It's bit a long text to say, simply reacting to the image and rant something towards that situation. I don't know if your husband is black person, but I or we don't mind about any races. So bare this out.
My dude, in Japan, there are Shintoism and Buddhism, similar to Atheism, that are not meant to be religious, but tend towards humanistic rights and world's common sense in love, and there is no such thing as polygamy except for few religions such as Islam. One-to-one marriage to both man and woman is just enough. Of course, I'm Catholic, but with Atheist thinking, that we admire beauty of beloved ladies and wives, and we give respect and care to them as well as giving them stages of open-mindedness.
How could that husband say that oh I just met [A girl], and this [B girl] had great encounters while doing that again. That is already insulting. We have already aware that one of respected escorts informed you those scenarios of what exactly he's thinking of; well unfortunately and thank goodness, you don't care about him anymore.
Please don't tell us that he is a sex symbol. What is that!? Ok let me respond to that; I or we don't need to be symbolic or sexy to any girl, and we are fine with the ways of our appearances. If he is in his state, just screw that duck man, and if you wish him good luck and he doesn't aware how to make a divorce paper, I advise you: quickly file the divorce document you wish for.
I am sorry to hear, but I or we do not defend him for not opening up to his wife. It's too late to return sexy preferences to his beloved wife with holding him back ultimately. Once done is sexily done for life.
That last we noticed your posts were about finding beloved ladies to join threesome encounter, and suddenly escalated out of struggles on why your husband bushed out of his male peers like what exactly the other guy trying to show up his sex friends with benefits.
I say that if any couple are loving each other while looking for other people to sex more, just be yourself, be natural and upfront, don't be hideous with excuses. That's my takeaway. Still, if your husband persists like please come back and say I never do it again, respond back never say never, and kick him out of his monkey butt.
Lastly for Ms.
@yuri03 (I'm sorry for tagging), I bet your husband is a TAG member, aimlessly reacting anything new and seeing that same image like Oh my goodness! that's our conversations we conversed each other.
So hopefully, we could counter him any situations down to de-escalation stages.
And for the husband, I say congratulations to you; your wife is seriously and angrily taken by any of us such as me.
/// Well, for instance, I say I am not ready to love and to marry any lady; I need to love myself before loving other people including men, newhalf, and kids; just trying to secure up a hopeful career to find serviceable work. ///
If your husband doesn't love himself, it means that he fails to aware himself on what exactly he's feeling aimlessly on surroundings. I just learned a lesson that if you are going to find a nice girl, just love yourself simply by getting a nice job, and earn yourself to set life goals ahead of you.
Anyway, that's all of my ranting.