A private escort asked me out for dinner and future drinks.

[Akoop]

So last week, I was feeling adventurous and lonely and hit up Skout looking for some of the girls on their.
Eventually found someone who asked me to meet them in their hotel. Wanted 10,000yen for 60, 15,000yen for 90. Insisted she wasn't a ladyboy (many of the girls on skout are).
I've not done the skout meet before, but head out there at around 6pm, a little worried I'm going to get scammed or worse.
Meet her at her hotel and she is fucking stunning. Tall. Curvy. 100% female. Great English. Super friendly.
We do what we agreed on and chat for a while about things.
Then, she said she's hungry and asks me if I want to go get dinner with her. Said she felt like gyoza or ramen. I got nervous and declined, saying I was planning to cook dinner (and probably sounded like a right twit). We talked more and she asked if I wanted dinner again. Declined again.
Anyway as I'm preparing to leave, she then asked if I wanted to get some drinks with her this weekend as she is leaving Japan next week. Told me to contact her.

I'm a bit confused about this. Is she trying something on? She's not Japanese and asked me a lot of questions about things to do in Japan while she's here. Is she just another lonely person in Tokyo? Should I accept the drinks offer? Would I just be hiring an escort for the bar? What on Earth? She's gorgeous and cool, and someone I'd definitely hang out with. I've never been asked this sort of thing by a sex worker before, the closest I've come is a girl at an Oppai bar offering her LINE.

 

[Desktop]

She is human, sometimes people want to do activities.

 

[Sudsy]

I'm a bit confused about this.

My take would be - she thought you seemed like a nice person to spend a bit of social time with.

Underscored by her planning on one of the cheapest meals you can get in Japan (and one that(s nigh impossible to eat elegantly...)

Go for drinks. Worst case, you're out the cost of a couple of drinks.

 

[Lars Lust]

What is there to be worried about? Wouldn’t happen with an agency girl, under strict time management. But at times I have taken visiting, freelance escorts to lunch after we finished. They wait most of the time in their small rooms, with few friends in Tokyo. They also get hungry. If you click, it’s just a nice lunch. You are of course expected to pay for the meal.

 

[Frenchy]

You were way too lucky already to even deserve that proposal!
(Ok, I’m jealous, I admit...)

 

[RoboReptar]

She probably thinks you’re a cool person and just wants to hangout.

Turns out that people enjoy being around other people.

 

[MikeH]

Turns out that people enjoy being around other people.

Science has also proven that escorts, or girls in general, are pretty similar to people.

Just that they are softer, look and smell better should not fool you!

 

[JohnnyWalker]

I have had similar happen before. Although not in japan. I met her on Tinder. She was advertising for service. I ended up meeting her for 90 minuets. After she wanted to get food. I paid for her meal and she went home. Said she wanted to see me tomorrow night.
Next night we met again. She took me to some local spots in town. We had some drinks, she drove me to see some sights, we went back to my room, and then she went home. She didn’t ask for anything, but I gave her the same amount I gave her the night before. She took it. Didn’t count it or look at it, just said thanks. Can I see you tomorrow?

Well, we still talk every week. I have met her in other countries. Each time she only asks me to cover her travel costs.