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From time to time, I go on dates with Japanese women that I’ve met online. Typically, the first date involves a meal. The restaurants are always somewhere nice, but never too fancy.
On more than one occasion, when the bill comes, the lady offers to split it. However, I always insist on paying the whole thing anyway.
In such cases, is a Japanese woman just being polite by offering to pay her share of the bill? Or, does it mean that she is not really interested in me?
Perhaps some of ladies think that I’m showing off?
In certain other parts of the world the man typically pays for everything at least for the first few times. Later, if a relationship has been established, then the woman might pay for some of the expenses.
The actual amounts involved aren’t a big deal. I don’t expect any woman to “put out” simply because I bought her a meal and drinks, taken her to the movies, or whatever.
Maybe this also has something to do with meeting first online rather than offline?
On more than one occasion, when the bill comes, the lady offers to split it. However, I always insist on paying the whole thing anyway.
In such cases, is a Japanese woman just being polite by offering to pay her share of the bill? Or, does it mean that she is not really interested in me?
Perhaps some of ladies think that I’m showing off?
In certain other parts of the world the man typically pays for everything at least for the first few times. Later, if a relationship has been established, then the woman might pay for some of the expenses.
The actual amounts involved aren’t a big deal. I don’t expect any woman to “put out” simply because I bought her a meal and drinks, taken her to the movies, or whatever.
Maybe this also has something to do with meeting first online rather than offline?