An escorts own pleasure

[RandomTokyoGuy]

That is what I hear a lot too about escorts not wanting to orgasm during an appointment. I guess it also gives away control over the whole situation. I can kinda understand where they are coming from. I don't think it's so easy to relax completely with a stranger you haven't met before.

I had some girls who always were very conscious about using condoms, but after some throughout foreplay, it was suddenly me who had to be on guard to not get suddenly pulled in somewhere unprepared
So I guess loosing control isn't a completely weird concern.

 

[Frenchy]

I had some girls who always were very conscious about using condoms, but after some throughout foreplay, it was suddenly me who had to be on guard to not get suddenly pulled in somewhere unprepared
So I guess loosing control isn't a completely weird concern.

Note to self: avoid girls RTG played with

 

[RandomTokyoGuy]

Note to self: avoid girls RTG played with

You sure you want to restrict yourself that much?

 

[KnocNok]

If you are orgasming, then you are opening yourself up and being real - that may be more powerful and rewarding for him than anything else you could do.

It's not always comfortable or easy to open up - and no one could blame you for wanting to protect yourself - but after the other thread I think we can say that often what someone is looking for is a genuine human connection with another person.

Sounds about right. While it's still business, that doesn't mean you have to subdue you're own personal interest in what is happening at that time. If a girl asked me to continue DATY because she was genuinely enjoying it, I would do so without hesitation since it would mean more to me than dismissing the whole session as a "wham-bam-thank-you-ma'am" encounter (if I want a cold emotionless session, I'll get an onnahole).
Even if our time may be brief and sex is the major reason for hooking up, I would still prefer it to not be a one-sided thing. If my efforts fail, so be it. But dammit I'm going to try,

 

[xanthone]

satisfying a woman is a big part of a man's satisfaction. the fact you enjoy the encounter and want to have a real orgasm is a very good point.

also popping is not the main goal, that is some thing we can do with our own hand. the pop is only the peak of the encounter and there will be a drop of excitation right after that so what will be remembered the most is all what happened before.

if a girl only focus on making the guy cum as fast a possible without really enjoying it the encounter will be remembered as a bad experience even if the pop was given.

+1
I agree with you: I will be very happy if, during a meeting with an escort, she came or ask me to make her come. I dont know how to explain it but i will feel better, more comfortable with the lady, (and maybe also a little bit proud ).

 

[User#8628]

I have another question about this topic.
If a woman stimulates her clit during main action, would this turn you on or would you think it gets in the way of your body and movements?

 

[Jaaz]

I have another question about this topic.
If a woman stimulates her clit during main action, would this turn you on or would you think it gets in the way of your body and movements?

This would be a massive turn on for me to see the woman get more into it. I can't imagine too many ways this could get in the way of the main action, either.

 

[TheScientist]

I have another question about this topic.
If a woman stimulates her clit during main action, would this turn you on or would you think it gets in the way of your body and movements?

I'm generally good with it but sometimes it does get in the way if I'm pounding pretty hard in any missionary variant.

 

[stringen]

I have another question about this topic.
If a woman stimulates her clit during main action, would this turn you on or would you think it gets in the way of your body and movements?

I love it when girls do it during doggy. Sometimes I find myself reaching for the clit aswell when I'm pounding away.

 

[Quietlife]

If a woman stimulates her clit during main action, would this turn you on or would you think it gets in the way of your body and movements?

I am happy when this happens as it seems she is actually trying to enjoy herself more.

 

[Jaaz]

I'm generally good with it but sometimes it does get in the way if I'm pounding pretty hard in any missionary variant.

Ah. Good point. Missionary would be an issue.

 

[Lars Lust]

I have another question about this topic.
If a woman stimulates her clit during main action, would this turn you on or would you think it gets in the way of your body and movements?

I like it. It's sexy and intimate. It ads a dimension when the women enjoys herself

 

[xanthone]

I have another question about this topic.
If a woman stimulates her clit during main action, would this turn you on or would you think it gets in the way of your body and movements?

It will turn me on!

 

[User#8628]

Yeah i meant mainly during mis since i know it isn't much of a problem during doggie. But with mis it feels really good somehow, but it also gets in the way.

 

[xanthone]

Yeah i meant mainly during mis since i know it isn't much of a problem during doggie. But with mis it feels really good somehow, but it also gets in the way.

It depends on how the missionary is done: i never laid on a girl in mis, i always stand up with my harms in order not to crush the girl, so there is room for fingers. And it is so exctitng that
the women try to enjoys herself that it should not be a problem.

#62Lars Lust, Today at 4:42 PM

 

[e-smile]

I have another question about this topic.
If a woman stimulates her clit during main action, would this turn you on or would you think it gets in the way of your body and movements?

it would turn me on of course !

 

[skipskipper]

Very interesting topic. As many others have said, it gives a guy a sense of pride if the girl enjoys it and if it's genuine then all the better.

Though, this makes me wonder about cultural differences and how they come into play.

I was fingering a Japanese provider and she seemed to indicate that she was enjoying it, but kept asking me to stop. Out of concern, I asked why and she kept saying it's because "I was too good and it's too intense." While this could definitely be the case, I am wondering if it was (a) a polite way of asking me to stop since it was actually unpleasant or (b) some sort of Japanese fetish of pushing the girl beyond her limits (maybe I didn't get the hint). I mention that because after I stopped, she said it's okay to start again, though I erred on the side of caution and stopped.

Basically what I'm wondering about is if she really thought it's too intense, or if that's something other customers like to hear and play along with as a fantasy?

 

[Sudsy]

I have another question about this topic.
If a woman stimulates her clit during main action, would this turn you on or would you think it gets in the way of your body and movements?

Absolute turn-on.

That said, one of my former lovers said her first time with a Japanese man, she started to finger her clit while he was doing her in doggy, and he freaked out - he was completely offended that what he was doing wasn't enough for her. She said that he was the only guy - Japanese or foreign - that ever had that reaction, though.

 

[Wwanderer]

I very much like it as well. Basically anything that increases my partner's pleasure pleases me.

However, that said, there was a discussion on a private guy's board in the US (centered in NYC) on this topic and a fair fraction of the guys, very roughly half, said that they disliked it because it made them feel inadequate...the same as the Japanese guy in @Sudsy's ex-lover's story. So, maybe less rare in the US or maybe guys that don't like it mostly keep it to themselves or ...?

-Ww

 

[Jaaz]

Sounds like a pride issue.

 

[Anna Summer]

That's so weird.... don't they know that it's rather uncommon to have a vaginal orgasm?
But I can agree on the Japanese guy part... my ex was a bit offended when I wanted to use those little vibration eggs

 

[Wwanderer]

Sounds like a pride issue.

It is an ego thing imo. If male egos were any more sensitive, we'd probably destroy the world trying to protect them...and indeed, we might end up doing so eventually.

-Ww

 

[Frenchy]

It is an ego thing imo. If male egos were any more sensitive, we'd probably destroy the world trying to protect them...and indeed, we might end up doing so eventually.

-Ww

Oh no worries, guys like Trump and Kim the 3rd would certainly not let their ego run amok...

 

[Exnocomment]

It is an ego thing imo. If male egos were any more sensitive, we'd probably destroy the world trying to protect them...and indeed, we might end up doing so eventually.

-Ww

The best thing I heard recently is:
"Men are like jellyfish, fragile and toxic!"

 

[Wwanderer]

The best thing I heard recently is:
"Men are like jellyfish, fragile and toxic!"

That I am going to steal!

-Ww