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Hi

I am 30. 2 days back, First time I visited to decent Health shop.. I got BBBJ, etc for 15000 JPY, 60 min course, no FS...

Suddenly I am realizing that any way of transmission of diseases due to mouth kiss and BBBJ....

Kindly advise, should I need to go and check the doctor. Or I can trust that I visited the decent health shop, no worries about transmission...

Pls advise
 
I mean if you are truly worried, it can’t hurt to get checked. Don’t know where you are from but I’m sure they are “discreet” clinics that can check and I’m pretty sure it doesn’t cost a million dollar.

One way to check is if the health shop you visited has a website, check if the provider is still listed there. Shops wouldn’t want their provider to spread anything. Plus, I wouldn’t worry about HIV at all through BBBJ. Only if you had an open wound and the provider had HIV, it’s not even anything to worry about. Far as I know (and read on Google), chances of an STD through BBBJ are slim but as I said, totally up to you it can’t hurt to get checked.
 
paid service is like driving, if you are worry about car accident.
if you do it regularly, you can go checkup once 6 months or a year.
if you plan to stop this kind of activities, wait for a month or 3 for checkup.
some times syptoms don't appear so fast, you dun have to go immediate.
 
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Hi

I am 30. 2 days back, First time I visited to decent Health shop.. I got BBBJ, etc for 15000 JPY, 60 min course, no FS...

Suddenly I am realizing that any way of transmission of diseases due to mouth kiss and BBBJ....

Kindly advise, should I need to go and check the doctor. Or I can trust that I visited the decent health shop, no worries about transmission...

Pls advise


You'll find lots of posts from folks on the thread with similar questions. You will also read many of their opinions, some spot on, others not so.

Here's a post from a specialist:


H. Hunter Handsfield, M.D.
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Directly to the questions.

1) Gonorrhea and fellatio: In general, penile exposure to a partner's mouth is low risk for STD (much lower than vaginal or anal sex), but of the STDs that are seen, gonorrhea is among the most common. There are no data to estimate the numerical risk, but the large majority of exposures don't result in gonorrhea transmisison, even if the oral partner has gonorrhea of the throat. And gonorrhea is uncommon in heterosexual women. These factors translate to a very low risk for any particular exposure of the sort you describe, probably only one chance in several thousand.

2) Urethral gonorrhea without symptoms is rare. If you weren't discharging pus from your penis by 7 days, almost certainly you weren't infected and didn't need testing. In any case, testing at 7 days is fine. It takes only 2-3 days for gonorrhea tests to be positive.

3) That dose of amoxicillin probably would cure 80-90% of gonorrhea cases. About 10-20% of gonorrhea bacteria in North America are totally resistant to all drugs of the penicillin class (which includes amoxicillin).

4) Transmission efficiency: It undoubtedly has to do with the how many bacteria are present in the throat of infected people, the fact that saliva inhibits many bacteria, and that in most episodes of oral sex, the amount of oral secretions that get into the urethra is small. But this is just common sense, not data. No research has been done and I don't expect ever will be done on such an arcane issue.

5) If you search the medical literature, you will find that I was the investigator who first pointed out the very existance of asymptomatic urethral gonorrhea in men, 35 years ago. At the time, it appeared that up to 10% of urethral infections stayed asymptomatc. However, we now know that some gonorrhea strains are more likely than others to result in infection without symptoms. For a variety of reasons, those particular strains currently are rare in almost all parts of the world. Today, most likely at least 99% of urethral gonorrhea infections result in symptoms, although sometimes they can be mild.

You've got it right about HIV and syphilis, although testing for those still would be warranted in some settings involving oral-genital exposure, such as in men who have sex with men and in parts of the world where those infections are more common than in Europe and North America.

https://www.medhelp.org/posts/STDs/Oral-Sex-Clarifications-and-more-/show/516654

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Girls and shops are way more careful about STDs. Even at worse, it's not life-threatening.

However, you have to deal with your anxiety. Consulting a doctor really helps. You can find several contact addresses of English-speaking doctors in the STD forum. You know how to use the search function?
 
my last check was after oct17, it was for my peace of mind, it was for my past history years of sex, even though i have no syptoms at all, i just want to make sure.
so don't be so afraid after paid service and immediate go check up.
i can tell you 99.9% you will be safe, only if you are the 0.1%, haha.
don't worry, don't panic, not every times having paid sex will hit jackpot, it will be quite slim.
give yourself some times,some weeks, relax, and go for check up if it give you a peace of time.
 
One way to check is if the health shop you visited has a website, check if the provider is still listed there.

That is not a very good advice. You cannot diagnose your STDs by looking at a work schedule of a health shop. Girls come and go all the time so if she decides to go back home to Shizuoka and disappears on the roster only then you get tested? :p

The girl might not know she is infected, she might not tell the shop, the shop might not care and even if they did they might take her off work but keep her schedule on to prevent people thinking she has something.

paid service is like driving, if you are worry about car accident.

But this is a good analogy. And it goes for all sex, not just paid. When driving it is good idea to use seat belt all the time and drive safely. If you are still so worried about driving that you cannot sleep at night then it's better not to do it.

Just remember all the news about horrible car accidents are true, but there are still way more trips that do not end up in the news and in general driving is pretty safe.
 
my last check was after oct17, it was for my peace of mind, it was for my past history years of sex, even though i have no syptoms at all, i just want to make sure.
so don't be so afraid after paid service and immediate go check up.
i can tell you 99.9% you will be safe, only if you are the 0.01%, haha.
don't worry, don't panic, not every times having paid sex will hit jackpot, it will be quite slim.
give yourself some times,some weeks, relax, and go for check up if it give you a peace of time.
Thanks a lot..
will wait a month or two then will do checkup for peace of mind. ,
 
will wait a month or two then will do checkup for peace of mind. ,

You are not testing for HIV so that long is not necessary. Wait for a week and get tested. Though in most cases you already have symptoms by that if you got anything.
 
That is not a very good advice. You cannot diagnose your STDs by looking at a work schedule of a health shop. Girls come and go all the time so if she decides to go back home to Shizuoka and disappears on the roster only then you get tested? :p

The girl might not know she is infected, she might not tell the shop, the shop might not care and even if they did they might take her off work but keep her schedule on to prevent people thinking she has something

So true, didn’t think about that one. In my defense, it was was more of a “tip/trick” than an actual fact or way of checking :p
 
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You'll find lots of posts from folks on the thread with similar questions. You will also read many of their opinions, some spot on, others not so.

Here's a post from a specialist:


H. Hunter Handsfield, M.D.
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Directly to the questions.

https://www.medhelp.org/posts/STDs/Oral-Sex-Clarifications-and-more-/show/516654

***Disclaimer

It appears that there are reports of high levels of exposures in and around the area of Shizouka.
Additionally, there are similar reports of allegedly female roommates infecting allegedly sleeping innocents in the same prefecture.

Thanks.. Link was really helpful
 
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Kindly advise, should I need to go and check the doctor. Or I can trust that I visited the decent health shop, no worries about transmission...

If you're going to get tested, wait until symptoms show up or a few weeks have passed. Asymptomatic chlamydia can take a few weeks to develop.

If you have symptomatic gonorrhea or chlamydia, you'll know.