Best (most Action) Nights At Hbs And Cks?

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  1. Wwanderer

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    @Solong and anyone else who might know -

    My dates and I recently had a somewhat disappointing (Thursday) night at HB 9259. Everything was just fine or better *except* that there were very few other customers (more staff than customers) and even less action, aside from than our own. There was one 3-some in a playroom who appeared to be going for the world record duration low-energy semi-clothed gropings session for a few hours (no kidding), but that was about it. Quite different from my previous visit to the same place.

    So, my question is simple - Is there a particular night of the week and/or time of the evening when HBs (and I assume CKs too) tend to be the most lively? Is Friday night better than Saturday night? Etc. Any advice much appreciated.

    -Ww
     
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    HBs (Happening Bars), as I mentioned in another thread are low action, random action, and sometimes scams as they have undercover/hostess women hired by the manager.

    A HB depends on real swinger couples and real people out to have fun showing up.

    Most of the HB managers now do a very POOR job of getting swingers together and don't understand swinging. They only understand hostess bars and S&M shows, thus many HBs have deteriorated from high action to low action and scamming/cheating/lying to male customers.

    HBs are mostly good for beginners, cuckholds, voyeurism, costume/lingerie play, light S&M play... More like an introduction to swinging or swinger theme HOTEL. My friends and I often use them as a kind of inexpensive "something different" hotels.

    Sometimes it's good to take a date or newer lady to a HB, to get her into a sexual mood. Especially as many Japanese women LIE about their sexuality or are very sneaky. A HB can get her excited and into the mood, where words or sitting across a long dinner table wouldn't.

    High Action = CKs (Couple Kissa) or swinger parties (Japanese call them swapping parties). The basic premise of CKs are swapping and swinging.

    The major problem of CKs for guys is finding a woman that enjoys sex and is HONEST about it. It might be better to take to a HB first, so she has a little experience.

    If you have a lady that is into swinging and you are both energetic, then CKs are the best route.

    If you want true swinger action, go to Olive-21 in Shinjuku. Friday and Saturday is guaranteed.
     
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    Nice summary of the facts and opinions you have posted elsewhere, as you mention, and I have read, and although most of it is not relevant to my personal situation (e.g., too old for CKs, not looking for hard swinging scene), your post is probably a useful digest for some.

    All I want to know is what is the best day of the week and time of the evening to find activity in HBs and CKs (I am assuming they are similar in this regard). I guess Friday and Saturday nights are your answer? Either better than the other typically? What time does the party usually peak? Etc.

    Thanks.

    -Ww
     
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    @Ww

    Sorry, as I was generalizing a bit for others that might be learning or shoot me a PM.

    1) Each HB and CK is different and can't be predicted.

    Even if you went the same night, at the same place, it can be totally different.

    Friday and Saturday nights are usually best. Friday would likely be the very best day, but again, the situation is very unpredictable.

    Thursday and Tuedsay are other possible good days (from experience), either early or late, minus the random factor.

    2) However, there is daytime action and special events.

    You would check their website and BBS to see if anything good might be happening.

    Also your HB can be dead, because another HB had an event that day.

    3) Other options are post on their BBS what day you are coming and ask other ladies and couples to join.

    And/or, use Craigslist or AFF to ask other couples to join you.

    Another possibility, but can be problematic due to privacy or worse, is to make friends with other swinger couples at the bar. This networking might help bring more people together at a certain day and place.

    Unfortunately, you need to be very wary of Japanese guys in the HB, who might seek to get unneeded information about you (and do very bad things with it) or steal your lady (a type of Japanese game at HBs).
     
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    Hi @Solong , I assume Olive-21 wouldn't let a single male in? Do you know if there is a best HB for men who would be entering alone and looking for action with action with women or couples? Thanks for any advice!
     
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    Hi @Wwanderer , when was your good evening at 9259? Have you had any luck in the daytime, or at other HB's?

    Per my other post I've only been to Colors Bar. Always on a Friday evening. And I would say 2 of 5 times there were successful for me.
     

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