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[User#16452]

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[meiji]

There's a group on Reddit called nofap which calls for cutting out porn and also not masturbating for at least 90 days, as there's some scientific evidence that overdoing it has an effect on pleasure and reward centers in your brain.

I don't disagree really. I just don't know if I could hold off that long, and I don't think P4P is any healthier in terms of sex addiction (yes there's other benefits as you mentioned).

 

[User#16452]

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[MossBoss]

Is that the same Pamela Anderson who has appeared on 14 Playboy covers and appeared in the most viewed online hardcore scene in history?

When she donates the millions she has made from pornography, she might be worth listening to.

 

[roots reggae]

While I have the utmost respect for JBlair, I notice a disturbing development.

There are folks on this board that seem to suggest we act a certain way, have certain beliefs, and express ourselves a certain way, all based on their own personal set of values, of which most seem to be an interpretation of a moralistic version of trendy political correct philosophies.

I certainly agree with Ms. J's premise in this circumstance and many others, yet something about our collective selves being urged into accepting responsibility for the negatives that come about for people that choose a possibly hazardous lifestyle, be it the porn industry, sex work, or obesity, seems to be shifting responsibility away from those that made that choice and placing the blame on our collective selves.

They choose, for whatever reasons, their own circumstances, and that makes them victims? That makes us responsible for those victims being exploited? And by association, if I choose to watch porn, I am an exploiter?

I'd rather take the pledge to honor the rights of freedom of speech, of life, liberty and the the pursuit of happiness.

By the way, I chose the watch porn less than once a week option.

 

[Wwanderer]

I think masturbation without pornography (or very rarely) is the healthiest.

Also better imo. Rare indeed is the pornography that is as good as my imagination or my memories!

-Ww

 

[MacMackerson]

If I am getting sex then no porn otherwise porn. Porn is just a substitute for sex. Masturbating without porn is like eating without utensils. You can do it but its messier.

There are some people who get addicted to all sorts of dumb shit. Once they are finished with porn it will be video games, miniature poodle training or (drumb roll) marijuana. I have encountered this type in my career and they are often highly effective otherwise.

 

[roots reggae]

Also better imo. Rare indeed is the pornography that is as good as my imagination or my memories!

-Ww

"my memories"

I did I quick search on TAG and came up with a few of the many inspirations for Ww's memories.

(Warning, after reading these posts you may come down with a severe case of envy!!!)

https://tokyoadultguide.com/threads/the-really-special-room-yuri-report-review.3698/

https://tokyoadultguide.com/threads/review-kitty.6567/

https://tokyoadultguide.com/threads/kitty-is-a-true-courtesan-as-well-as-a-major-hottie.6833/

https://tokyoadultguide.com/threads/j-blair.9167/

https://tokyoadultguide.com/threads/sizzling-hot-young-latina-escort-hana-missinsomnia.11769/

I'm sure there are many more, but you get the point. With these kinds of exotic memories, who, indeed, needs porn?

 

[roots reggae]

I'm not sure I agree with that as ejaculating daily is important for the prostate (your health is literarily in your hands ).
I think masturbation without pornography (or very rarely) is the healthiest.

Disclaimer:

With this one you may have to give it some thought- then you will get it!

 

[hkAlone]

"my memories"

I did I quick search on TAG and came up with a few of the many inspirations for Ww's memories.

(Warning, after reading these posts you may come down with a severe case of envy!!!)

https://tokyoadultguide.com/threads/the-really-special-room-yuri-report-review.3698/

https://tokyoadultguide.com/threads/review-kitty.6567/

https://tokyoadultguide.com/threads/kitty-is-a-true-courtesan-as-well-as-a-major-hottie.6833/

https://tokyoadultguide.com/threads/j-blair.9167/

https://tokyoadultguide.com/threads/sizzling-hot-young-latina-escort-hana-missinsomnia.11769/

I'm sure there are many more, but you get the point. With these kinds of exotic memories, who, indeed, needs porn?

Haha @Wwanderer . Reading your review of kitty made my day. I cannot believe I missed it.
I actually didn't realize you were also a member of the fan club.

Quite agree with the overall feeling... With a life full of good memories, there is few room for porn. At the same, as I was told that sex addict people often both watch porn, practice p4p, etc...

