Visiting Tokyo and Osaka in a few weeks and will be trying Japan p4p scene for the first time. This is my first post here on the forum – sorry if I made it too long already.
I've only done mongering in SE Asia so far. I know Japan will be quite different. My questions are mostly about changing a girl if she's not to my liking. I only saw one post about it here and did not get a good feel from it. Normally I wouldn't be asking all these questions, but I sense Japan is a place where people are very particular and bent on following routines, plus my lack of language is way more of a problem in Japan than in other places in SEA.
With the prices being reasonable in SEA, I can afford some of my p4p sessions to be duds – but in Japan with the prices being 3x-5x, I will be more conscious money-wise. I expect it can happen I get a bad apple girl with bad breath, unhealthy gums, smelly pussy etc…. I'm fine with that at a $50-70 massage shop in Bangkok, I could ask to change the girl, or most of the time I just write it off as a dud, skip kissing, BBBj and FS, maybe do some hand rub and HJ, wrap up the session early and drop into the next shop for another $50 massage with a better girl and a full course. But that outcome will be a big waste of money at a $300 soapie price tag in Tokyo.
From what I've read, in a soapland or health shop, I choose by photo, I pay upfront and not given pre-game time with the girl to check her out before committing. Are there any shops where I can spend a few minutes checking out the girl before entering the room, and choose to back out, and maybe pay some nominal cancellation fee instead of a full price?
If not, will the girl be open to sitting down and talking with me in the room even though I don't know Japanese (using smiles, hands, and Google Translate)… I'm not expecting any meaningful talk, I just want is to sit close to her while she's chatting so I can check her mouth, skin, feel the chemistry, etc. Typically if a girl is just sitting there silent, I would nudge her to smile wide and talk regardless of her English ability. If she continues being unresponsive, I want to cancel her and get another girl, very politely of course. If her mouth is not healthy, bad breath, or other hygiene or health red flags, I also want to change. How can I go about it in Japan? If already in the room and I realize she's not going to do it for me, can I request to change the girl before the clothes comes off? Is there a change fee? If the second girl also not to my standards, can I ask for a third choice?
Are there differences in the rules and etiquette between a soapland, health shop, or shops in Matsushima Shinchi and such? Note, I do NOT speak Japanese.
Please share your advice on whatever you can from the above. Thanks.
I've only done mongering in SE Asia so far. I know Japan will be quite different. My questions are mostly about changing a girl if she's not to my liking. I only saw one post about it here and did not get a good feel from it. Normally I wouldn't be asking all these questions, but I sense Japan is a place where people are very particular and bent on following routines, plus my lack of language is way more of a problem in Japan than in other places in SEA.
With the prices being reasonable in SEA, I can afford some of my p4p sessions to be duds – but in Japan with the prices being 3x-5x, I will be more conscious money-wise. I expect it can happen I get a bad apple girl with bad breath, unhealthy gums, smelly pussy etc…. I'm fine with that at a $50-70 massage shop in Bangkok, I could ask to change the girl, or most of the time I just write it off as a dud, skip kissing, BBBj and FS, maybe do some hand rub and HJ, wrap up the session early and drop into the next shop for another $50 massage with a better girl and a full course. But that outcome will be a big waste of money at a $300 soapie price tag in Tokyo.
From what I've read, in a soapland or health shop, I choose by photo, I pay upfront and not given pre-game time with the girl to check her out before committing. Are there any shops where I can spend a few minutes checking out the girl before entering the room, and choose to back out, and maybe pay some nominal cancellation fee instead of a full price?
If not, will the girl be open to sitting down and talking with me in the room even though I don't know Japanese (using smiles, hands, and Google Translate)… I'm not expecting any meaningful talk, I just want is to sit close to her while she's chatting so I can check her mouth, skin, feel the chemistry, etc. Typically if a girl is just sitting there silent, I would nudge her to smile wide and talk regardless of her English ability. If she continues being unresponsive, I want to cancel her and get another girl, very politely of course. If her mouth is not healthy, bad breath, or other hygiene or health red flags, I also want to change. How can I go about it in Japan? If already in the room and I realize she's not going to do it for me, can I request to change the girl before the clothes comes off? Is there a change fee? If the second girl also not to my standards, can I ask for a third choice?
Are there differences in the rules and etiquette between a soapland, health shop, or shops in Matsushima Shinchi and such? Note, I do NOT speak Japanese.
Please share your advice on whatever you can from the above. Thanks.
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