Bdsm/fetish Bars Vs. Happening Bars?

[Kittymeow]

We are a kinky tourist couple looking to have some fun! We are actually in a DS relationship.

We are looking for a place where it's okay to watch, and be seen! not looking for an expensive show or any sexual service.

I would say we want a happening bar where we won't stand out as a kinky couple.

I heard some bdsm/fetish bars are more like full of leather lovers and transgenders. no offense, it's just not our scene. we are into bdsm but no fetish.

We are just looking to have some fun watching other people, and being watched while we play kinky. i hope we won't look weird if i crawl like a cat with my collar and leash, and act very submissively in a bar area. other typical bdsm stuffs and sex in a play room as well.

Do you think
Blackheart (bdsm/fetish club) would be better or Bliss-out would be better?

Thanks for your help!!

 

[vck_js]

No sex play in SM bars, they're not made for this. The staff can perform kinbaku on people but that's all.

 

[Kittymeow]

No sex play in SM bars, they're not made for this. The staff can perform kinbaku on people but that's all.

Thank you so much for your help!
It helped tons.

 

[Quietlife]

Kinks, in Ogikubo, has sex play in the bar. You might need Japanese ability to enjoy conversation. But if you are putting on a show, then you only need to be able to politely decline offers from other members.

It would be best to send a message before going.

http://www.kinksbar.net

 

[Louella York]

I'm a touring escort visiting Tokyo 2-6th Feb, I would be really keen to be invited to come link play parties/ shibari/ bdsm events.