 

[BIPSY]

I wasn't able to read the original article as I don't have a WSJ membership but here's an interesting rebuttal from the director of the social psychology program at Ball State University:

http://www.vice.com/read/the-hard-data-on-what-porn-is-really-doing-to-humanity

(It's on Vice so ignore the clickbait-ey title - the article itself is intelligent, well researched and includes plenty of statistics)

 

[TheScientist]

They choose, for whatever reasons, their own circumstances, and that makes them victims? That makes us responsible for those victims being exploited? And by association, if I choose to watch porn, I am an exploiter?

Hell yeah! Obey the thought directives of The Left or you are a horrible person. Of course as a cisgender heterosexual white male, you are already worse than Hitler and deserve eternal damnation as well as years of Thought Correction Therapy.

 

[roots reggae]

I wasn't able to read the original article as I don't have a WSJ membership but here's an interesting rebuttal from the director of the social psychology program at Ball State University:

http://www.vice.com/read/the-hard-data-on-what-porn-is-really-doing-to-humanity

(It's on Vice so ignore the clickbait-ey title - the article itself is intelligent, well researched and includes plenty of statistics)

Great article based on research, not opinions!

Thank you for finding it and sharing.

 

[roots reggae]

Hell yeah! Obey the thought directives of The Left or you are a horrible person. Of course as a cisgender heterosexual white male, you are already worse than Hitler and deserve eternal damnation as well as years of Thought Correction Therapy.

It appears as though Thought Correction Therapy is already in progress. Stay tuned for updates on its effectiveness.

 

[Bingo]

Personally, I think porn might have fucked me up a little bit. I've got a few bedroom issues that probably have something to do with a lifetime of watching porn.

It takes me forever to finish. I'm literally jealous of people that ejaculate prematurely. Do you think that could be from porn?

I still watch it.

 

[DeepStick2020]

Porn is lije cocaine! Di coke addicts lose a step, sure! Anything is possible from burning the receptirs in your brain! I suggest you go on a kind of diet! As for me, the best porn I have ever scene was in a strip club in a the States. All the porn I'll need ever remember. TV porn has never been of interest. People into that lose sensitivity.

But I did hear from a small time porn actress that she had problems having relationships and other physical stimulation just like strippers get over time. Perhaps this gas hapoened to you too.

 

[TheScientist]

Do you think that could be from porn?

My mail order degree in Pop Psychology & Gender Theory say yes

When in doubt on a personal psychological or physiological question about sexuality, always accept advice from anonymous strangers on the internet.

 

[DeepStick2020]

But we are all sexperts! I can tell you that 24 hours of sex makes you pee come out sideways resulting in you pissing on your bosses shoes at lunch time. Porn is certainly known to be practiced anonymously and thus also studied in the same manner. Degree or not, he came to the right place for advice. Go to a gonad doctor and get the works done! But I'd advise you to try out this one escort with "pussy control". If she can't make you pop, then you truly do have a problem! Finding her might be difficult.

 

[rick]

Personally, I think porn might have fucked me up a little bit. I've got a few bedroom issues that probably have something to do with a lifetime of watching porn.

It takes me forever to finish. I'm literally jealous of people that ejaculate prematurely. Do you think that could be from porn?

I still watch it.

I take a lot of time and a lot of stimulation to finish. Normal blowjobs and handjobs can't get me off, no matter how good the technique. Maybe it's because I always insist on a condom, so it dulls the feelings.

I understand the frustration well... especially since some girls don't have the time for a protracted period of love making, so I end up without blowing a load. The ones that annoy me the most are those that come already and don't want to do any more even though you haven't finished. I would say I don't come more than half the time.

Could it be from porn? No, probably the way you masturbate. Try to simulate the closest feeling to being with a woman. Gel, light touch. Sometimes I use a condom too. Otherwise, you will be conditioned to come from different sensations than those you get from actual sex.

Other than that, it's also up to your personal tolerance. But as you are in my shoes, some girls will be nice and tell you that you are too strong. Others will tell you to hurry up passive-aggressively (asking lots of times if you are gonna come). Others will be unable to continue after coming once/twice.

I'm trying to work on getting off faster. Unfortunately, I haven't been able to practice recently...

