes round 2 even better.
2. Work out.

 

[hrbb]

Book two 60 min sessions 5 hours apart.

 

[Alice]

Mat play between rounds if it’s a soapland. Massage, cuddling, talking, having some refreshments together for sessions without a mat. Can also put some porn on if in a LH to get in the mood again.
Alternatively book two different short sessions with different providers.

 

[Sudsy]

Can also put some porn on if in a LH to get in the mood again.

Sometimes it's fun to let her flick through and show you what kind of porn SHE likes

 

[somebilly]

Sometimes it's fun to let her flick through and show you what kind of porn SHE likes

I really like this one… noted and on the todo list.. thanks 🙏

 

[Cinnabums]

Similar issues myself but for 70-90 minutes sessions. No proper answer but if I decide for two shots I tell the girl so she can produce the first shot very quickly to give me some room to reload.

Otherwise I tell her we play slowly and possibly stop a few times to last longer to save for a last healthy salute.

 

[Maxblack]

Hi and chat; if first time, getting to know, if repeat, catching up since last time. Drink tea.
Get closer and closer on the couch, casual touching, slowly undress, off to the shower / bath. Wash all the parts. Slowly.
Dry off, brush teeth, check room temp and lights.
Standing in towels, hugs, kisses, cuddles, fondling.
Drop towels.
Hugs, kisses, cuddles, fondling.
To the bed! (At this point we are 30+ minutes in); foreplay. Explore. Snuggle cuddle kiss petting exploring.
Take turns.
Ask her what she likes. Do it.
Tell her what you like.
Receive it.
Repeat a couple times.
Wrap up and enter!
180 seconds of the best penetrative sex she has ever had. Multiple orgasms commence.
Spent and dead!
Tissues and clean up. Cuddles and snuggles. Nearly nap. Heart rate back to normal.
Grab the tea / snacks / smokes OR quick shower first.
Share cat memes.
Massage her feet. Nothing special just get your fingers on the soles of her feet. No tickling nothing magical just rub the tired out of her feet.
More snuggles and chatting naked.
Compare Spotify playlists.
Alarm! 10 minute warning. To the shower!
Dressed and check for forgotten stuff.
Final check and out the door.

120 minutes flies by!

 

[MikeH]

You guys are so complicated.

1. Ask her to remove your clothes. Come inside your pants when she touches your zipper.
2. Wash up and cuddle.
3. Fall to sleep, wake up with 15 minutes left.
4. Ask for blowjobs and come second time.
5. Use the remaining 14 minutes and 30 seconds for wash up and putting your clothes back on.

 

[Alice]

Sometimes it's fun to let her flick through and show you what kind of porn SHE likes

At least half of the time, guys are turned off by the AV I pick.

 

[Alice]

3. Fall to sleep, wake up with 15 minutes left.

In all seriousness, cuddling and napping can be nice at well.

 

[Alice]

Massage her feet. Nothing special just get your fingers on the soles of her feet. No tickling nothing magical just rub the tired out of her feet.

Can we make this mandatory? 😂

 

[Alice]

Similar issues myself but for 70-90 minutes sessions. No proper answer but if I decide for two shots I tell the girl so she can produce the first shot very quickly to give me some room to reload.

Otherwise I tell her we play slowly and possibly stop a few times to last longer to save for a last healthy salute.

It’s definitely helpful if a guy can tell how many shots he wants to have in a session, although I understand you sometimes just don’t know beforehand.

 

[hrbb]

It’s definitely helpful if a guy can tell how many shots he wants to have in a session, although I understand you sometimes just don’t know beforehand.

Or shits depending on the service.

 

[Doggyfong]

question 1: for you one and dones, how do you fill your time without blowing your load in the first 30 mins and twiddling your thumbs for 90 minutes?

We sit and play genshin for 60 minutes, get in the tub and continue chatting
#TrueStory

Question 2: what tips do you others have for shortening the refractory period to go for round two?

exercise, weight loss
or at least i'm trying to

 

[Airnest]

At least half of the time, guys are turned off by the AV I pick.

What kind of AV do you pick?

 

[Sudsy]

At least half of the time, guys are turned off by the AV I pick.

Zombie gore porn isn't for everyone.

 

[MikeH]

In all seriousness, cuddling and napping can be nice at well.

Not only nice but often the best part of the session if you get the right girl. Even if the sex part is great, cuddling afterwards can still be way better.

 

[Alice]

What kind of AV do you pick?

JK kidnap and gang rape.😳

 

[Airnest]

I think I’ve seen a couple of those titles with black guys. Though I’m an S type (a gentle one) it was hard to watch.

 

[Alice]

I think I’ve seen a couple of those titles with black guys. Though I’m an S type (a gentle one) it was hard to watch.

Ah I don’t watch the ones with black guys usually, it’s two Japanese guys kidnapping a Japanese JK.
There is a certain bald Japanese actor that always appears in the rape stuff, don’t know his name though.

 

[Airnest]

Ah I don’t watch the ones with black guys usually, it’s two Japanese guys kidnapping a Japanese JK.
There is a certain bald Japanese actor that always appears in the rape stuff, don’t know his name though.

Must be Pierre Ken? This guy?

 

[Papa]

Have a nice conversation with them. I find that bonding makes round 2 even better

In all seriousness, cuddling and napping can be nice at well.

I like the answers above, providing your chemistry is good. Two, 2 hour appts with escorts on my last trip to Japan.

1st one, no desire for a round 2, it was tough enough finishing round one. She was a good conversationalist though, so we just chatted. She’d be much better as a friend than a lover.

2nd one, Perfect experience for me. Round 1 finished at about the hour, 20 mark, no way this old man could get in a round 2. Just cuddled, chatted, short soak in the bath again before leaving. Just a wonderful GFE experience.

 

[somebilly]

Boom 💥 boom 💥 shots fired 😂

Okay so I took the advice listed here. Fired my first round in 20 mins or so. Rested, cuddled, talked, ate some snacks I purchased. Then when it was time to go again I put on some porn. In about 5 mins I ready for round two.

Biggest take away from this is I had to get out of my own head (mind), it’s my worst enemy.

Thank you TAG fam!