 

[User#16452]

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[Bingo]

Well... I was just kinda throwing it out there. More as food for thought than a request for a clinical diagnosis. Thought it might be related to this.

But we are all sexperts! I can tell you that 24 hours of sex makes you pee come out sideways resulting in you pissing on your bosses shoes at lunch time. Porn is certainly known to be practiced anonymously and thus also studied in the same manner. Degree or not, he came to the right place for advice. Go to a gonad doctor and get the works done! But I'd advise you to try out this one escort with "pussy control". If she can't make you pop, then you truly do have a problem! Finding her might be difficult.

I would very much like to try this one escort. Do you have any more information about her?

I take a lot of time and a lot of stimulation to finish. Normal blowjobs and handjobs can't get me off, no matter how good the technique. Maybe it's because I always insist on a condom, so it dulls the feelings.

I understand the frustration well... especially since some girls don't have the time for a protracted period of love making, so I end up without blowing a load. The ones that annoy me the most are those that come already and don't want to do any more even though you haven't finished. I would say I don't come more than half the time.

Could it be from porn? No, probably the way you masturbate. Try to simulate the closest feeling to being with a woman. Gel, light touch. Sometimes I use a condom too. Otherwise, you will be conditioned to come from different sensations than those you get from actual sex.

Other than that, it's also up to your personal tolerance. But as you are in my shoes, some girls will be nice and tell you that you are too strong. Others will tell you to hurry up passive-aggressively (asking lots of times if you are gonna come). Others will be unable to continue after coming once/twice.

I'm trying to work on getting off faster. Unfortunately, I haven't been able to practice recently...

Yeah, this sounds very similar to my experiences. I've had both of those reactions. Also, sometimes a girl will be trying so hard to get me off that she is literally getting a workout in. Then, when she finally runs outta steam, she has this look on her face that seems to expresses frustration, disapointment, disbelief and exhaustion all at once. Usually, that's a cue to try to finish myself off or get dressed and save that load for next time. After getting that reaction a few times, I've started trying to give them breaks when they start to get tired instead of when they are totally gassed.

Anyway, I probably watch too much porn. I'm gonna try to cut it out.

 

[e-smile]

I watch porn and it doesn't influence my way of having sex.
Porn is only masturbation material and masturbation is self focused lone sex which has nothing to do with couple sex.

 

[TheScientist]

The other author is a rabbi that I am unfamiliar with, if you prefer that.

I'm familiar with him. Two pieces of context:

1. Male masturbation is strictly forbidden for observant Jews. All intentional seminal emissions other than PiV are considered "wasting seed" and are forbidden. This Rabbi is Orthodox so this is the view he will take.
2. This particular Rabbi has made his career as a media figure and has written a few advice/self help books and been on Oprah, etc.

As to how well this Rabbi is regarded by observant Jews, well...

 

[MossBoss]

Money aside, I'd argue that someone who has experienced the inside of the porn industry as having an opinion worth listening to. The other author is a rabbi that I am unfamiliar with, if you prefer that.

Please do not mistake my posting of the article as meaning that I agree wholeheartedly with everything written there. It was merely a jumping off point for discussion.

Pamela Anderson has been irrelevant for at least 10 years. I'm sure her publicist has engineered this sudden media interest in her thoughts as she has a project coming up. I'm guessing she has written a biography or something. With this publicity she is more likely to get invited on to talk shows etc.. to sell her wares.

She is just another Charlie Sheen. Suddenly he has become an advocate of safe sex (after being sponsored by a condom maker).

Often celebrities will say and do anything to stay in the limelight or get one last pay day.

As several people have pointed out. Some people are prone to addiction to alcohol, fast food, gambling etc. It should be said that for some people visiting escorts is an addiction with all the negative consequences of porn addiction. .

 

[DeepStick2020]

@Bingo: Ah yes! It was an escort named Meg (maybe) and she was 19 or 20. I found her in Kansai and she moved to Tokyo briefly. She worked one month in Tokyo and then was gone. If porn had the perfect girl to look at, poke at, and in general give an old geezer a rise, the ride of his life, and a heart attack, then she was that girl. Unfotunately, I don't know how to find her. That's why I stated it was difficult.